My wife likes to flirt with men on the ''net'' does anyone else like this kind of thing?
2006-12-30 10:05:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't have a problem with it she is always honest about it.
2006-12-30 10:12:50 · update #1
She is needing some attention that either she didn't get in younger years, or isn't getting now. Make sure you pay enough attention to her that she feels attractive and desirable. This is the kind of thing that grows into one of those "Oh! It just happened! We didn't mean for it to!" things. Be careful and good luck.
2006-12-30 10:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only reason that I could think of why she does this is because she wants attention. Guys will say anything on the internet to get anything. They are sweet and sensitive and charmin just to get some. It's harmless if it's just flirting but it might get serious. If I were you I would pay more attention to her and flirt with her. I know it seems a bit childish because she is your wife but trust me she will love it and might stop the net flirting.
2006-12-30 10:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Inappropriate. There is something missing here- get to the bottom of it before her "flirting" turns into more. You know when people talk about things "just happening?" well, I sense something is about to "just happen" with her... Communicate and find out what she is getting from these people on the net that she is not getting from your marriage. See if you can fulfill that which she needs in some other way. Be wary. Monitor that "flirting".
2006-12-30 10:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure not many men would like their woman to flirt on or off the net. The question may be is it going on off the net too.
2006-12-30 10:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by colorado_mechanic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and my bf and I ended up in an argument about this but here is what we agreed to. He needed to be open about who he is chatting with. Absolutely no meeting anyone off line (females) unless I am there and if I find out other wise, we are done! Also, on any accounts like Myspace, to make sure he has the option "in a relationship" checked off. Other than that I am fine. He is very transparent and will check his messages in front of me as well as tell me what is going on in his cyber world, so things are better. If it bothers you , have a chat with your wife about it. If left unchecked you are going to start to not trust her and that will cause problems in your relationship. For example you start an argument with her because she burned the toast but you are really mad about her flirting on the Internet. It comes out in other ways, trust me.
2006-12-30 10:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time you started having a problem with it and grow a backbone. She's honest with you? Happily married women don't flirt with men online. I know a married guy who "flirted" online, they hooked up in person and three people got screwed - him, the Ho he met online and his wife.
2006-12-30 10:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont say its ok, because my husband was doing that to me, might still be too. You think its flirting, but the minute she starts asking guys for stuff like going out and meeting you gonna be pretty upset. He never told me, i went online and found out where he was going, who he was talking to and what he was talking about. You should do the same. Shes only gonna tell you what you wanna hear, but it doesnt mean that shes doing what shes telling you.
2006-12-30 10:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she just wants to feel like she still hot stuff and be admire by guys like before she was married.
I know how that feels i love to flirt i want to feel sexy andhot and when other men can look but don't touch then that's the best ever
You know you should tell her how cute or how sexy ske looks from time to time
tell her you want her sooooo bad and call her at work and tell her how you cant wait to get her home
things like that will make her forget about other men looking and its all about you
2006-12-30 10:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by ladylove5426 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too i like to flirt on the net.. my bf don't like it though that is why i am on here trying to find the fun i had doing that... she is missing something in the relationship..i should know i am getting bored with yahoo.. i even went on the lesbian sites so i would not upset him and the AA one and over to the mental health .. it not that we want to cheat we are looking for that missing something.. the excitement that was lost or maybe or youth hard to tell it means diff things to diff people
2006-12-30 10:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea. Whether she's only flirting or not she's putting energy outside of her marriage that belongs to you.
When you have purchased a house and continue to look it begins to make you wonder if you bought the right one. Before you know it you're trading up.
I suggest you stop it and stop it now. Before she trades you up.
2006-12-30 10:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by outdone 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋