Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

girls like him more?

2006-12-30 09:33:13 · 4 answers · asked by plehaq 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, i just found out that the person I kinda like had many partners, sexually. And i know to some people it may not seem like such a big deal. But for osme reason it makes me think twice. What should i do? Any advice needed here.

2006-12-30 09:32:23 · 11 answers · asked by Rick james 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:31:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends are having a party at one of my friends house and as much as iwish i could go my parents are taking me to some gay place as usual with my cousins. but is anyone doing anything more excited

2006-12-30 09:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I are planning a very small wedding in mexico with just parents and siblings. Do we tell the rest of the family and friends at our engagement party? Or let them find out later?

2006-12-30 09:30:20 · 12 answers · asked by LOinVE 1 in Weddings

your ex walked back into your life after 11 years of no contact with your 11 year old daughter, after 1 month walked away, then 3 months later he comes back and then after two visits he is gone again, then his family say they want to keep contact with their niece/grandaughter but then never contact her, have never visited my house, I drop off and pick up for visits (8 in total this year) and have not even bothered to ring or send her a xmas card, what would you do, and my daughter is feeling very lonely as she now thinks i am am the only one who loves her now. I feel like screaming at them all but it will fall on deaf ears, they are all talk and no action,

2006-12-30 09:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family

i don't want to hear i can't.
He dumped me and same day he went to that jessica. he said he just did not like me anymore.he hasn't even seen her and he loves her and she hasn't seen him and she loves him too. But i love him and i introduced them to each other. and i told him about a guy name greg that doesn't even exsist. but i don't want to be the one that isn't loved. and it hurts me because he thinks we are cool and i was talking to jessica and him over the phone and he told her he loves her with me ON THE PHONE!!!!!! She even told me that he makes her say that she loves him and she doesn't say i love you.
How can i reslove this issuse my heart is one a string and i don't think it can hold on much longer it hurts the nites i cry myself to sleep. What can i do. He told me he loved me, what happened ??
my heart is really on a string i need a helping hand plz i.........i love him.

2006-12-30 09:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.. im dating this guy about 3 weeks.. we have been great friends for over a year!! during that time there was amazing chemistry between us.. we both knew we liked eachother but never made a move.. until recently!!
things have been great!! but little things annoy me.. such as decision making!! .. i HAVE to decide everything we do! he wont make a single decision about what to when we spend time together.. what time what place..its all left to me.. it gets a little annoying after a while!!!

things are starting to get really unconfortable for me.. he doesnt talk much.. for example we went for a meal last night and he barely spoke to me.. it made me very uncomfortable and unsure!!

should i stay in the relationship???? please i do really like him!!

but are realtionships supposed to be this much work this early??

2006-12-30 09:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been trying to decide if i want to be friends with my ex. i talked to him recently and i was telling him that you can't have your cake and eat it too. you would think he would deny it but all he could ask what was wrong with that.
and he was also talking about how our feelings will eventually fade and basically come to a point where we ignore the fact that we were together at one time. yes, they'll fade but pretending it never happened? and then he told me that he would respect my decision...if i didn't want to be friends anymore but he said it with such ease. but he continued on in saying that we should and listed reasons why. now i'm really confused with the whole situation. i'm afraid that if we remain friends, he's just going to keep hurting me but at the same time i don't like losing people that once had an important part in my life. advice?

2006-12-30 09:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by feliznieto 1 in Weddings

We have a 5 yr. old boy who I am debating on fighting for custody. I am worried that this may seem like I am just trying to get back at her, but I am more worried about my boy. Reasons: she has cheated on me multiple times, so what kind of environment will this create? Also, she kicked me out with 2 days notice, the day before our 5 yr anniversary, so she could meet another guy the following day. She took our boy to meet him, AND he slept in the hotel room with them, AND they had sex in the same room. She kissed him within a couple hours after meeting him, in front of our son. She smokes pot. He sees his mommy sleeping with another man, and then sees her holding me. (Yes, she has continued having sex with me, before I found all this out). He is showing visible signs of stress. She cannot manage money, has no bank accounts and insurance, and is always stressing for rent, even with child support. She lives in GA, I in TN. I visit every 3 weeks while footing the bill.

2006-12-30 09:28:47 · 15 answers · asked by ghostriderxj60 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you the oldest littlest or stuck in the middle which one is worst for me the middle you have someone to boss you around and some one to get your spot as the baby!!!!

2006-12-30 09:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-30 09:28:26 · 26 answers · asked by fastryde1 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with my boyfriend 2 nights ago and his stomach was hurting him. So as a joke i told him now u no how it feels for me because i just started using birth conrol and often feel sick after taking it. I was just joking when i said it but he took it the wrong way. he said if it bothers u so much then stop using it. I was like well i don't want to get pregnant, he said than we wont have sex. I then said fine cuz i was mad, i havent been in the mood lately neway. I wasn't serious tho, but he thinks i really don't enjoy it nemore. Now hes adament about not having sex. I told him i still want to but hes not changeing his mind... what should i do? b/c i no he still rly wants to. and i do to but as i said hes not changing his mind...

2006-12-30 09:27:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-12-30 09:27:09 · 24 answers · asked by Luke A 1 in Singles & Dating

he calls me names in front of our 4 month old son. he get mad very easily. he's been a little physical with me( pushed me a few times on the floor.eveyuthing is my fault. he also put his hands on my neck. he admits he has a temper. he says that he loves me but I just don't see it. i threatened to leave, at first he telss me to go ,then he later tells me that he doesn't want me to leave. It has happened so many times, now that I am not sure how I feel about him anymore. What should I do? A part of me wants 2 leave but the other part wants 2 try to make it work ,for the baby's sake.

2006-12-30 09:26:55 · 33 answers · asked by natasha m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin Cleo has no computer & I am asking your help in sympathy,compassion, encourgagement, and stories you can relate of your own loss & etc.. I want to give your answers to her.
Think this would be good for her.~~ Cleo's son Jesse(48) had a bad motorcycle accident on 12-13-06. He lay in critical care for one wk. Cleo never left him. He was not councious. Traffic had slowed over a rise on U.S-290 & Jesse rear ended a pickup truck. He died 1 wk. later on 12-20-06. Prior to his death Jesse had lived with his Mother since 2001 when his wife wanted a divorce because she couldn't deal with his Crohn's disease.Jesse had 2 sons that he missed all the time, ages now 16 & 21. Jessie was creamated so there is no grave to visit. The Memorial was nice. They are not affilated with any church. They were extremely close. I have called her every day since the accident and I want to be there for her as much as I can. Dear God I pray for her healing.
Thank you ! and a Happy New Year to you all.

2006-12-30 09:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i made my girlfriend a strawberry shortcake pie because i was thinking of her when i was making it so i divided it up for me and her and im getting her a card that says i missed you, she was in texas to visit her dad, we been dating 1yr 5 months, aint i such a sweet boyfriend ladies? i think females are angels, and they deserves a male thats not looking at them as sex symbols but as a true female. im a male too but males, start respecting these woman and maybe you can get a number or date. call them by their name and not hey shawty!!! say they look cute and nice instead of "you sexy, you got a big booty" hold the door for them, i always do that, thats rude to let a door close in a woman face and you standing right by the door. treat these woman like a lady not your sex toy.

2006-12-30 09:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by Eugene 3 in Singles & Dating

hi people....well guys im an engineering student....and im 21 yrs of age....i like a girl who is 2 yrs older than me....means 23...
so she is going to graduate 2 yrs ahead of me...now my problem is...i really have no connection to her...like she is of another department....and i dont have a clue how to make her realise that i like her, i have been around her exchanging stares.......im quite blank as to what i should do...any suggestions?

2006-12-30 09:25:45 · 11 answers · asked by Tourniquet 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on my sister in laws brother and he is spending the night tonight i dont know if i should change or wear what im wearing

2006-12-30 09:25:39 · 6 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl that I like but its hard for me to ask her out because she is the only girl that I have very deep feelings for. I've never had this problem before but for some reason she makes me feel this way

2006-12-30 09:25:18 · 9 answers · asked by rockerluis777 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:24:55 · 23 answers · asked by ESQUID 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have some good tips to help me with this "subject". I want to have a steady relationship with this one guy and i need help. im a teen so need A LOT of help

2006-12-30 09:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by oceanbabii20 2 in Singles & Dating

I have asked a lot of questions about him on here. I just wonder if he really loves me. because he says he does. he says all the time that he's gonna marry me. I might be pregnant and he's excited.

He just don't talk to me when he gets mad, he pushes me away and wont talk to me. And he's not mad at me usually. He just wont tell me what's wrong.

When he pushes me away it makes me feel like he doesn't love me. And he's distancing himself. When i ask him if he's doing that he tells me not start sayin stuff like that because he does love me.

Is it just because I am a female to feel this way. I know my brother has a hard time opening up and showing emotion. Is that just men?. I have never really gotten this close to any man in my life, and i guess it's just new to me.

2006-12-30 09:24:03 · 3 answers · asked by Fresca Jesca 2 in Singles & Dating

i want the night to be memorable. any ideas and tips would be greatly appreciated. thank you!

2006-12-30 09:23:30 · 7 answers · asked by wtfitsnguyen 2 in Singles & Dating

i am daniel j's wife and i disowned my dad back in may for ruining my brothers life, he is also pervy and thick, loud, brash and controlling while at the same time never admitting hes in the wrong - he thinks everything he does is right. my brother puts up with this as dad thinks by giving him what he wants my brother will think hes great - more of a friend then a dad. He did the same when i was a teenager but he couldnt control me - i had no respect for him since i was 18 til i disowned him @ just 22 years old - i am grieving for the dad i never had and never will have as he wont change.

2006-12-30 09:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

i haven't went out with a girl in probably 2 years.. l i went out with my best friends sister but i didnt think she liked me and that she waz just using me to get to my best friend ( which shes always liked) so i stoped goin out with her..then 2 weeks later i went back out with her but when ever im with her she dosent seem to like me i just got that feelin and when i waz drunk she was hella flirtin with my bestfriend so i broke up with her da next day. a week later now im goin back out with her but i get the same vibe that she dosent like me....and she wouldnt even sleep next to me last nite......she the most beautiful girl i think that ive went out with..........and i know she dosent like me and that she likes my friend, but i just cant stop thinkin about her wtfs wrong with me?????????? HELP!!
thanks

2006-12-30 09:22:26 · 11 answers · asked by D D 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, what happened was, I went to go and get father for the evening meal of kippers and mixed beans and as I walked upstairs I heard a strange knocking and screeching noise as if someone was dancing!There was music too, it was Chris-De-Burgh's 'Lady in Red'! When i opened the bedroom door, Father was there, he was break dancing i think and trying to rap but he had on grannys red nightie! I mean she must have thought it was ok because she was in his bed watching with nothing on and knitting some kipper knickers! My question is would you act like it was normal or would you ask granny what was going on ? sent

2006-12-30 09:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-30 09:21:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating