My dad is kind of mad with my best friend's dad and he doesn't even wants me to visit her.She asks me why but I don't want to tell her because I might hurt her feelings,but I'm tired of it,really need advice on this...
2007-01-01 15:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by Nashy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just let her know what is going on and be sure to tell her that you don't have anything to do with what your dad is saying---will her dad let her spend time at your house?
2007-01-01 15:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people who are responsible for us make decisions that affect us and there may not be much we can do about it at the time. Most of the time, these things are just temporary. I would explain to your dad that this mans daughter is your best friend and that you value her friendship and that her friendship means alot to you.If you are still not allowed to visit her, ask him if you can call her or write to her. If he allows that then you can still communicate with her. If he doesnt allow any contact, I would write her a letter and explain what is happening so that she doesn't draw the wrong conclusion. Remember, this is only a temporary situation. Dont get mad at your dad. He's doing the best he knows how. There is no relationship more important than with your parents and the Lord. Keep them a top priority. Hope this helps. :)
2007-01-01 23:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off try talking to your Dad and tell him how you feel that this is unfair to you and to your friend. She is not responsible for whatever problem that your Dad has with her Dad. Ask him that if he doesn't want you to visit her is it okay that she comes to visit you or that you hang out somewhere other than her house so that you aren't in contact with her Dad.
Secondly you should explain to her how your Dad feels so that she doesn't think or get the impression that it is you. Tell her that you are going to talk to him and try to persuade him to be reasonable and act like an adult. I wouldn't think that if you were honest and told her that it was your Dad that it would hurt her feelings near as much as thinking you just don't want to visit her or have anything to do with her. She has parents too. She will understand I am sure.
Good luck to you both!
2007-01-01 23:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by sarteaga1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you sit and discuss this with dad? Why is he mad with the other person? Tell him how you feel. Why should your friendship be jeopardised by the actions of your father? Can mum help you?
2007-01-01 23:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to get the facts frm your dad and then explain to him about what u know about her and thensee if there can be a reasonable solution to help u and your friend so it wont cause any hard feelings betreen any of the involved
2007-01-01 23:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by kyfixedit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dad. He is being unreasonable. Tell him your friend is asking and you want to know what to tell her. "My dad is mad at your dad" sounds pretty dumb. maybe he'll realize it's silly
2007-01-01 23:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by kyletexas_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋