Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

it is so... here we go. I was with this guy for about 5 months and we were soooo happy together. He had 2 kids and I have 2 kids and we were supposed to move in together and everything. Well one day out of the blue he says he has guilt over spending time with my kids when his are gone and then feels guilty for spending time with all of them together. Which leave no time for us except the weekends that neither of us have kids. He broke it off, I was heartbroken. He was recently divorced and I understood as much as I could. Its been a almost a year now and we've started doing things together but I couldn't hold my feelings in any longer and I had to know if he loved me still or if I was just someone to take out and have fun with and of course sleep with. He said he didn't know how he felt??? What does that mean, I love him deeply and I can't imagine my life without him again but should I get out now or give it some time??? I love his girls deeply too. Please HELP!!

2007-01-01 15:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by Rachel E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy but I don't know how to tell him?? Please help me??
And I think he like me but how do I tell him I like him??

2007-01-01 15:10:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You a flirting with a girl and she tells you she "likes you", what do you think she really means by "like you".

2007-01-01 15:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:10:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

some of his family before, this was the first time I met his siblings.
While hanging out, I noticed that his brother was asking me lots of questions about myself. At first I thought it was because this we'd met but after a while, I realized that he was just a bit too eager. Even his siblings were asking him why he was so energetic and inquisitive. When I was ready to leave, he offered to drive me home, over an hour away. As I waited him to get ready, I received a call. It was another male friend. During that call, I noticed my friend's brother kept walking in and out of his room, looking at me. He wanted to know who I was on the phone with and if I was in a hurry to get home for a "date". lol...Mind you, there was no "date" waiting for me at home. But it's whatever. On the way home, he was still asking me questions. (His brother, my friend, was also in the car.) When he dropped me off, we said our goodbyes and I was on my way. Is he interested? If so, why not ask me out?

2007-01-01 15:10:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I use to date this guy and everything was perfect until I moved to L.A. I use to comeback and visit him and everything but on more and more trips out her I would miss him more and more but he seemed as he was geting less intrested. I decided to move back and try the relationship again except when I moved back he had another girlfriend! He broke up with her to be with me again but it just didn't seem as though we went out so I decided to break it off with him after almost 2 years! Now he is with this chick and he seems as he is bitter with her and bitter towards me because when he asked me back out I told him no! Is it wrong to be jelous of there relationship or should I just move on!

2007-01-01 15:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by shauniemoma 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:09:56 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to go out with this guy a long time ago. I have no idea what has happened in his life. Do you think it would be alright to contact him even though I haven't spoke or seen him in 10 years? He was my first true love.

2007-01-01 15:07:19 · 41 answers · asked by myangelbarry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:06:42 · 23 answers · asked by Lora 3 in Singles & Dating

i flirt alot with this guy i like, and he flirts back, but when i asked him if he likes me after telling him that i do. he said he didn't know, that somethime he thinks so and sometimes he doesn't, i feel the same way. i want to ask him again, is it a good idea or a bad one?

2007-01-01 15:06:05 · 8 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker2 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong of me to still be in love with my daughters father after all this time?
i mean everything was good when it was just us ..then we moved in with his mother..he put me out of the house while i was pregnant on labor day causing me to have our daughter a month early and then he was making dates with another women the whole time we were together..and now he has gotten with that gurl and she's claiming that he purposed to her..so is it ok for me to still be in love with him and should i fight to get him back..because he says he wants to be with me but i have to move back near him.. and that he wants to be apart of our daughters life and that he wants to get married ..he has finally moved out of his moms house and got his own place and is taking care of business... and has asked if he wanted to get back with me would i take him back? would it be so wrong to give him a second chance even if i set conditions with it?

2007-01-01 15:05:11 · 14 answers · asked by chellediva2003 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is crushing on my best-friend. My friend came to me and said he aked her if she is still a virgin. I like love my friend as a brother, but should i like ask him why he asked her that or should i drop him as a friend, but like hes my best-friend since like everr andi just dont know what to do.

2007-01-01 15:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole Ann 1 in Friends

Men often tell me that I must have lots of dates, that I could get any guy I want, that I could be a trophy wife, I must have men waiting in line...etc... But no one has asked me out....why?

2007-01-01 15:04:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the past 10 years, I was in a one year relationship, then got out of that one for a 5 year relationship and then out of that one for a 2 year relationship and then out of that one for a 5 month relationship. I have never been single for more that a few months at a time.
I can't help but think that I am with these guys for such a long period of time because I am scared to be alone.
They don't treat me well and there is no reason why I would be with them for so long.
I think that I am so scared of being alone that I am falling for any guy that comes along. What if I am missing out on Mr. Right because of this?
I mean really though, why is being alone such a bad thing. Here is my issue with it, I enjoy the security. It also seems that if you are single, the thing to do is drink every weekend so you can find that special person there ;p but I enjoy just staying at home and watching TV and cuddling up to someone instead.
Please help me understand the benefits of being alone.

2007-01-01 15:04:41 · 19 answers · asked by tryin_to_pay_the_bills 1 in Singles & Dating

List the top 5 most important things to you in a relationship with a guy. No.1 being the Most important.

2007-01-01 15:04:30 · 5 answers · asked by Zacklee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 15:03:53 · 15 answers · asked by Mandy_sky_45 1 in Friends

he just old me this a little while ago and is all your so sexy i want to see u soon so when can i what the **** is that all about hes married why wont he leave me alone

2007-01-01 15:03:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:03:29 · 21 answers · asked by mel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister was on the phone with the ex b/f and she shouldn't talk to him because he cheated on her the whole time and moved in with him but now she lives back her and i found out she was on the phone with him. and she keeps lyeing to me and everyone she is making my life more of a problem by making me lie to my mom and i am not sure what i should do anymore any ideas please.

2007-01-01 15:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like this guy that i work with but hes mean to me.he always makes comments about how i'm a kid (im almost 15 & hes almost 17) i dont act like i like him..i dont flirt w/ him or go out of my way to talk to him or anything. he has a girlfriend whose almost 19 & she works there too;shes not cute at ALL. anyway i told him that i dont like him and he got upset & didnt talk to me for the rest of the night & then the next day he was SUPER nice to me but then the next day he always acts like an a$s bcuz he thinks we're ok again. then he asked me if i hated him and i said "idk..no..idk" & he walked away. he apoligized once for being mean one night. &he always asks personal questions too like if i have a boyfriend, etc. i dont really talk to him that much so its hard to know. i jus wanna know why he acts like this or i want to know what some of you guys think bcuz hes confusing the hell outta me.some nights i come home from work crying because he makes me so fricken upset & im really sensitive

2007-01-01 15:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, I like this guy alot and I can't get him out of my head...but the problem is that he has a girlfriend...but his girlfriend is my friend and i know friends come first and everything but he just really wont get out of my head and i've tryed everything to stop thinking about him but nothings working....Help!!?!!

2007-01-01 15:02:09 · 23 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a sister who lacks discipline with her children. She makes comments on my behavior when her own children dont behave correctly. When i stay with my mom (my sister and her family lives in my moms house) usually i m left either alone with them to babysit or i m alone with them downstairs while their parents are upstairs either watching TV or sleeping which is usually about 8:30 9pm at night. Their youngest son *Drew is very mouthy. He cocks an attitude with you just because he thinks he is bada*s which he is only 10. He doesnt clean up after him self, he thinks that is every one elses job. There was a time when i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend *Alex and he kept yelling and saying mean things to Alex. He then started hitting me with a boggy board and I got sick and tired of it so i grabbed it out of his hands and smacked him with it. 2 days later my mom asked me if i hit him and i said Yea but did he tell you that he kept hitting me with it.. Additional Details Coming

2007-01-01 15:01:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-01 15:01:42 · 22 answers · asked by buffy 1 in Friends

My mom hasn't been there since I was 14, I'm now 20. She refuses to get a job, only shows face when she needs something. Doesn't show for holidays, and if she does it only for a half hour. I'm not the only one who sees this. She and my dad live apart. I think just because you are a parent doesn't mean you get respect, but should earn it by being a good parent. I can't stand my mother, I wish I could because shes the only one I have. Is it right to hate your mom because she doesn't act like a mom?

2007-01-01 15:01:34 · 10 answers · asked by All I have to do is dream... 4 in Family

2007-01-01 15:00:57 · 30 answers · asked by Elana J 1 in Singles & Dating

how would you feel if a shy girl suddenly came and told you she likes you? (to be more precise, should I tell him that I like him?)

2007-01-01 15:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 15:00:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl i gave her my number because i told her i like her and she call me will she call back plz i really want to know because she didnt give me her number because if here mother know she will get in trouble will she call back again plz tell me?

2007-01-01 14:59:50 · 1 answers · asked by Hector H 2 in Singles & Dating

But dont women get a little disapointed if you are going with a guy and he isnt big? I mean just the psychological aspect of "wow thats huge" should be enough.

2007-01-01 14:59:14 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Phister 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year already. He is a well educated, very sweet and I can see him as my future husband. He is trying sooo hard to be accepted by my parents but nothing is working! i am sooo frustrated! everyday my parents ask me " so are you going to beark up with him or what? " i am 27 and i am treated like an outkast and a blacksheep because i am dating him!!!!! what should i do???? my stress level has ogne soo high due to this!!

2007-01-01 14:59:10 · 48 answers · asked by may a 1 in Singles & Dating