a freind of mine says its rare, but not unheard of. here is how it came up.
i've been dating a girl for three months or so, and she was a big partier. she still goes out about every other week with her college freinds - sometimes to movies and stuff, but sometimes to a club. a fraind asked me if she carries and a condom, and i was like, for what? and she said, just in case?
i was offended and said in case of what?!?!?!? she says she's not hooking up with anyone else and i trust her.
but she and another freind of mine agreed, when a girl goes out - and she's drinking - and she bumps into one of those guys with serious game . . . . its better to be prepared in case he isn't, so she won't be bringing anything extra back to me - like hiv. in fact, my one freind ahs been with a guy for three years and said she wouldn't go for such a guy now, but when she was with him less than six months . . . . who knows?
so - should she? are those guys out there?
2007-01-01 12:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah they can be out there so just make sure to tell her exactly how you feel before she goes out and tell her friends to look out for her and to make sure she doesnt go overboard and also make sure she doesnt dress too slutty to attract attention....
2007-01-01 12:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girl has to carry a condom "just in case" she cheats on you then she isn't the type of person you'd want to be with. From a woman's perspective, if I am with a man who I truly care about, there isn't any other man who could take me away from him. If I sleep with someone else, that says two things about me: 1.) I don't really have respect for the man I'm with, and 2.) I wasn't such a lady to begin with.
People who do things they normally wouldn't do while they're drinking are only doing things they really want to do, but are too afraid to do so without the alcohol involved. Think about it, would you sleep with one of your guy friends just because you drank too much alcohol? No... because I'm sure it repulses you. Your girlfriend should be just as much repulsed by another man, drunk or not.
BTW... someone who's such a big partier isn't really ready for a relationship just yet.
2007-01-01 20:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by jussagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men and women out there that have high success rates if they decide to pursue someone...however nobody can get "anyone" they want and any person with a conscience and morals, who is dating another, wouldn't even be seriously tempted.
Chicks in relationships who carry condoms "just in case" are planning and hoping to cheat. It's not being carried so they'll be safe if they have a moment of weakness...and don't kid yourself that it'll protect against HIV...that virus is smaller than the pores of a condom...
Feel safe now?
2007-01-01 20:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes willing to drop her panties then yes, you dont need that crap....there is a term for girls like that...what was it...oh yeah i remember now a HO...use her like shes using you. then wait for the next best thing and dump her, because thats whats coming your way, dont be a chump this is a full on HO to the 10th power,she shouldnt be at the club anyway the club is for one thing and one thing only you know and so do I its a meat market,,ya put yourself on display along the rest of the players male or female good luck with that mess detach yourself and let it be what it is a fling thats all it is for her
2007-01-01 20:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
Yes, there are a few...
One of my closest friends was one of those.... He'd just pick out a woman, and she was history...... I became so used to excusing myself from his company, that it became rather comical.
When he finally decided that he wanted to settle down, though, all that was history. He's been completely monogamous since his marriage. 16 years now. I never thought he'd be able to do it....go from 20 different women a week (on average) to just one woman for the rest of his life.... but he did.
Namaste, and Happy New Year,
--Tom
2007-01-01 20:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIfe is full of unexpected twists and turns. Always be prepared for the unexpected and you will be the wise one
2007-01-01 20:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by curious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course they are out there. Some guys practice the art of picking up the way you might practice your jump shot.
Thumbs down? What for?
2007-01-01 20:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-01-01 20:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you betcha
2007-01-01 20:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, they have fat wallets
2007-01-01 20:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋