Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

I feel like I’m waiting in vain for your love
Do I still has a piece of your heart of is this only a illusion
are all those words you tell me about caring part of your own confusion
one minute you make me feel like you and me on on top of the world
the next I’m scolding myself for letting you in ,once again

You tell me what you want and what you need
More than ever I want to be that woman
I wont lie I’m not even close
I too see within you ,room for a great change
And if you have as much patience as me WE can still be
With us the good has always outweighed the bad
The connection and chemistry we share is explosive
Which continues to keep us together
So what makes this turn bad
Why is it so hard to work at love that was once so easy to abstain

I’ve been searching for what I think I’ve found
I know you don’t have the all the answers I am asking nor do I
But when I’m with you make me want to be a better person
and appreciate what is infornt of me
I’m not rushing for a solution just hoping there is one
With this new year I just hope you continue to work and grow..
with me

2007-01-01 15:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by Missbribri 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:39:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 15:39:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guys has been an awesome friend, he will be leaving for the army soon and I am in love with him, but because I am so close to him I dont know how to tell him. I trust him with my life, I trust him with anything and he trusts me also..I am comfortable enough with him to tell him, thats not the problem. The problem is what if he does not feel the same twords me, and by telling him I ruin our regular friendship completely? I would rather write him an e-mail but I'm not sure If I should! Hes everything I want in a guy and I get that special feeling when I'm thinking about him or when I'm with him. He's such a friendly guy to almost everyone thats its hard to read him. He has also made comments about another girl, I ask him if he was interested in her seriously and he said yes~ I dont want to ruin our friendship! But I would love to be more then friends! WHAT DO I DO!

2007-01-01 15:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by Angela G 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and I'm not allowed to date,I'm a Christian,so I guess that's my parents reasoning.But I still don't see the harm when I'm 15.I'm prolly not allowed to go on a single date with a guy til i'm 17! Do you guys think this is strange?

2007-01-01 15:37:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it just seems to me that being urself is not the thing to do when looking for a female and it seems like friendship is always the thing that happen i think my personallity is too strong or weak i don't understand why being who u r is so strange to people

2007-01-01 15:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by Brandon A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:36:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As in sarcastic remarks after I ask him to something...example
me..."can you take the trash out"
him..."yeah I get right on that" in sarcastic tone.
I have told him this bothers me and its my number one peeve, but he doesnt care, I also do not want my son to talk back to me and since he is a boy he will take after his dad...what should I say or do?

2007-01-01 15:34:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People always say that when you break up with someone, I look around and say oh yeah, can't you tell they've been breaken my door down to get with me or to be with me.

2007-01-01 15:34:27 · 9 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Singles & Dating

my brother moved in his girlfriend who doesnt want to pay rent and is a total control freak and he doesnt even pay rent. yet she collects state aid and he works but neither wants to contribute to the household ( with my mom). they are both way over 26 years. when she gets mad at him she with holds the baby from him and us.
anyways, we visit my mom ( me and my kids) it is my moms home. we always have visited my mom. it has been a routine. sometimes we spend the night with my mom. the girlfriend of my brother gets mad cause we visit.
should we stop visiting or should she and my brother get responsible and move out to a pad of their own?

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she will not allow my brothers family (me the aunt) to speak to the baby or even play with the baby.

2007-01-01 15:33:36 · 19 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 15:33:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad is kind of mad with my best friend's dad and he doesn't even wants me to visit her.She asks me why but I don't want to tell her because I might hurt her feelings,but I'm tired of it,really need advice on this...

2007-01-01 15:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by Nashy 1 in Friends

2007-01-01 15:32:45 · 26 answers · asked by confused123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys help me understand

2007-01-01 15:31:48 · 1 answers · asked by littlesiscrys15 2 in Singles & Dating

Serious Answers Only! Please Dont Make fun of my situation. This is tearing my life apart

My b/f has gone to a couple of strip clubs, he looks at porn and has all these sexy girls in his myspace top 8 that he's met. He just started doing this just a few months ago and we've been together for two years now.Because of all this I feel devestated, hurt, unworthy and ugly and fat.I know most of you will tell me to leave him, but you cant even imagine the history we shared.I just cant!Please help me.I know I cant get him to stop looking at porn, but to sneak on my grandmothers computer and look at it in her home all the time is flat out disrespectful..I just want him to reduce the amount of time he spends looking at that sh!t and to do it in his OWN HOME.Its running his life

Question 1: How do I tell him how I feel without sounding whiny?
Question 2: How do I get my confidence back?
Question 3: What should I even do about this entire fiasco..without breaking it off??

Thanks

2007-01-01 15:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by ~Love is Blonde~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any actually FREE online dating sites? Sites where you are not required to have a subscription or membership before you can actually email someone?

It seems most sites require you to get a membership before you can actually send email back and forth.

There has got to be a really FREE site out there.

2007-01-01 15:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by calpal2001 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-01 15:29:14 · 10 answers · asked by angelcatedwards 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is, I feel as though I shouldn't be really low on funds - too old and without a credit card - and I am somewhat embarassed. He is travelling a long distance to see me - he is from overseas and I want to show him a great time and really don't want to be preoccupied about $ when in fact I should be enjoying him. Please help me as I am a bit stressed about this and really want to look forward to his visit and such. Oh yeah, I live in New England. Thanks.

2007-01-01 15:29:03 · 12 answers · asked by talldreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my husband this past summer. Our relationship has been anything but perfect but we have children and for them I've stayed in the marriage. I ended the relationship after a month and told my husband. Whom which admitted he knew about it. I figure I can be honest here. No one knows me! But I think about doing about. I'm not, I'm trying to work on my marriage but its still in my head. Any suggestions? We are seaking professional counseling.

2007-01-01 15:28:56 · 21 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like her a lot. But I used to have a really big relationship with her best friend.. It would be really weird for both of us to go out, but I am really attracted to her. Everything about her..... What should I do?

2007-01-01 15:28:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

flirt with a woman who is having problems in her marriage?

2007-01-01 15:27:59 · 30 answers · asked by stevencaman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 15:26:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife nags at me until she gets her way. for example she will wake me up to go deliver her newspapers. i can tell her know ten times, but she wont stop asking. this will go on for an hour or so before i give in. there are other situations like this

2007-01-01 15:25:52 · 36 answers · asked by carri s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

his mind against them ? When this is far from the truth, he has made his own decision to cut off with them.

2007-01-01 15:25:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whats it mean when u guy says hes got his black card?

2007-01-01 15:25:37 · 1 answers · asked by ~* me *~ 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went back to his homeland to visit his relatives this winter holiday.. i miss him tons, but just.. something else happened.
One of his best friends is a nice guy, he's a perfect gentleman and very considerate and of course he never would think to do anything bad to his frds. Anyhow, we are good frds to begin with and we talk alot all the time. We spent alot of time together since we are bored and nothing else to do. So on New Year's Eve I went over to this best frd's house to hang out, since like everyone in his house is around we are okay to be in his room where we can talk freely. We went up to his room and we just talked about stuff again, and just fooled around. And just at one point he asked if i was sleepy, cause he was and we just lied on the bed together cause we talk that way. When we turned and we realized our heads is pretty close together and we kinda cuddled from there.
I have mixed feelings. I always thought he was a better guy but i met my bf first.

2007-01-01 15:25:13 · 22 answers · asked by pattycatty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:24:24 · 18 answers · asked by Michael Provolt 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a guy at my college that I met last year. He had a girlfriend, which didn't mean anything to me because I wasn't attracted to him. This year, he has been talking to me alot lately which is cool. He broke up with his girlfriend and I have the feeling that he wants to be more than friends at some point. I'm not attracted to him. I'm not going to lie, looks aren't that important, but there has to be something that I find attractive physically. Call me whatever, thats just how it is with me. But the problem is that he always wants me to go over and party with him. I don't know any of his friends and I don't want to be stranded at his house if I'm drunk. Plus he smokes pot which I will never in my life do. I just don't want to be around it. I find it disgusting. So, my problem is, when he asks me to hang out and party, what do I tell him without losing him as a friend? I don't want to hurt his feelings.

2007-01-01 15:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine_3896 1 in Singles & Dating

When I initiate that I'm in the mood, my boyfriend more than half of the time turns me down. When we do have sex, I always have the make the first move and basically seduce him. We've been together for a little over a year now and have sex maybe once a week. Sex isn't everything to me but I do miss the intimacy. I also want to be seduced longer than a few minutes and actually have nice sex once in a while. I've sat down and expressed how I feel about this to him and nothing has really changed. I've tried showing him how to turn me on and it escapes his mind. How can I become more intimate with him??

2007-01-01 15:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by bri 3 in Singles & Dating