I just met this great guy. We've known each other for about a month now. We connect in a lot of ways, not just sexually. But we don't see each other often, for he is very busy with work and lives further away. He wants me to take some photos for him when he's feeling lonely. Is this normal? Should I do it?
2007-01-01 12:03:43 · 67 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if you don't want to see them online...
2007-01-01 12:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind nude pictures of you circulating over the internet, or someone else seeing them go ahead. I personally wouldn't do it cause even with a person you trust you never know where those pictures will end up or if one day they'll come back and bite you in the a**. Maybe just a sensual looking picture of you showing a little skin would be ok, but not naked or in a sexual or compromising position. Tell him to use his imagination.
2007-01-01 12:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. In this case you should be paranoid. What happens if you break up and he decides to post them on the internet? Even if you break up and he still has them, whenever you think about the pics you'll get the creeps. I wouldn't do it. You said you've only known him for a short while.. this is a red flag. He wants nude shots and you haven't even had sex yet? That's weird I have to say. In any case I wouldn't do it... maybe if i was married and we deleted them off the camera afterwards, but really it's not such a hot idea, trust me.
2007-01-01 12:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nude photos are fun, and most of us have either had them taken of us or taken them of others. However, they can pose a problem if they're used in an inappropriate fashion.
As a girl, I always recommend that if you're going to let someone take nude pics of you, you should insist that he allow you to take nude pics of him as well. That way, you've got a certain amount of protection against his using your nude photos inappropriately at some future time.
It's unfortunate that simple nudity can be so tangled up with negative reactions, but that's the way it is and we need to acknowledge that reality.
2007-01-03 06:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After only a month I would say NO. He probably has a whole collection of past girlfriends nude photos. Sounds kind of creepy to me. You never know where they'll end up.
2007-01-01 12:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Casper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how u feel about your relationship . some guys want the nude photos so they will know what they are getting in the future . but only know him a month is being to forward but its your choice if u feel comfortable with taking nude photes consider what would happen if yall split all of his friends would probably see them and I dont think you want everyone seeing your naked photos wait awhile then maybe consider it
2007-01-01 12:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Xxxcore 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't, just because he lives further away and wants a picture, give him a REAL picture. I wouldn't give a guy the time of day if the only picture he wants of me is one that's nude.
2007-01-01 12:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You could turn up as the poster girl for hotnudegirlz.com Think of what will happen if the relationship doesn't work out, or takes a bad turn. What will happen to the picture?
2007-01-01 12:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't ever give anyone nude photos of yourself. You never know what's going to happen, and if it ends up going to ****, then how will those photos be used against you? internet? sent to people close to you? sent to your boss? sent to the head of the PTA?
it's a BAD idea.
2007-01-01 12:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by worm22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless you want to worry for the rest of your life that they will be put on the net or sent to people you really DO know (dating someone for a month does NOT mean they are absolutely trustworthy!)
2007-01-01 12:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do it only if you don't care what happens to those pictures, like they could be posted online, he could send them to your next boyfriend, he could make copies and have them published, even if he promises not to do anything like that you need to think that he might. So if that doesn't matter to you, then go ahead and take the photos
2007-01-02 14:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋