okay well my brother hasnt called and no one's seen him i am so scared and so worried if something has happened to him there is no way i could go on with my life he is such a good person despite his mistake he cant turn into my dad he was captain of the football basketball and baseball team he led his highschool to state championships in everything he's an amazing athlete a great dad he loves his kids so much he takes care of me and my mom and my aunt his smiles light up a room i love him to death and i wil always be there for him why wont he grab my hand i'm reaching for him i want to help him and love him how do i stop myself from trying to fix it on my own my fear is that if he becomes like my drug addict father then that leaves no hope for me i want him to be able to be there for my nieces not like our father i know he loves them they mean the world to him but he is having a hard time i love him, but someone let me know how do i let him go and fix it for himself??
2007-01-01 12:26:08 · 2 answers · asked by PrInCeSs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a sister that I love dearly but she has made some personality choices that I don't approve of. She just came to visit this holiday and was very rude towards my father, step-mother, my husband and also to me. I over heard her on the phone with a friend saying that she had wished that she had stayed home alone for Christmas because she hates having to put up with our family and feels like we are strangers. We included her in everything and went out of our way to please her. She demanded to know what gift my father was going to give her, complained because he had to work on the holiday (for only half a day because he needed overtime money), and hung on her cell phone with others to talk bad about us. It was so disappointing! Her husband is away in Iraq and I wish I could feel sorry for her but she is just so rude! My husband is also military so I know how it feels but sometimes I just can't see why she is like this! I know you love your brother but you have to let him live his way. He has to make his own decisions. Happy holidays to you and take care.
2007-01-02 17:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mom_of_two 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs some space. You can always be there for him if he decides to call.
2007-01-01 12:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋