I was with my boyfriend 2 nights ago and his stomach was hurting him. So as a joke i told him now u no how it feels for me because i just started using birth conrol and often feel sick after taking it. I was just joking when i said it but he took it the wrong way. he said if it bothers u so much then stop using it. I was like well i don't want to get pregnant, he said than we wont have sex. I then said fine cuz i was mad, i havent been in the mood lately neway. I wasn't serious tho, but he thinks i really don't enjoy it nemore. Now hes adament about not having sex. I told him i still want to but hes not changeing his mind... what should i do? b/c i no he still rly wants to. and i do to but as i said hes not changing his mind...
2006-12-30 09:27:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Remember that things said out of anger are not what you really feel. Maybe he wants to know why you said it? It sounds like you are taking responsibility for the birth control in the relationship (GOOD JOB) and you want him to give you a little credit for that!! Tell him that. It is a big deal that you are being responsible--don't forget that. But it sounds like he is feeling insecure in some fashion. Give him time, maybe he will figure it out. But I don't think the issue is whether you want to have sex or not and I think he knows it.
2006-12-30 09:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by shamrock5858 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-12-30 17:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have sex with him. There are other methods of safe sex. You both need to seek appropriate professional advice on sexual matters. If one is to venture out into adult subject matter, one should be knowledgeable on all aspects and consequences.
2006-12-30 17:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a couple of children. Stop having sex until you both grow up.
2006-12-30 17:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a complete jackass. If I were you I'd dump him and go find someone with a better sense of humor and a stronger libido!
2006-12-30 17:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by warmdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk 2 each other about how u really feel and apologize sincerly he might not wanna talk so so keep find ways to get ur message 2 him
2006-12-30 17:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by long hair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use different birth control, he could use condoms as birth control isn't only your responsibility.
2006-12-30 17:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too immature to even think about sex.
2006-12-30 18:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, stop saying things you don't mean.
2006-12-30 17:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO
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2006-12-30 17:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Stickman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋