But dont women get a little disapointed if you are going with a guy and he isnt big? I mean just the psychological aspect of "wow thats huge" should be enough.
2007-01-01 14:59:14 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Phister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhm I had a guy who was too big once...
so ya size does matter
it hurt more than anything else
and too small can suck i'm sure
2007-01-01 15:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooo. It does not really matter. I have seen it all in my days. The best is talk to the lady first. Try to figure what she likes. Do small things to get her to talk. Maybe by a magazine with that kind of topic-make casually read the cover of Cosmopolitan at the store with her and if she seems interested in talking about the article, buy her the magazine and read it together. Do it all slowly. Keep the conversations small at first. Figure when you both are ready and then start out slowly. Do not jump into it otherwise you will be nervous and clumsy. Go so. Figure each other out and talk about all. Try and have this subject as open as you would talk about the weather and such. If you get to know her, what she likes and needs from you and that you will talk to her about all and will make changes if things do not work for her, she will be super satisfied. Please please please do not just jump in and try to figure her out by what worked with other women you were with before or what your friends tell you. Then she will be bored and more conscious of the things that she might have been told about guys. The worst is guys that are kind of in auto pilot. They do what they think works and listen for responses. Most women just make noise in anticipation that something better will happen. It takes a long time to know your partner well. Just go slow and be sure to learn all you can. You need a good balance with what she likes you to do and what you like to do for her and all will be good. I hope this helps.
2007-01-01 23:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Екатерина/Катя 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're refering to build, I like medium-sized guys. A little buff, but not over the top. Body-builders? EW!
If it's that something else....well then, I think that you men should think that way about girls too. Most guys will only look at a girl if she has nice-sized breasts. How would YOU GUYS feel if that's how WE judged YOU? But otherwise, size DOES NOT matter if the girl loves the guy.
2007-01-01 23:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is objective, I mean not all women are the same. I know women who complain not because of size, but because they were not treated well. There are different aspects, yet the bigger the better, but is not all.
2007-01-01 23:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a lot of people don't understand most men are average 6 to 8 inches, a real women knows that. If there happens to be more great if not its okay to.
2007-01-01 23:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all...Punky obviously hasn't had a guy with an average to above average length "member" or she wouldn't be saying that "the smaller the better". If a guy is really to small for some penetration, then he better be REAL good with his tongue. Ideally, women like penetration & stimulus on her "spot".
2007-01-01 23:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Baaadsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between 'sufficient' (which is most of us) and 'really big' (which is relatively few) isn't as important to most women as you might think. A true 'teeny peeny' however is a real (if rare) disappointment.
Or "So I've Been Told"
2007-01-01 23:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly to a certain point(if too small) size does matter,but in today's world there are things(toys) that can be used. just remember if you are good with your tongue and hands it works just as well.
2007-01-01 23:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Life is FUn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know too small is a definate point deduction and too big is a point deduction. some women have low sex drive and sex isn't that important so they may tolerate a small one. A woman with high sex drive is gonna need to feel it though so .....
2007-01-01 23:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't need a big guy to make my day. To me the smaller the better. If you are talking about muscle, I hate too much muscle.
2007-01-01 23:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋