I'm a christian and whenever i pray and ask for something from God i usually get it in no time. At the age of 27 i still haven't got not even a steady bf. All the boyfriends i get leave as soon as i tell them that i only intend to lose my virginity after marriage. I've always been praying for this but up to now i still haven't got one yet. Is it that i was born never to get married or i'm going wrong somewhere.
2007-01-02 20:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everything happens for a reason! and just cuz ur a christian doesnt mean ur going to get what u want when u want it! i am a christian by the way!! God has something planned for u! just live life! be happy! and if guys leave u cuz of that then they r assholes! and plus they dont need to be with a great christian like u then! thats their lose! god will take care of u! and i dont think anyone was born never to get married. i think u will find a good person! just wait and see what happened! hope i helped and good luck!
2007-01-02 20:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its that VIRGINITY AFTER MARRIAGE clause that is a bit of a deterrent. Nothing wrong with maintaining your virtues. Back in the old days people married younger. 14-24 then and 25-35 or more today. I have been told many times that I`d find all the best girls in church. Its just that VIRGINITY AFTER MARRIAGE thing that always miffed me. Besides does your god permit virgins with non-virgins. I`m not mocking you, it shows great willpower standing tall in your beliefs.
2007-01-03 04:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 25 and though i am not religous (more spiritual) i have vowed to save myself until marriage as well...and as far as i am concerned if a guy cannot repect that then they dont respect me...i have yet to have a steady boyfriend and at times it does seem like a loss..but really think about what you said...when you pray and ask for something from God you usually get it in no time...maybe you arent asking for the right reasons so he is sending exactly what you ask for...that and you learn from your experiences..maybe these guys you are meeting and dating are lessons to be learned for when you meet the one you are supposed to be with....we were not born with the inability to find someone to love us...we were born with the ability to protect what is valuable to us and seek only true love..good luck
2007-01-03 04:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by michele m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're in the right position for your prayers to be answered(on your knees!), I just think that you may need to kneel in front of the type of man you want to answer your prayer in order for it to be answered quickly! Bless you my child, you are truly an inspiration; I thought that there were no more women left as naive as you!!!
2007-01-03 04:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf isnt into the whole sex b4 marrage thing ether we'v been together for 6 months now and i proposed on newyears.
still no sex. im willing to wait.... i think....
any way the person will come along and if not you can always become a nn they have sex all the time and its no crime against there religion ! now is it ?
......
is it ?
2007-01-03 04:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl. pray to god It will be helpfull
2007-01-03 04:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sonu G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say:
Great things come to those who wait...
It' just not your time yet
2007-01-03 04:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question read what you wrote and maybe you will see the light
2007-01-03 04:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't pray hard enough on this one.
2007-01-03 04:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋