Today is my 14th b-day, and everything is going wrong, my dad left, my mom and i got into an argument. i have been crying all day because i think i am fat!! I did get to open presents and cake, but it does not feel like my b-day, can someone please cheer me up??
2007-01-01 12:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPAY BIRTHDAY TO ~*ME*~ HAPPPY BIRTHDAY TOOOOOOOO UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
WELL YOU NO I HAVE THAT PROBOLEM EVERY YEAR MY DAD IS A
A** HOLE AND I NEVER GET TO SEE HIM EITHER MY MOM DOES SOMTHIN TO PISS ME OFF OR THE OTHER WAY AROUND AND SENCE MY BIRTHDAY IS ON CHRISMAS EVE NO ONE CAN COME AND HEY I TURNED 14 TO LAST MONTH AND IT REALLY SUCKS CUZ NONE OF MY FRIENDS CAN MAKE IT AND I CAN TELL YOU THIS YOU ARE NOT FAT I DONT CARE WUT YOU SAY HEY I WAY 140 AND I THOUGHT THAT WAS FAT UNTIL THE DOCTOR TOLD ME I WAS THE RITE SIZE FOR MY AGE SO DONT WORRY I PROMIS YOU NEXT YEAR YOU WILL HAVE A COOL BIRTHDAY
2007-01-01 12:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by I<3CSI:MIAMI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever dosent kill you will only make you stronger we go thru things in life for reasons, we must learn from such actions and apply it to our life/ future.
At your age your body is going through so many internal changes, weight should not be a high priority...you're too young to be stressin' certain things we CANNOT CHANGE such as other peoples actions so hey DONT let that get you down if u love your parents equally then dont let the seperation change the way u feel for both.thye need their time to reflect as well, and sometimes its well needed to step back from THE WHOLE SCENE and focus on something else... nature the weather, something to calm you and give happy thoughts. Yoga and Meditation works wonders!!!
Wishing You The Best!
;o)
2007-01-01 13:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Criss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Dont let somethings pull you down. A new year is starting and things will get better.
Just look forward to the positive things.
Hell i didnt even get cake for my birthday.
2007-01-01 12:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chin up girly. Life sux sometimes but you gotta keep on lookin at the stars.Find one good thing today, a memory, a smell, a sound...doesn't matter what it is... and focus on that thing. Eat all the cake you want, its your birthday, forget your weight it doesn't matter ( Hell i know i'm fat and I love cake!!)
2007-01-01 12:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy birthday. Things will only get better. At least you had some presents.
2007-01-01 12:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Todays a bad day for me too.I got yelled at,got bit by my hamster,the homework sucked,stress,eating rice for dinner,have to go school on Tuesday,and I have a test,not in a good mood.
2007-01-01 12:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Deanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about the bad day that you are having especially since its ur b-day!!i really hope it gets better!dont call ur self fat its not to good for ur self esteem...be happy with who u are...i used to call myself fat all the time and i thought that it made me feel better but then i relized that it made me feel like crap and that i should be happy with what i look like.you are beautiful inseide and out.tell urself ur beautiful..keep doing that so u will accept it...good luck i hope i helped:)happy new year
2007-01-01 12:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tough, but imagine (because it's true) that there are a lot of people with a lot worse problems than you in the world. There are kids with cancer, hungry, poor, abused and so on and so on. I know that's not what you really need to hear right now...but then again...maybe it is.
2007-01-01 12:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw sorry to hear that. Don't worry, your mom and you fought because she's stressed out about you dad.... hopefully they will work it out. No one is mad at you, you're probably not fat... you're just stressed out. If you think you're fat then do something about it, cut out candy and start exercising. It is something you can fix.
Hope you feel better, sweetie.
2007-01-01 12:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till yer 15th
2007-01-01 12:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by ButwhatdoIno? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋