2007-01-01 15:10:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes and I respect that but now we are one from the day we said I do.. we now make decissions together and thats that..
2007-01-01 15:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mikentab R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean they try to exclude you from the conversation? This sounds very uncomfortable. You can say calmly, "I would like to be included in this discussion." And just stay on that message. You'll have to decide, though, whether you need or want to be in on every conversation your in-laws have with your spouse. Maybe there are times when it is OK for them to talk w/ him alone. You're the best judge of that. Good luck!
2007-01-01 23:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by meatpiemum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about "You're talking to my HUSBAND." Legally and spiritually, you are considered as one. If your in-laws are religious, you may want to remind them about the line at the wedding, "Whom God has joined, let no one tear asunder." Treating your husband as though he weren't married violates their implied vows as witnesses to your commitment.
2007-01-01 23:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"And your son is married to ME...."
In laws are never easy but stand your ground and realize that this is your husband's family, like it or not.
2007-01-01 23:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to them....I am talking to my husband, thank you. And we make all of our decisions together now.
2007-01-02 08:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're son in now part of my daughter's life which is also part of my life.
2007-01-01 23:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus be respectful and say excuse me but this is our matter and I would like for us to take care of this first and then u can have some input
2007-01-01 23:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they are the parents of your spouce so you have to respect them but there is a way to speak your mind with out being rude
2007-01-01 23:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say ...yeah your son my husband now what were you saying?
2007-01-02 00:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And i'm talking to you.
2007-01-01 23:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋