2007-01-01 15:32:45 · 26 answers · asked by confused123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's something in their "jeans"..................
2007-01-01 15:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Let's see who did u marry? If you married a dog who was all game you shouldn't have expected that he could drop that part of his personality.
If u married a guy who doesn't have chase running thru his veins, and he cheats anyhow- you gotta wonder how much of it is him and how much of it is you.
i have a lot of married guy friends who cheat. some of them are on a power trip, and do it for the reasons people listed above- the chase, something different, the excitement, etc.
some of them just ain't getting what they need at home. their wives don't sex them up they way that they did before they were married- ex. acts that they used to engage in are now not allowed, sexual advances are frequently rebuffed, she engages in sex but seems less enthustiac about it and acts like it's an obligation, etc. it's the emotional stuff too- my buddies complain that their wives don't give them the respect, the affection, the admiration, etc that they did before they were married. that new girl out there treats them special- they like it.
i just want to say- i've never heard a friend tell me that they are going elsewhere b/c their wife has 'let themselves go'. this whole belief that men go after younger and harder bodies i think misses the point- men like those young girls that look up to them and treat them accordingly. so what category is your situation- have you been mistreating your man or is he just a jerk?
2007-01-01 23:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by stains 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married man strayed bcoz they dun luv their wives enuff...They r only staying married bcoz of the commitment n promise they made in their vows. Men wont break d marriage if its gonna make bad looked bad. U cant really blame d men 2 as women nowadays often get 2 complacent when they slipped into a comfortable mode of having a husband who will provide for them. Sometimes they r even in denial and hv this mentality 'so long my husband comes home to me at d end of the day' n 'takes care of the financial needs of me n the children'...Married men can go astray in many forms...
2007-01-02 00:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by abby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can be for a variety of reasons, and it can be strictly the fault of the man or both of them depending on the circumstances. The man may be immature and always need his ego or manhood praised. He may be a chaser that has the morals of a dog. He may be lonely because his wife is not interested in sex or has very little interest in their relationship.
The bottom line is that it is sad anyway you look at it, and effects everyone involved including the person that he has a affair with.
If he has any smarts he should be honest with himself and his spouse and separate so that both of them can eventually find happiness, love or fulfillment from someone else. Lets face it the relationship is not working, and life is too short to stay with someone your not happy with or do not love anymore.
2007-01-02 00:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by John E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask why are there so many women will to Stray with married men.
2007-01-01 23:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Men are men. Unless they have a relationship where it is explicitly understood that if they cheat, the relationship will end, a lot of men will cheat. Also, women over time either due to kids, work, or just not being attracted to their partner as much as they were when they first got together, don't like having sex as much. Most couples when they first get together have sex like rabbits, and then over time it dwindles, so I also think it is a woman's "duty", if you will, to help keep the bedroom heated. Too many women turn their backs on their husbands and don't think they have feelings or needs which just isn't right.
2007-01-01 23:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by spitonapit 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Some people (men and women) don't have an impulse control. They tend to think getting laid is more important than their kids, wives, and lives in general. I wish I had a better answer but I've never heard a married person come up with a better one.
2007-01-01 23:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Same reason married woman stray. The number one reason probably is being sexually unsatisfied/bored.
2007-01-02 00:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by blue_fenetre 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They sometimes think they can find something better. Cognitive Dissonance I think it's called. Ever know someone who buys a car only to keep looking for another one? Part of that is we want to reinforce that we have indeed made the right choice.
All that and I think the whole internet dating thing makes it too easy.
2007-01-01 23:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by anneboz 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because they are losers and they think that there women will stay with them. I really think that they hav a problem with there relationship and thenk that this will solve it. Some say it is a sex addiction. I think they get scared of comittment. I also think that they like the thrill of being caught. But little do they know that they are hurting the one that loved them and there family they like to throw there life away.
2007-01-01 23:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Mostly because they feel they are not getting enough attention at home. Also because some men just like the "Chase" and miss the adventure.
2007-01-01 23:36:52 · answer #11 · answered by makin_it_now 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋