Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

I have been having dreams for a month straight about this boy i've liked for 4 months. It always involves me impressing him or me smiling at him and him smiling back. Could this mean something? Does this mean something is going to happen between us?

2007-01-01 12:32:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This person has begged me to go out for about three weeks. And I told him I thought he was too young for me. So, I went against my better judgement and we made plans to meet for dinner. Three hours before we were going to meet at the restaurant, he emails me. Saying, he had a headache and couldn't make it.
Now, this sounds like a no brainer, right? And quite frankly, I was relieved. Because even though he was only seven years younger than myself, he sounded a little immature.
My question is...... Did he just have a change of heart? Or was he just too immature? Or do you think he was afraid of me? Or is he a nut case? Or just simply didn't want to go out with me? Or maybe the restaurant I picked was too expensive. The man implied he had money, as do I. So, what do you think? Tell me true?
And do I really care, not really. But I would be interested in some feedback.

2007-01-01 12:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by classy lady 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me and our 1yr old daughter 6 weeks ago. We have a long list of problems and the truth is he was never ready to get married nor to have a baby. I've never felt like he's loved me. Anyhow i i told him to leave in the heat of an arguement because he always runs his mouth and i cant take the emotional/psycological/verbal abuse anymore. So he left and rented an apt. 1 week later. I think it was the best thing for the time being but my problem lies here: Everysince he's been gone he still comes and tries to have sex with me, he comes and runs his mouth, takes my car when his is broke, and just pretty much does whatever he wants. He locks his phone while he browses mine and the computer, he hasnt allowed me to see his new apt. which i really dont want to see anyways but the fact that he still trys to run my life but doesnt involve me with anything in his bothers me. Im so confused. He will try to have sex with me but when i ask him to take us to the park he says.....cont.

2007-01-01 12:31:53 · 24 answers · asked by Amazon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I flirt with someone who is so joking....I really like him. He is just so different from anyone I've met. Please give me some pointers???

2007-01-01 12:31:33 · 16 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what women think on this.

2007-01-01 12:31:14 · 18 answers · asked by jesuschristjc 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend's dad just died today. I just found out a couple hours ago. I don't know what to do. I feel so badly for her and her family. I want to call her, but I'm not sure if I should yet. Should I give her space for a while and let her calm down a little on her own, or should I call and talk with her now? If so, what do I say? I'm scared for her...and sad, too. I'm so confused. What do I do?

2007-01-01 12:30:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a freind of mine says its rare, but not unheard of. here is how it came up.

i've been dating a girl for three months or so, and she was a big partier. she still goes out about every other week with her college freinds - sometimes to movies and stuff, but sometimes to a club. a fraind asked me if she carries and a condom, and i was like, for what? and she said, just in case?

i was offended and said in case of what?!?!?!? she says she's not hooking up with anyone else and i trust her.

but she and another freind of mine agreed, when a girl goes out - and she's drinking - and she bumps into one of those guys with serious game . . . . its better to be prepared in case he isn't, so she won't be bringing anything extra back to me - like hiv. in fact, my one freind ahs been with a guy for three years and said she wouldn't go for such a guy now, but when she was with him less than six months . . . . who knows?

so - should she? are those guys out there?

2007-01-01 12:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One example (and this one would be a good one to have an honest, but vague answer to) is "when did you last sleep with someone?".

2007-01-01 12:29:30 · 10 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

i am on here to find out just for the sake of a dis/agreement i am having at the moment earlier today i ask for info on nudist resorts for singles and yes i got some great answers and this i say thankyou for very much but my question is this i am interested in getting a cross section of answers to this query ok my girl friend has told me she think it is totally wrong for myself to attend these resorts or beaches as we all should be covered up even in a small way and what kind of male or to that point would a female allow others to view her / him undress i try explaining it is natural to swim lay there without clothing on but she told me no way and if i even think of going to any nudist resort or beach that will be it and break it up with me my question is what does others think on this in the general question of nudist resorts/beaches remind you i been going to these kind of places all my life back home in australia and see no harm in it at all but really what would others too on this

2007-01-01 12:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by wombat4412 2 in Singles & Dating

I hurt his feelings i slapped him 4 times because he pissd me off really bad
he says he misses the "old" me
so im being the old me but hes nice to me one day and then mean the next and b4 i would say mean things back but now i just back off and listen!
and oh he kissd me a few days ago but then decided to be mean the next day and then new years eve we had a nice time we cuddled and stuff but now hes being mean again...what does he want? he wants me but he doesnt want me GRRR help please! i want to win him back because this is really hard this in the middle deal! i dont want to walk away because i dont want to miss any chance that i do have with him....gah i dont know...i dont want to say anything to him because i dont want to make him angrier than he already is.

2007-01-01 12:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by mizzle <3 1 in Singles & Dating

have this guy who
s acting pirculiar... there was one occasion.. that while I was talking to him.. he didn't give any eye contact, the entire time we talked , then I noticed he had his hands in his hoodie pocket, he just acted nervous the entire time, then at the end of the
conversation , he asked me how my christmas was...I I told him it was okay..then he asked so who did you spend it with...And I told him just family. Then the next day, I seen him.then later on, he comes up to me and he's like oh..your face..and I asked what about it, he says..you look so sad...and I really don't want to see you like that and he wants to cheer me up and he asked me what I was listening to on my ipod...and he started cracking some jokes...and then he asked me so when will you be back here at the gym again..I told him probably tommorrow..and he was like well I'll be messing with you tommorrow then..so what do you think? Do you think he's flirting or just being cordial? And if so why no asked out

2007-01-01 12:28:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 12:27:55 · 17 answers · asked by thegodfather7375 2 in Singles & Dating

i know my dads name and his mom,dad and bros name to but i cant seem to find them ive tried all the web sites and ive paid over 200.00 over the internet and still nothing my dads name is william kenith crawley hes 42years old and the last i heard he lived in virginia beach if any one can help me i would be ever thankful

2007-01-01 12:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by melly82501 2 in Family

My best guy friend thinks i like him and he didnt tell me he had a new girlfriend because of it and i found out from 10 other people that new and i didnt i felt so stupid and now I think it could ruin our friendship because he thinks i like him HELP

2007-01-01 12:26:57 · 16 answers · asked by chauntel c 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well my brother hasnt called and no one's seen him i am so scared and so worried if something has happened to him there is no way i could go on with my life he is such a good person despite his mistake he cant turn into my dad he was captain of the football basketball and baseball team he led his highschool to state championships in everything he's an amazing athlete a great dad he loves his kids so much he takes care of me and my mom and my aunt his smiles light up a room i love him to death and i wil always be there for him why wont he grab my hand i'm reaching for him i want to help him and love him how do i stop myself from trying to fix it on my own my fear is that if he becomes like my drug addict father then that leaves no hope for me i want him to be able to be there for my nieces not like our father i know he loves them they mean the world to him but he is having a hard time i love him, but someone let me know how do i let him go and fix it for himself??

2007-01-01 12:26:08 · 2 answers · asked by PrInCeSs 2 in Family

I can't stand life at home anymore. My parents are always paying attention to my little sister, even thoughs he is already eleven. My little sister will do something and blame it on me, and I will get in trouble. My older sister hates me for no reason, and my parents don't even notice me. I have two real friends, and on of then lives four hours away! Now my parents want to move back to Delaware, and I hate it there! I like it here in Virginia! My best friend in the whole entire world lives here, and he is the only one who really know what I am about and he is the only person that cares about me in the world. None of my family lives down here except my immediate family...my parents and siblings. I just want to get away from all of them. I try so hard to please them, and they treat me like dirt! Well, that is what is feels like anyway. I put on a fake smile everyday, and everybody thinks I am as happy as can be at school...except for my best friend, Sean. I have even thought about

2007-01-01 12:26:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is it healthy for the child in this age to bb exposed to atep-mother surrounding??

2007-01-01 12:25:54 · 30 answers · asked by traveler 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is someone you know pretty well (you are a senior in HS)

2007-01-01 12:25:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I could understand them hating me if I had broken up their parents, but they were separated for nearly 10 years (off and on) before I hit the scene. I think they had already started going to court over their divorce before I showed up, so they weren't divorced when I met their dad, but they weren't together either. One of the kids told me that I mean nothing to her and that she wished I would die. The same one told her dad that our child wasn't his child and that he should leave us. I don't know how to react to these kids. They don't visit us at all. He does see them sometimes. They refuse to visit him at his home with us and insist that they stay only in the town that they live in when he visits. He even spends the night in a trailer with no running water just to be with them. What do you think is going to happen with our marriage and with his relationship with his kids?

2007-01-01 12:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and I just had a huge fight, but I don't want any of my friends to know, and my family is in France. I need someone to talk to or something, because bon bons and sad movies aren't working.

2007-01-01 12:24:35 · 25 answers · asked by Coalie 2 in Friends

the guy i like was at a new year's party and he got drunk. he called me and asked me to meet with him. we met and he was drunk. we went inside because he needed to sit down. he vomited and at first i got scared because i've never seen somebody drunk and nor somebody puking from drinking. i stood there and waited till he finished and then i gave him a napkin. nobody was scared and somebody told me to take him outside [again] for some fresh air. so i did and we went back inside because he was cold. i took him into the bathroom and he puked again. we went ouside again and inside again. some friends finally took him into the bathroom and then he felt better [so he said], i went back to my party and wondered if i did right trying to help him or i should have left him alone? did i do something shameful sitting there, helping him? i am not his gf but i like him a lot. i don't know what he feels for me but i know he was greatful because i came... so? what's your point of view?

2007-01-01 12:24:22 · 5 answers · asked by Flavia 2 in Friends

ok let me start out with what happend. my isntructer was telling our class about what her son did wile trying to ask a girl to a dance. well this dude really wanted to ask this girl out to homecoming so him and his friends planned the whole thing out with a poster saying will you go to homecoming with me and some flowers. well his friends were waiting outside the gated community waiting for him to show up and when she pulled up and drove into it the gate was closing and he showed up as it was closing so him and his friends had to jump over the gate him dropping the flowers to get to her house before she did their poster was ripped to hell wile climbing too well when they arrived cutting through a few yards he only had about 3 flowers left in his hand out of breath and his friends are struggling to make the poster atleast alittle readable... she said yes ofcourse but would you do it if a guy went through all that trouble just to ask you? i mean you gotta give this dude some credit

2007-01-01 12:23:53 · 4 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Singles & Dating

Ps: she's not with me, we're friends and she has a boyfriend...

2007-01-01 12:23:23 · 23 answers · asked by almost there 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that the really nice people on Yahoo are like that for real? I would like to think so.......and would like to thank all the nice ones toox

2007-01-01 12:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

The person she had the affair with is stalking me on this site and pretending to be my wife, posing questions designed to cause friction between us. I'm convinced my wife regrets the mistake and all the damage it has caused. She ended the affair, and I had hoped that was that. Despite the painfully obviousness of his sophomoric attempts to take my wife from me, it still rattles me. Must I meet with him face to face and "convince" him to leave us alone? For everyone's sake it feels like a poor solution.

2007-01-01 12:22:39 · 24 answers · asked by rtanys 6 in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy everyday flirts with me..stares at me..looks into my eyes...takes my food..and eats all my candy..and trys to embarrous me ever thought he knows im just gunna laugh..he always trys to make me smile or laugh..hes always finding something to talk about..he invited me to his party...hes always trying to get my attention and everytime he finds finds out a guy likes me he ask me if i like that guy and if i say no he will ask me again on purpose in front of that guy to try to embarrous him and he knows im gunna say no! and hes always bumping into me on purpose!! what does all this mean??

2007-01-01 12:22:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my husband constantly has to go out after work and weekends every single day or at least 5 times a week! When he IS at home he lays like a lump and practically cries because he is "bored" or says everything is "lame" at home. We have two kids and I work full time and he works part-full time but doesn't hold down jobs. He asks me for more and more money every day for this going out. I am trying to save to get out of this miserable apartment we live in and it just goes to him and his bar "sitting". I am angry because I stay home after work and take care of kids and don't go out cuz i don't want to spend the money so often. HELP! We are arguing to no end. He calls me names now and says he is only happy out at the bar!

2007-01-01 12:22:10 · 30 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a loser, you could say. I have no friends, and most of the kids where i live have all gotten into there cliques and i dont fit. im either to dark or depressing or i am not "cool" enough. should i just stay alone and deal or keep putting myself out there?

2007-01-01 12:21:57 · 21 answers · asked by imavictimofwords 1 in Friends

I have bipolar, and my boyfriend has to take most of the heat He doesn't believe anything is really wrong with me. What do I do? How do I keep him from getting so frustrated with my mood swings?

2007-01-01 12:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by Andi 1 in Singles & Dating

Today is my 14th b-day, and everything is going wrong, my dad left, my mom and i got into an argument. i have been crying all day because i think i am fat!! I did get to open presents and cake, but it does not feel like my b-day, can someone please cheer me up??

2007-01-01 12:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends