My friend is crushing on my best-friend. My friend came to me and said he aked her if she is still a virgin. I like love my friend as a brother, but should i like ask him why he asked her that or should i drop him as a friend, but like hes my best-friend since like everr andi just dont know what to do.
2007-01-01 15:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole Ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its not your place to do either....let them work it out.
By the way, learn some proper english and know that "like" is not a joiner word.
2007-01-01 15:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by doofynic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are ready to 'drop him as a friend' just because of one question then im starting to wonder how good a friend YOU are to him.
And yes, asking him would be ok if hes a good friend but dont get all upset about it.
2007-01-01 23:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great for a female to be able to say that she is a virgin. I don't know if he asked this because he prefers a virgin for a gf, or if he just likes the thrill of being perverted.
2007-01-01 23:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Zacklee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why before you make any decisions. Maybe he is just trying to get to know what she is like and if she has slept around. But yeah, it is a wrong thing to ask, especially a third party.
2007-01-01 23:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that you are "in" their business without them wanting you to be. If they approach you, you take two approaches.
1) Be honest and up-front and tell them you will not keep secrets.
2) Let them know that since you are friends with both of them, that it is best you remain neutral and in order to do that, you think that you should refrain from getting involved.
2007-01-01 23:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything? He obviously asked her because he wanted to know. Maybe he was looking for an opportunity to score, or maybe he just wanted to know what kind of girl she was. It's an annoying question, and I hope she told him to mind his own business, but you really shouldn't get involved in that.
2007-01-01 23:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Dollface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him why , if it bothers you i know he is your best friend and we dont want to think that someone we care for so much could be mean but sometime they can be and not know it and then again you might be wroung about why he asked her so just ask him that way you wont be worried.
2007-01-01 23:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by appleheavenjade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it really depends on if she needs your help or not. if she was just saying that to you to brag, it's fine, then that's their business not yours. and, if she needs your help, then talk to your guy friend, in a mature, consistent matter. after all, this is your girl friend we are talking about. and don't you want what's best for her? i think you do. =)
2007-01-01 23:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a crush on your best friend, dont drop him as a friend
2007-01-01 23:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey arent such things ok between friends?
2007-01-01 23:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by luck fest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋