I hurt his feelings i slapped him 4 times because he pissd me off really bad
he says he misses the "old" me
so im being the old me but hes nice to me one day and then mean the next and b4 i would say mean things back but now i just back off and listen!
and oh he kissd me a few days ago but then decided to be mean the next day and then new years eve we had a nice time we cuddled and stuff but now hes being mean again...what does he want? he wants me but he doesnt want me GRRR help please! i want to win him back because this is really hard this in the middle deal! i dont want to walk away because i dont want to miss any chance that i do have with him....gah i dont know...i dont want to say anything to him because i dont want to make him angrier than he already is.
2007-01-01 12:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by mizzle <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people are right you will feel better once you have broken this off but if you really wanna try and make it work then how about when hes all nice to you and hes cuddling to ask him how he feels and at that point when hes happy with *´you´ tell him how you feel and tell him how it bothers you the way tomorrow hell probably be all mad at you again! or just back off and if he wants you hell chase you. like your shadow if you chase it, it runs but if you hide from it, it follows! and also dont forget to not beat around the bush just be direct with things, but dont face him in a bad mood and dont say I will and then not do things!
Hope it goes well and again my best advice, like the others said, is to back off completely, hes unsure with what he wants, and you are not what he needs right now, and if you are hell be running after he realises what he has lost.
best of luck
Matt
*you- you are special and dont let people change you no matter what, you are you and no one can define who you are. you were created to be the way you are and not to be sculpted by people areound you that you think are everything and that you think deserve it all but the truth is if they cant accept who you are meant to be then they dont deserve to wake up with you, to walk with you, to share meals with you, to laugh with you and to even look at your pretty face and your bright smile, not to even say something to you even if you are not there in front of them. Find someone who is worthy of your time. Fnd someone who will admire you and tell you every second of every minute of every day how wonderfully amazing you are and how it is great that you are one of those people that are unique and not this or that or emo or hip hop, or metalhead and that you are yourself and they see the real you and accept it!
2007-01-01 12:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't get back with him. When I was a teen-ager I had a boyfriend like that and I thought that I couldn't live without him. OMG, after I broke up with him I just couldn't believe the bull-sh*t that I ever put up with from him. Break free, you'll meet someone who is nice all the time. Breaking up is hard but you'll get through it and then life will be so much better.
2007-01-01 12:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes Bi-Polar Naw....I would leave him move on or tell him to make up his mine. I like the part where you slap him you should do it again and hurt his feelings.
2007-01-01 12:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'll say he just hurt in side and rembers what you did. so tell him am sorry i was just stressed out and can you give me a chance and see whats happens
2007-01-01 12:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by noemi m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. make him jelouse
2. wave at him
3. smile at him
4. give him a wink
2007-01-01 12:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up! You blew it, and now it's time to move on!
2007-01-01 12:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is that you want your old (BF) butt ****** back right?
2007-01-01 12:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become a NEW woman. he does NOT want the woman you are now.
2007-01-01 12:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to him.. give him a loooooooooooong kiss and say sorry... never let him go away from you.. hold him tight.. never never give up...
2007-01-01 12:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Shovon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself if he cant take u for who u are then its his lost
2007-01-01 12:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋