he just old me this a little while ago and is all your so sexy i want to see u soon so when can i what the **** is that all about hes married why wont he leave me alone
2007-01-01 15:03:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI i have told him off time and time again....the only thing i can think of is to have some friends just beat the crap out of him......any ideas out there?????
2007-01-01 15:12:13 · update #1
because alot of people dont have a conscience--and will do whatever to benifit themselves not matter what the cost is to others. selfishness and horniness and assholeism are the main things that cause people to be jerks this way--tell him to go to hell
2007-01-01 15:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by calebjohnsmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, she is going through life changes and will make mistakes......lots of them. As far as the money and belongings, most states have a community property law which means what is hers is yours and vice versa. However, you may be able to get some of your stuff back in the divorce. Which brings me to the contact with her. This is what lawyers are for. Get 2 jobs if you have to. Get some hobbies. Don't contact her again. Get a good lawyer. She will get the point when she gets the divorce papers and you are asking for ALL Married community assets (money and physical belongings) Don't say anything else aggressive to/about him (or her) but keep a record of the times he has been aggressive toward your communications with her. This will indeed help your case in court, if you didn't get too snarky in your texts/emails. There is nothing the police can do at this point except tell you to move on unless you actually witness physical abuse and have them there immediately. (and even then, most local cops will ignore it if she doesn't want him in jail.) Don't contact her parents directly. If you can refrain from seeming jealous or snarky about her new relationship, you might be able to casually mention to some mutual friends that you are concerned that he seems controlling in your observation of so many aspects of her communication, and that you don't want her back, but you do hope she has chosen a safe, free environment for herself. But don't get yourself overly concerned. She is a free adult to make bad decisions without you rescuing her at this point. Try, try, try to be the better person. Stay away. Let the lawyers work on the property/financial/legal aspects of the end of this relationship, and you should work on reminding yourself that the physical and emotional ties between the two of you are dead and gone.
2016-03-29 03:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from someone who has been married twice and both exes were best friends. sometimes a man finds that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. but feels that the spot he is in will eventually get a little greener. and untill then he will find himself reaching his head through the fence to get a bite of the pasture he once grazed on.
2007-01-01 15:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Terry S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must think you are easy or a fool, because I know my ex wouldn't even attempt that crap with me.
He's a cheater, and he most likely cheated on you when you were with him.
Tell him to lose your number or else you'll tell his wife, because he is not complimenting you by saying these things he is insulting your intelligence and having no respect for you.
2007-01-01 15:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wants to have his cake and eat it to. He may be in love with his wife but if the sex between you and him was good, he's holding on to that. His wife probably can't satisfy him like you used to. Just don't give in. Tell him your not gonna help him be a lowsy piece of s**t who wants to cheat on his wife.
2007-01-01 15:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is of questionable character with no moral fiber. He likes to play women and since most women love to be victims because of weak mindedness none of what I am telling you is going to matter.
2007-01-01 15:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him to F*** off and leave you alone because he is married now.
2007-01-01 15:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are pigs, they want and crave all the attention they can get. Ignore the sorry piece of trash or tell him you'll tell his wife. ;)
2007-01-01 15:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by gj4bama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this, pick up the phone and call his wife. Tell her what he is doing and wont leave you alone.
2007-01-01 15:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. And he thinks you are a push over and will go for it.
2007-01-01 15:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋