Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

ok i like this girl and might be hanging out with her tonight. In the past few days she told me she had a dream about me and said she was gunna show me next time we hung out.So i hung out with her and i asked her what it was a few times but she refused to tell me. So i asked her when i was leaving she said come back its a secret so i bent over to hear it and she kissed me on the cheek. As i was leaving she said btw, it wasnt on the cheek. (a.k.a it was a hookup which she said she dreamed about then came back to her in a power nap). So the past two days ive called like i do every night and she said she would call me back cuz 1st night she was at a sleepover and had to do something and 2nd night she was coming back from the city. Well she never called back, both nights, i put up a semi frustrated away message and she asked if it was her i was mad at.I said no, which was kinda a lie. I might be hanging out with hertonight and im suppose to tell her what i was mad at.What should i do?

2006-12-30 10:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by brillohead 2 in Singles & Dating

So i am trying to get back together with my girlfriend who broke up with me after I wrote her a heart felt poem, so I wrote her another poem.

Look at the sun
Its in the sky
Look at the moon
Its time for pie
I work at autozone
Whats up with the rise in oil change prices?
Do you love me
because you better
You better, better, better, better, DId I say better
So whats wrong with a politcal system
breath mints
Happy new years
you old hag
love ya

2006-12-30 10:06:57 · 7 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife likes to flirt with men on the ''net'' does anyone else like this kind of thing?

2006-12-30 10:05:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

statistically shouldnt I have brown? My hair is blackish and my skin is tan...So whats w/ the green eyes? Sorry I just ALWAYS wondered this.

2006-12-30 10:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by Daziela R 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex-gf was an a very complicated person ...and has a king of thinking that is completely different from what I am used to...her and I were really differents in terms of thinking, especially in terms of beliefs and even sometimes political views ...what is good for her, is what I was convinced was bad for me, and what is bad for her is what is good me ..it makes me suffer a lot, because I couldn't connect to her because of that, as if we were never on the same wave lenght, ...I spent months trying to understand her, and even trying to study her philosophy of thinking to understand why she is thinking that way, and I had to readapt myself everything ...I really lover her, but we were constantly arguing on issues, as she was the total opposite to me ... I have never come to understand her ,..It's only after I got out of the relationship, and after having a few research for months, that I finally understand her ..Have you ever experienced that with someone ?

2006-12-30 10:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been out on a few dates with a younger woman.She is 23yrs old I just turned 39 on 12/19. everything seemed to going well.It feels like she is backing off. What to do?SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!

2006-12-30 10:04:54 · 11 answers · asked by fastryde1 2 in Singles & Dating

we connect so well, we talk for hours then sleep together fully clothed. We feel very comfortable with one another but both of us realise that getting involved would ruin this relationship - we want different things. Is it time to direct him to the sofa bed?

2006-12-30 10:04:00 · 14 answers · asked by Moglai 3 in Singles & Dating

The girl I like is young at heart, shallow so to say. She judges guys by their looks only, and more then that, she doesn't even like ATTRACTIVE guys, but she like's JOCKS from "try" to be hot.

Do you think she might change as she ages? She's 14 now and behaves like at 12 year old.

What do you tell such a girl that only judges by people's looks, and evenso, doesn't see hot guys as "her type of hot"

2006-12-30 10:01:32 · 24 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

when you feel like you are with the right guy...do you also feel happy to not have to date anyone else? do you get scared? or feel tied down?

2006-12-30 10:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i went out with this girl i really like, a couple of times. Everything was going great, but then, she stopped calling me. When i asked her why, she told me that she isnt ready for a relationship, even tho she said "i really really like you" and that she loves spending time with me. She then said that she wants us to be friends. Should i give up right now or chase it? Is she letting me down gently by saying this?

2006-12-30 10:00:44 · 18 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 10:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this 14 year old girl and I love her, but she thinks that I'm not cute and she doesn't like me at all.

I know from my experience how I started liking people that I hate before.

Do you think it's possible that in a couple of years she might like me?

2006-12-30 09:58:03 · 10 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

The dilemma is what do I do? I don't think it is right that a man should have to beg his wife for intimacy. I don't want to cheat on her, but I am so frustrated. My libido is pretty strong and I have needs that simply aren't being addressed. If I try to discuss this with her she gets angry. What in the world am I supposed to do?

2006-12-30 09:57:32 · 25 answers · asked by Warhorse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-30 09:57:02 · 17 answers · asked by ESQUID 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by jessica k 1 in Friends

I have had a trying realtionship with my wife over the past several years. She is the world to me, and the mother of my 3 kids. For many years now I have felt more like an employee, than a husband. There is no romance in our relationship what so ever. Each time I make a attempt at intimacy I am rebuffed. I've done eveything that I know how to do to remain close, with no success. I recently found a secret email account of hers, and very interesting emails theirin. When I confronted her, she told me that he was just a friend that she met online and that was it. They just talk to each other to vent frustrations. Yet his phone number appears on our bill almost as much as mine. My three children are the most important thing in the world to me. My job allows me to see them almost everyday. The thought of loosing that time with them has perhaps influnced my judgement. But I am exhausted now, and I now feel like a fool. Am I?

2006-12-30 09:56:43 · 17 answers · asked by firestormllc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have heard of people that are extremly shy and do not hold conversations well. I am not sure if they are unsure of what they want or just don't know how to express their feelings, how woulld you handle a person like this? I think I may have met a man like this because I always seem to be guessing what he is thinking. I also had a friend that had the same problem and the communication was terrible. He said it eventually got on his nerves and he ended that relationship, I guess I don't want to do that because the guy seems very nice if he would just talk. He came to me and said he felt a connection but he has been making me do all the guess work ever sense. I am not a mind reader. Could someone give any advice?

2006-12-30 09:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible that a 14 year old girl does not really know what love is yet and does not want to have sex or a boyfriend?

2006-12-30 09:56:15 · 38 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend that has a celebrity for a girlfriend. She is in the tabloids about once a month. Just yesterday, she called me up and asked me to steal a car for her. I folded in to celebrity pressure and said yes. Later, she gave my friend (her boyfriend) the car as a present. Now, she wants me to steal two pairs of skies and a mountain. Now I believe stealing is wrong, but I want to impress her and steal her from my friend. How can I do this before I get caught?

2006-12-30 09:55:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a cheerleaders got anything to say about me?

2006-12-30 09:55:38 · 2 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:53:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wrote a thankyou letter to santa thanking him for the gifts for xmas but the one that was at the top of her list was not fullfilled ( she wanted her father to visit and he never even called), i have thought about putting the letter through his door, would you?

2006-12-30 09:52:56 · 83 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family

Mother of child is not friendly with my wife, she uses this as an excuse to keep me away from my son.

2006-12-30 09:52:28 · 6 answers · asked by elnoranesbitt@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some subtle ways of letting a guy know you like them?? im 17!! x x x

2006-12-30 09:51:32 · 10 answers · asked by *candy* 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex doesn't believe me when i say that i will be a better man. we have broken up a few times before but this time she has started hanging out with another guy.

2006-12-30 09:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:51:20 · 3 answers · asked by collegegalok 1 in Singles & Dating

and let them all forget about all the stupid things i did...

2006-12-30 09:50:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-30 09:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We went on 3 dates in a week's time--mainly, I suppose, because he is only here visiting. He will only be around for 2 or 3 more days and then he will go back home, miles away. I really like this guy but I don't know if he's looking for a relationship right now. Should I come out and ask him this? He was burned by his last girlfriend that cheated on him a few months ago. Should I tell him how great I think he is before he leaves? After our other two dates he told me he would call me, but after our third date he did not say anything. Maybe he won't call because I wouldn't go all the way with him--although I wouldn't say he pressured me. What should I do?

2006-12-30 09:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by bluebutterfly081 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

She hurt?Would she still be thinking about me?The friendship over? I've tried to call her 3 times-no answer and have txt her-no reply. Will she get in touch with me or has she decided she wants nothing to do with me anymore?

I really want to be friends-have accepted thats all we'll be.Is there anything else I can do?

I regret everything I've done...she's really special.

2006-12-30 09:48:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating