Need help here?
met this girl a few days ago....spoke on phone for long periods of time. I know this sounds crazy but I am really like her. I think she lost interst. I want to call her and tell her what I am feeling, but I am afraid I will scare her away, I have not felt this way about a girl in years.
any ideas ?
2007-01-01 11:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by zigzag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From a womans point of view...........don't be too pushy!! Leave her alone for several days. In the meantime........do something interesting. See a play, go to a gallery, take a cooking class, go sky diving ...........anything that you will be able to talk about when you DO call her. Tell her that you've been very busy doing these activitites and you finally now have a chance to call her. Ask her what she likes to do. Invite her out to do whatever it is she enjoys. Or you could invite her to join you with one of your excursions. If she declines........tell her that she has your number and if she changes her mind, to give you a call. If she is interested she will call. If she doesn't call, don't waste your time. There is nothing you can do to make her interested if it's not there for her.
2007-01-01 12:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by kitty-mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her...just call her to say hi and ask her if she's busy next Tuesday because there's this movie you were wanting to go see. Or say something else like that. If she says no...then guage her interest for future activites. Trust me, if she says NO a bunch of times, she's just not that into you.
2007-01-01 20:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by y2jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you think of any reason why she lost interest? Think back, at what time did she cool off and what did you say right before that? Think hard. Call her again and try to move forward with your relationship....try to get her to forget whatever turned her off. Good luck!
2007-01-01 20:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by StephanieM. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u been single for long.. thn its quite natural for u to feel this way, or may b .. if u were upset or lonely abut somethng rite before talkng to her.. its quite natural for any one u were havng a good conversation w/helps replenish u.. heres my suggestion.. ask her out as a date if u can.. if not just ask for some casual hangout.. at some public spot... c how tht goes.. c if she is interested in u.. n thn go frm thr!.......... a tip.. better b practical n try thngs than being emotional n loosing a 'could-be-possible' chance ........: good luk yo
2007-01-01 20:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and ask if she wants to hang out sometime. If she says no just forget about her.
2007-01-01 20:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it a few days, call her and tell her how you feel. see what happens from there.
2007-01-01 20:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the worst she can say is that she doesnt feel that way about you. or call her and hangout with her more then tell her how you feel.
2007-01-01 20:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and ask her out!
2007-01-01 20:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Talk to her.
2007-01-01 20:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋