flirt with a woman who is having problems in her marriage?
2007-01-01 15:27:59 · 30 answers · asked by stevencaman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to the first response yes i might want to mary her
2007-01-01 15:30:01 · update #1
Would you not be worried everytime you and she had a disagreement that she'd go out and flirt with a NEW man if you married her?
Yes it is wrong beyond a shadow of a doubt. The bible says in Matthew 5:27-28" You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Plus, the woman will see you as a possible cure to her problem. Rather than working things out with her husband she'll just seek your affections more and more. Which will end up leading into thoughts, which lead into more.
Don't end up laid out in a morgue. I'd hate to have to contend with an angry husband.
2007-01-01 16:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The last thing a woman needs when dealing with her own crumbling marriage is more potential problems.
Guys who are attracted to women in troubled relationships are sharks. I have seen it happen to me and many of my friends that when a relationship is rocky, sharks come out of the woodwork and promise a better life. In EVERY situation, the end result has always been multiple problems.
Leave her alone and wait until she is emotionally, and legally ready to find someone new.
2007-01-01 23:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, yes and still yes. God...give her a little space. Let her finish the 1st relationship first. The last thing a women needs is to be distracted what should be taken care of first.....HER MARRIAGE. So back off buddy. Put yourself in her husband's shoes and see how it feels.
2007-01-01 23:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Chris M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. It's not fair to the woman who is having the problems. She's probably very vulnerable and could take your flirting very seriously. She could also make a mistake that will ultimately cost her her marriage. Let her work on her marriage and come to you.
2007-01-01 23:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by GraceSlickChick 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Simply flirting with a woman is not wrong. If this woman is having problems in her marriage, a little flirting would probably boost her self esteem and make her feel wanted. Unless her problems are that she flirts with other men, then no, don't do that.
2007-01-01 23:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by daddius42 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. It leads to worse things than just casual flirting and can have much more devastating effects on the already problematic marriage.
2007-01-01 23:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. That could be you on the other side. Imagine yourself married to the love of your life and you're having marital problems, which are almost always temporary...then some other guy is flirting with her. Would you think it's wrong? Of course, you would. Shoe on the other foot :)
2007-01-02 00:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong. You know that she's vulnerable and when women are having problems in the relationship it's pretty easy to tempt them. Leave her alone and let her work out her problems with her husband. Put yourself in her husbands shoes. If you was married, would you want some man doing that to your wife if you guys were having problems?
2007-01-01 23:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes it is wrong! Simply reverse it, Would you like it if a man ask the same question of your marriage. What would your feelings be?
2007-01-01 23:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If she's having problems, why would you want to confuse her any more? What's your motive in flirting with her?
It would be more polite to wait and see what happens- if she leaves him or not- and then act, then to stir the pot and confuse her now. Even flirting can be misconstrued, albeit friendly and innocent.
2007-01-01 23:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋