the guy i like was at a new year's party and he got drunk. he called me and asked me to meet with him. we met and he was drunk. we went inside because he needed to sit down. he vomited and at first i got scared because i've never seen somebody drunk and nor somebody puking from drinking. i stood there and waited till he finished and then i gave him a napkin. nobody was scared and somebody told me to take him outside [again] for some fresh air. so i did and we went back inside because he was cold. i took him into the bathroom and he puked again. we went ouside again and inside again. some friends finally took him into the bathroom and then he felt better [so he said], i went back to my party and wondered if i did right trying to help him or i should have left him alone? did i do something shameful sitting there, helping him? i am not his gf but i like him a lot. i don't know what he feels for me but i know he was greatful because i came... so? what's your point of view?
2007-01-01 12:24:22 · 5 answers · asked by Flavia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he doesn't know i like him and we talked about it today, and he was very surprised because i came, and in the end he told me that i shouldn't have comed... :(
2007-01-01 12:34:10 · update #1
what a jerk he his. you did him a favor and this is how he repays you. anyway it was nice of you to help him but if he is acting like he don't care so better you back off before he hurts you deeper and deeper each and everyday. even though he has no feeling for you but he should be a gentlemen. his not worth it.
2007-01-01 13:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. You should call him today and follow up on his condition- let him know that you are concerned and still like him- he may be feeling a little embarassed so i think you should let him know that you still like him even though you may have seen him at his worst
2007-01-01 12:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by acey227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did the right thing. The reason he said you shouldn't have come might be because he was embarrassed about what happened. He may like you back.
2007-01-01 12:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made points by being there for him but you need to find out if this is something that happens often because you don't want to be doing that all the time.
2007-01-01 12:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by helping him. You might have scored some brownie points with him.
2007-01-01 12:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋