my ex doesn't believe me when i say that i will be a better man. we have broken up a few times before but this time she has started hanging out with another guy.
2006-12-30 09:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Face the music. You just don't ring her chimes anymore, but some other guy is. It sounds like you have screwed up too many times in the past , and now she has moved on to someone who treats her better. But learn from this. You'll have another relationship. If you're truly a " better man" , you'll not make the same mistakes that cost you this relationship. Suck it up. Leave her alone. At best, she may tire of this other guy and want to come back to you... but not if you are constantly breathing down her neck. Give her some room right now. You may win her over after all. Good luck, pal.
2006-12-30 10:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-07 19:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman's fed up, there is nothing you can do about it. Even if you two get back together in the long run, not to mention that you have broke her heart more than once, it wil never be the same. She will be practically "expect" you to do the same thing over and over so she will have negative energy towards you, and she will leave you again when something better comes along. Trust me, i am a girl thats in the same boat. So fellas, stop letting good relationships go and when we find something else, you guys " all of the sudden" want to change.
2006-12-30 09:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by DESIREE W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone want you. Forget about her and check out someone new. Better yet, start doing things you have always wanted to do but never had the time.
Even if she does call you (may happen when she has her 1st fight or spat with her new friend) it can never be the same beween the 2 of you. Move on.
2006-12-30 09:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by YaYa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know you and your ex-girlfriend but, I do know this situation, and I am sorry but, the one thing I will tell you honestly and that is, you do not need to start with your ex you need to start with yourself right now.
I say this because you really need to sit down and figure out if you really want your girl back because you love her and can't live without her or is it that it really hurts you to see her with someone that is not you.
See this is all part of human's nature the sense of owership, that is mines, this is mines, "she is mine" and I don't want to share.
it's like when we were children and there was this kid that comes over and finds a toy that is yours, you really don't want to play with it BUT, nor do you want them to play with it. you know?
I do not know what you and your ex may have been through, I do not know how you may have hurt her or what she may have done to you but what I do know is that a lot of times we want something/someone we can not have because that's just how it is. "Human Nature".
If you really mean all that you are saying then there is one way that you can remain a part of her life and just may be it may help you get her back and that you you will have to start all over with her and before you can become her boyfriend, you have to become her friend, and that can be hard if you have feelings that you can not control, when you get around her do not try to run her life or choose her friends for her, just "try" to just be there for her when she needs someone to talk with, go out with her in groups, like to the movies or to the mall, just let her know that you have changed in your actions, not just the words.
Good Luck and I wish you the best.......................
2006-12-30 10:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've "broken up a few times" then you aren't a suitable couple. Move on and allow yourself to meet someone who is a better match. She's your ex for reasons...
2006-12-30 09:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actions speak louder than words. just be a stand-up kind of guy from here on out and she will notice. if she doesn't, move on (but still be a good guy).
happy '07
2006-12-30 09:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
win the lottery.
Or be the kinda of guy you would want your sister or daughter to date.
And move on to find some one els after you clean house.
2006-12-30 09:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get her back? Practical jokes work fine.
2006-12-30 09:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, tell her how you truely feel. Tell her everything she needs to hear. Tell her how much you miss her and want/need her back into your life.
2006-12-30 10:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋