it just seems to me that being urself is not the thing to do when looking for a female and it seems like friendship is always the thing that happen i think my personallity is too strong or weak i don't understand why being who u r is so strange to people
2007-01-01 15:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by Brandon A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to be someone else? You want someone to fall in love with you for who you are, not who you're pretending to be. You won't be able to keep the charade up forever.
So just be yourself. Some girls may pass on the chance, but that doesn't mean there's a problem with you. It just means that you're not right for them.
The right girl will be the one who falls for the real you.
2007-01-01 15:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start a relationship acting like someone else then the whole relationship was built on a lie. No matter what you do in life you have to be true to yourself. Through life there will be people that like you and then there will be those that don't, but that's life as long as you are true to yourself that is all that matters. Eventually the right person comes along that like you for you and then it makes everything that much better. Also there is nothing wrong with making new friends you can't expect the whole love at first sight myth. Strong relationships are built with a strong foundation.
2007-01-01 15:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by osufan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being yourself right from the beginning is extremely important. If the person likes u for who u are there will be alot less problems in the future. You can only fake a personality for so long and then when the real u comes out they may not like it, so always be yourself no matter what, then u know if the person shows interest then it is in u and not someone u are pretending to be.
2007-01-01 15:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being yourself is the best thing because if you are pretending to be something you are not ur future mate might become attracted to a false idea. He or she will end up liking the wrong person, and the idea is to get them to like you!
2007-01-01 15:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by *^*nyqt*^* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be true to yourself. Consider how you are with your friends, and family. Do you have good manners? Can you make a person laugh (have good sense of humor)? Are you comfortable socializing?
I think that if you aren't yourself, and act like someone you're not, then you're going to miss out on meeting someone who will like you for who you are.
I met my fiance' being happy with who I was, being myself, and that's it. I wasn't pretending, or trying too hard. Just being myself.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 15:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, but only show the best of you. Read Personality Plus. That book shows how to use the best of you and minimize the not so good in your personality.
2007-01-01 15:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to be on your best behavior to impress the person, but not lie about things to impress them.
For example, do not tell her you like certain movies or food or whatever just to get along. Be honest , but be well behaved.
2007-01-01 15:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its crasy but being self is only right cause if u aint then thay accused u of notbeing self id just warn them first so thier wont be any missunderstandings ok hope this helps!
2007-01-01 15:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like a fake, you'll become a fake in their eyes. I'm always myself, around everyone.
2007-01-01 16:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋