Does anyone have some good tips to help me with this "subject". I want to have a steady relationship with this one guy and i need help. im a teen so need A LOT of help
2006-12-30 09:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by oceanbabii20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out. If he says no, at least you went for what you wanted.
2006-12-30 09:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi. Im 28 hears my advice - No 1 Be Confident as a person (even if your not - it will translate over n you will benefit from the results) - guys love confident girls, it helps them to relax n be themselves - they're as scared as you believe it or not. Dont focus (as hard as you do want it) on getting the steady relationship. See your time together as finding out about each other and flirting, dont give all info about yourself away at once, far from it - be mysterious - that will leave him with unanswered questions and will be keen to know more. Be individual, smile, compliment him, touch his arm when you compliment him, acknowledge similar interests you may have. ASK him out, that will provide you with an oppertunity to try out all my above tips on him - even if it is only a coffee. Whatever, but go for it, dont talk about ex's ever...let him know you like him and would like to see him again - communicate and be assertive and confident - men love it. Hopes this helps n G8 luck!!
2006-12-30 17:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by kittiechic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he isn't asking you out why not change the script and you ask him out. Just go to hima nd tell him if he wants to go with you for coffee or a burger and talk. Once you and him are together get to know each other and go from there. Even if he's shy you asking him out will let some of his defenses down. SO go for it. And if you need to chat more just IM me
2006-12-30 17:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should just ask him out. know the person first. if u can see him with u in a steady relationship then ask him out. good luck and have a happy holidays.
2006-12-30 17:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋