Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

ok, i've been dating this guy named Zach for about two weeks, and before that we talked for about a week and a half. I've liked him for over a year, and he calims to have liked me for a long while too. But at the time i was with this other guy that i broke up with cuase he was a jerk. So Zach asked me out and yeah. The thing is is that i think hes afriad of physical contact. He has yet to hold my hand or anything. He is a really shy person, is that it? Or could it be something else? Anyone else find this weird? I really, really like him, but i find this weird.

2007-01-01 12:04:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this great guy. We've known each other for about a month now. We connect in a lot of ways, not just sexually. But we don't see each other often, for he is very busy with work and lives further away. He wants me to take some photos for him when he's feeling lonely. Is this normal? Should I do it?

2007-01-01 12:03:43 · 67 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Singles & Dating

what is a good present to a 21year old young man coming from his girlfriend thats good but not that expensive.

2007-01-01 12:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Singles & Dating

to being considered a rape

2007-01-01 12:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a play with this guy over the holidays. I was immediately attracted to him, but I thought he was way too old for me. Turns out we're the same age- just he looks and acts very mature. I am also quite mature. We go to different schools. I guess you could call us 'friends.' I just don't know how to proceed toward anything further. I only talk to him through email. Any ways or ideas to help make this go forward? Or should I consider myself 'out of his league' and move on? I can give more details of our personalities or interactions if it would help.

2007-01-01 12:00:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel as if my husband ignores me or just doesnt want to communicate with me. I have tried talking (not yelling) to him about it and each time he says he's sorry and treats me nice for a day and that is it. We have only been married two years and we dont talk to each other and our physical relationship ceases to exist. I am really considering parting ways over this. I'd rather truly be alone, than be with someone and feel alone. I dont want to leave because that is not what I thought our marriage was, but I dont know what else to do. Any advice?

2007-01-01 11:59:59 · 27 answers · asked by lalala 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Some idiot called me at 2 am on New Year's Eve and asked me something I'm not going to say on the internet. They blocked their number so I couldn't see it, and I want to know who it was...is it possible?

2007-01-01 11:59:58 · 13 answers · asked by xo_sarah_ox 3 in Friends

2007-01-01 11:59:47 · 14 answers · asked by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 11:59:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This would be the first xmas where I have gone all out and got the closest people in my family gifts which'll have been about 6-7 people... I spent alot of money and wouldnt have traded it in for anything.. but the thing is that i spent money knowing how much extra I'd have-but the extra money i had was in my wallet and A) i lost the wallet which had 350, and B) i bought a gift card for 100$ in the mall and misplaced the damn thing.. thats 500$! so i cant afford to get my dad this watch that i feel inlove with.. Hes not a fancy type of person but knowing that i got it for him, he'd love it and would where it everyday ..At age 17, I kno my family up north would b in awe, due to what ive done for them...I got all my family gifts that i will be seeing tomoro, but not him... I couldnt spend xmas with my fam. due to work, so im seeing them after, jan 2- to the 7th.. Can i get some help as to why i have nothing for him?? And i really would rather say i left it here in florida than be honest

2007-01-01 11:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by ProudSouthLatin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Need help here?
met this girl a few days ago....spoke on phone for long periods of time. I know this sounds crazy but I am really like her. I think she lost interst. I want to call her and tell her what I am feeling, but I am afraid I will scare her away, I have not felt this way about a girl in years.

any ideas ?

2007-01-01 11:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by zigzag 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell the girl I love that her feet are what I love about her, she is good looking in every other respect, but her feet are what make her stand out to me.

She is constantly messing with her feet (removing them from her shoes, touching her stockings, stepping on things) but how should I tell her I like them when she keeps wearing stockings?

Please help!

2007-01-01 11:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I`m fourteen and I live about an hour and a half away from New York City. I really want to live in the city A LOT; I love the city, and not just Manhattan, I`d live in other places. Not anywhere, but almost anywhere in new York City. My dad doesn`t really like the city though. He`d be closer to his work and everything, but he is very anti-New York. Any ideas on how I could change his mind? He grew up in the Bronx, but he left around age eight.

2007-01-01 11:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i mmet a guy 23 years ago and we have been on and off for since then,i'm 40 and he's 59, we've been together now for 9 years and doing most of this time i was getting high and drinking real bad,i've been clean now for a year, and he promised to marry me and now hes trying to think o every excused not to. iwork and is in school to get a degree, i cook every day i wash his cloths and iron them every morning, i've had to put up with his grown kids who don't,
like to clean up behind thierselves.my problem is that he still treats, me like i'm still getting drunk and high. theres been a lot of'
problems and fights during my usage. he started seeing someone, else last year and he kept lying about, leaving her alone for a while. we're only happy for a day or two and hes mad about something, i get sex about twice a month if that, and when i talk to him about things, he ignores me. we dranked grape juice last night,
and said we would try to better our relationship, and this morning,
he start

2007-01-01 11:58:10 · 16 answers · asked by sharky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been told I'm a good looking guy, but have trouble initiating conversations with girls checking me out when I'm out. One of my NY's resolutions is to start going up and talking to more girls when I'm out and stop waiting for girls to come up to me. Any advice orexamples of what works, without coming off as some greaseball?? Thanks!

2007-01-01 11:57:47 · 18 answers · asked by Jay Mak 2 in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy and we've hung out several times. We've only known each other for a few months....and we mostly talk online. But he does things to make me think that he is interested in me....he's met me several times to eat, we went to a concert, and he even went to Wal-Mart for no reason other than to hang out with me. He put me in his Myspace Top 8 too. But he also is sending opposite signals. He won't commit to any plans with me...and uses the excuse that he doesn't want to dissapoint anyone so he doesn't make plans....and he just won't make a move. So does this guy like me and is too shy to make a move or is he just a serial flirter??

2007-01-01 11:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by dylanlovinfool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 11:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by Lorina 7 in Friends

I'm looking for another woman to go thru this horrible ordeal with. It be a way to stay indepented but make it alot of things alot easier while we both try and develop our new lifes. I have child and no finacial means so its not going to be easy alone. But with someone it makes it possible! Sharing babysitting dutys spliting the bills and just plain haveing sombody there for support

2007-01-01 11:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 11:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by KEIOLA R 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 years old and kindof "chubbie" most of my friends are twigs and are comftorble in wearing bathing suits. I once tried a bikini but was so embarrased that I took off my shirt real fast, the jumped into the pool. Then when I got out, I ran to get my towel. I just dont feel comftorble wearing a bathingsuit. My whole family has a low metabolism, and we try and try but it doesnt seem like the fat goes away. I seem to not stay on diets or excersize plans for very long. My family made a New Years resolution to go on diets. Can anybody give me some motivation to stay on these excersize and diet plans? None of my friends have diet problems, and I will never do that either. I just want some help on what to do. HELP PLEASE!!

2007-01-01 11:55:47 · 22 answers · asked by axokphil 2 in Friends

ok I dated this guy very briefly because he lives 14 hours away and he came to visit family wher i live for christmas, he came and saw me and told me if work wasnt slow and rent wasnt $1400 a month he would have me moved down there already, but a girl I know where i live said he was saying bad things about me and that she got the vibe he had no intention of persuing anything with me who do I believe and what do I do???

2007-01-01 11:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 11:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by chrisbrown_boo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 11:54:16 · 33 answers · asked by papsmearpete 2 in Singles & Dating

My partner has gone to bed knackered.....i'm bored!!!!

2007-01-01 11:54:14 · 17 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Friends

In 1991 I had an AVM, I was in a coma for 1 1/2 years. All the so called "experts" said "if he wakes up, he'll never get outta bed" So the wife divorced me, I woke up, and I can do most everything. She divorced me because of the no-fault divorce. I thought at the time, "That sucked" but the more I think of it, I'm kinda glad.

2007-01-01 11:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my parents, and we live hundreds of miles apart. I'm 42 and happily married with three kids. Inevitably during the holidays we stay at their house or vice versa. Three days is about my limit. Beyond that I start to feel insane. What's yours?

2007-01-01 11:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bestist friend just posted a question asking how he should tell me he loves me, and now he's my bf instead of my bff!!! yeah =}, i cant relay on many people and is is one of the few i can(read one of my questions it explains everything) but isnt that sweet?

2007-01-01 11:52:20 · 17 answers · asked by koi 1 in Friends

We broke up because a lot came between us, and he said it kinda got annoying when I called him 24/7. He was my 1st bf, so I didnt really know how to act or whatever. So, anyways, we didnt talk for a few weeks after we broke up, but now we're talking, and getting along. He told my friend to tell me he doesnt hate me, and he needs his space, and ever since I've been giving him his space, we're getting along and flirting again. But I don't know what to say if he asks me out again, because he yelled at me A LOT for calling him and annoying him (by calling him) but now, he knows I didnt know how to act around my 1st bf. And I was his 1st gf too. So, now that we're flirting a lot and getting along better, what does it mean?

2007-01-01 11:52:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is forever enough, is forever enough?

2007-01-01 11:51:46 · 41 answers · asked by Coalie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 11:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by Tyler Scholl 1 in Singles & Dating