I have heard of people that are extremly shy and do not hold conversations well. I am not sure if they are unsure of what they want or just don't know how to express their feelings, how woulld you handle a person like this? I think I may have met a man like this because I always seem to be guessing what he is thinking. I also had a friend that had the same problem and the communication was terrible. He said it eventually got on his nerves and he ended that relationship, I guess I don't want to do that because the guy seems very nice if he would just talk. He came to me and said he felt a connection but he has been making me do all the guess work ever sense. I am not a mind reader. Could someone give any advice?
2006-12-30 09:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by java348 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to learn a bit of patience before you scare off this guy as well! I mean you are so impatient to try and find out what is going on or what they are thinking you are guessing and that is where the communication breakdown comes in It hink the problem is more with you in not listening then it is with the men in you life having problems communicating with you. Back off let them say what they have to say.
2006-12-30 10:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are unsure of themselves because they may not have a very socially active life.When you meet someone like this it and you are interested in the person it may help if you carry the conversation until this person feels comfortable enough to jump in on there own.It may take more than one conversation to ease the tension.
2006-12-30 10:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by luciani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg yes i went out with this grl that did that..................
ex: i would say have u seen that new movie
she would say yes............................................................................thats it just yes..................................................................and the phone went dead try to im or talk on myspace trust me it will help if u want to get to know that person but once u guys are comfertable then he or u will talk lol
c ya ........
2006-12-30 10:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by D D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋