yes / no.......plz let me no as to why. If you're already married and wn each of you came to know about if you had lost it for other person before your marriage, how did it fell your sopouse and how did you fell, if your spouse had already lost it.
2007-01-02 20:58:34 · 21 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plz don't take it otherwise.
2007-01-02 21:05:04 · update #1
Yes i am saving my virginity for my spouse . If my partner has lost his virginity i won't care much , it's an individual choice. People can't be judged on the basis of virginity , don't make any fuss about it. i want to be virgin till i get married to safeguard myself from all sorts of Sexually-Transmitted-diseases.
2007-01-02 22:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, erm, I am divorced. I gave my first time to my ex. It wasn't really so great-it's more like something making me "drunk." But I have to clarify that we had sex before marry. She isn't a virgin when we met though. She told me she regreted to lost her virginity long before me. But now after divorced, after all this terrible marriage, I feel it doesn't matter whether sex before / after marriage. Sex is not the only thing important between a couple. Being a virgin or not doesn't guarentee a good marriage is what I am trying to point out. I believe more to give time for each other, to know each other, talk, kiss, make out...build good memory with each other. grow love between each other, and if time is right, enjoy making love with each other. C'mon, not only man want to make love, woman want as well. However we often talk about it as it is disadvantaged for woman to have sex before marriage because of worring getting pregnent ( there's birth control...) or how other people would think ( it's none of their business), or whatsoever. I say if two people love each other, should give it time and let love grow, and when the time is right, go for it.
2007-01-02 21:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married and my husband is the only man I've ever been with. However, we didn't wait. I knew he had lost his virginity very young, but I only expected that. I think it is very uncommon for people to wait, especially men. I wasn't hurt. I was fine with it. He didn't have many partners. If he did, maybe I would have felt differently. I only waited because I didn't meet the right person. It wasn't due to religion or anything like that. It was for myself...my own self respect and it was totally worth the wait...besides...I think guys think that it is so hot to see a girl who isn't ugly or fat who is a virgin (that sounds very ignorent, but I don't mean anything by it). That's very admirable and it blows guys away when they find a girl like that.
2007-01-02 21:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I have lol! I want to do "it" with someone special, someone I love. Not just some **** I met at the disco who might have an STD. Yes, I know not all sluts at discos have STDs or that all women only go to discos to get laid, I'm just saying that I'd rather take my time. Sex isn't that important to me. If it is important to your spouse in the relationship, give them that if they mean something to you they will cherish it and not run off looking for new "booty". It's about trust.
2007-01-02 21:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I want to but if I don't I hope its with someone special. I wouldn't really care if my spouse had already lost their virginity. I just think it would just be special if we both waited.
2007-01-02 21:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Mahabharat, once when Rishi Narad went to meet Lord Krishn and say Lord with innumerable girl-friends, then Rishi goes to Rishi Durvas who advise him that Lord Krisn is the pure virgin.
Same way when Rishi Durvasa used to eat plenty and when asked Lord Krisn as who is 'Nirahari' (non-eater), he advised Rishi Durvasa is that. What you have to know is that 'one who is having 'enough' (mita bhogi) sexual intercourse is equal to a virgin, extra than required is the reason for loss of virginity. I HAVE SAVED MYSELF AND STILL IS A VIRGIN
2007-01-02 21:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool question man. Many people lose it before they even know the meaning of Virginity. It is not important or it is not everything in one's life.
2007-01-03 05:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by harryroyanin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i m married. yes i saved my virginity 4 my spouse. i know there is some people who dont believe all this they just think about themselves, that is wrong.b loyal with ur partner.
2007-01-02 21:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by kashish d 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No...At the time I didnt know if I wanted to get married...I was 16 and in high school....felt like the right thing to do...lol had no idea what was in store..
2007-01-02 21:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly N 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
digging into the premarital affairs will lead to controvasies.if you have lost it just keep the secret within you. even if your hubby asks upto your face pretend to have saved your virginity for him.
2007-01-06 00:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋