The girl I like is young at heart, shallow so to say. She judges guys by their looks only, and more then that, she doesn't even like ATTRACTIVE guys, but she like's JOCKS from "try" to be hot.
Do you think she might change as she ages? She's 14 now and behaves like at 12 year old.
What do you tell such a girl that only judges by people's looks, and evenso, doesn't see hot guys as "her type of hot"
2006-12-30 10:01:32 · 24 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant tell her anything friend, she's just gotta learn the lesson that looks arent everything, and she's gotta learn it on her own. Give it time, she's only 14, hot people are all anyone notices at 14, thats why poster of Brad Pit sell so well. Dont beat yourself up about it and try and find someone else whos views match your own.
2006-12-30 10:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop liking her and move on. Never try to be with someone who goes by looks and not even personality. You can't frce someone to change. Tell her to get a life. AND 12 years aren't that bad. I'm 12 , but turnign13 in a couple weeks, and I think I behave quit well, If I do say so myself:)
2006-12-30 18:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people form opinions, attitudes, and values about others, based on the hurturing they received early in life. if she is judgemental of people based on looks at 14, she will not likely change much later in life.. unfortunatly, she has bought into societal superficial values that looks are all that matters. she also sounds arrogant and conceided.. stay far away and find a girl who can appreciate you for all the good qualities you have.. let her learn the hard way that only dating jocks can lead to heartbreak!
2006-12-30 18:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like that end up either being trophey wives or they end up realising that the good is on the inside, there seems to be a status to being hooked up with jocks. I mean please tell me you don't like to look at the pretty cheerleaders, what this girl is gong through is totally normal part of growing up she is not an adult has several years of this 'shallowness" as you call it to go through yet.....move on and find someone else that counts what is on the inside not on the out.
2006-12-30 18:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question I have is why do you like a girl you deem to be shallow. You cannot change her, that is who she is now. She could change but it will on her own doing from some new experiences that she will have. She might change or she might be the same her whole life.
2006-12-30 18:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say a thing because TIME will catch up with her.She better be careful becaue that so called beauty she thinks she has can be lost many ways...TIME will stand in judgement of her.People who think it's funny to judge others get a royal rude a wakining so just be quiet and watch what happens.Beleive me somthing will...
2006-12-30 18:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a life. Looks arnt everything. Tell her if she cant be nice to people for their heart then you dont want to be with her. What comes around goes around. OR is it the oppositte.Sorry i forgot the way but yeah.
2006-12-30 18:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bowchickawowwoww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to want to only date hot people. Have you ever heard selection of the fittest? You can't be mad at her if she wants to date attractive people. Doesn't she deserve to be with someone she's actually attracted to?
2006-12-30 18:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you like this girl again? If you want to change her then you really don't like her. She has told you that you are not her type. Move on. She's just not that in to you.
2006-12-30 18:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would tell her is she needs to act her age and stop judging other people on looks and things. tell her she needs to grow up and stop judging them that why their is more to a person then just looks their is also personality
2006-12-30 18:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by vixen63_babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋