Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

I'm pretty sure my dad has gotten married and not told me because he is wearing a wedding ring. He didn't get married in the city I live in. I checked the county records. I am desperate to find out if he is really married and when it happened. I can't ask him or he will be furious with me. I even had to create this new account just to make sure he wouldn't know its me. Most of the sites require a credit card, which I don't have. Please tell me a place where I can find these records for free.

2006-12-30 09:19:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that they knew for only 2 years? what do you think about it? is it stupid?

2006-12-30 09:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by kristie 3 in Friends

looks, personality, etc.

2006-12-30 09:18:59 · 4 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible for a outgoing guy to be shy around one girl but not around another?

2006-12-30 09:18:38 · 15 answers · asked by Karma =] 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:18:37 · 11 answers · asked by alex t 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 years old and he's 17. We have been dating for two years. I broke up with him for 7 monthes. He never stopped loving me and I never stopped loving him. We got back together. Everything has been going great latley. But last night we had an argument about how he smokes weed sometimes. I dont like him doing it, and I'm always on him about it. He tells me that he doesnt want to talk about it anymore. It kinda hurts. When I got off the phone with him, I cried so hard. I have never cried like that over him. I love him, but I feel like I cant do anything right anymore, I want to love him, but I cant. I'm done caring about him. when I'm not talking to him I feel everything is ok, and I'm going to tell him how I feel, but I cant. And when I'm not talking to him I feel stupid, and i feel like I'm wasting my own time. Please help me!?

2006-12-30 09:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by PrincessM 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 yrs old and am in my last year of college.To get to the point i never meant for anything to happen or thought it even could because the guy in question is a orthadox jew or at least conservitive judging by the way he dresses so i thought i was safe.I ended up having sex with him while i was in an emotional state.I did not know or even consider he was married and i feel horrible.I mean i am friends with him but he never talked about his personal life and the only reason i know he is married is because he told me two days after when he said that he could have no contact with me anymore.I am a total mess and have no idea what to do?

2006-12-30 09:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a great girl for 3 months and she is really pressuring the marriage topic. I say it is too soon and would like to keep dating and get to know each other more. She says she doesn't want to wait. My delima come because I am 36 years old and have never been married. Is time running out or should I keep waiting until I am more ready?

2006-12-30 09:16:01 · 40 answers · asked by geeves 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Si 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I am not into the kinky stuff, but I know she has been down to the Anne Summers shops when she goes into town to pick up her pension.
Advice please

2006-12-30 09:13:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:13:28 · 1 answers · asked by malavalla 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father passed away when I was 16, it was devestating to me and my family. I had dropped out of school the following year. I became extremely depressed and uninterested in school. My mother's kidneys had failed from diabetes and needed someone to be by her side because of her health, so I never returned to school, and I do not regret this decision. I saved her life countless times just because I was there. My brother and sister are drug addicts and are total losers. I'm 23 now and my mother has passed away. Our home had to be sold because none of us have jobs. My brother and sister got their share of the home sale. They will probably waste it away on drugs till they're on the street. I used the money to find a place to rent. So here I am without a highschool diploma, no driving experience (couldn't afford insurance), and no job, but some money from my home sale which will not last forever. I'm really scared, I don't really have anyone left in life. Please give me some encouragement.

2006-12-30 09:13:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To all the men out there, what makes you fall for a women that you find completely irresistable? Absolutely anything. Not neccisarily physical, maybe the perfume, a certain thing she says, how she acts. Please no s.l.u.t.t.y. ones. I really want to understand you guys.

2006-12-30 09:13:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At my bank that i go to there is this bankteller that i truly like a lot. I know that the banktellers are suppose to smile and be friendly towards the customers. What is the best way for me to fnd out if she is single or is dating someone. I go to the bank once a week to deposit money and she is there whenever i see her. What should i do or say next? How can I get her to like me and to be able to go out with me?
Thanks again

2006-12-30 09:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:11:31 · 20 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I keep dreaming of him and of us getting together. What does it mean?

2006-12-30 09:11:30 · 15 answers · asked by maplelucy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:11:27 · 5 answers · asked by alex t 1 in Singles & Dating

The qualities that you would like to have in a woman/man?? be a bit specific...cause you know some people like to say " i like em funny sexy and all that " well thats just stupid....For me ....Smart ...Shes not afraid to do dangerous stuff....a bit of a tom boy ...16.....and cute like a japanese character :D lol ....

2006-12-30 09:10:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can't a person live alone?!! I mean if you don't have a girl/boyfreind your life has no meaning?? for the record I'm married and I love my husband so much, but why it needs two to go through this life??

2006-12-30 09:10:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1. It is the first time in years that I do not have set New Years Eve Plans.

2. Is it socially taboo or wrong to attend a New Years Eve party where you absolutely are going alone, knowing no one?

3. Be honest. What do you think about attending a party at a night club VERSUS staying at home and watching Dick Clark?

PEZ

2006-12-30 09:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I'd love to just hold my partner right now and tell her I love her very much...but I can't!....I feel so alone......

2006-12-30 09:09:54 · 20 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is anything wrong with someone dateing someone 9 years older then them or 9 years younger..?!

2006-12-30 09:08:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke-up with me 3 months ago and I`m a little nervous. He always goes to the games, so no hope in not having him there. I`m scared I`m going to suck. What do i do? :-(

2006-12-30 09:08:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf is cheating on me with himself. he plays with himself. how dare he!

2006-12-30 09:07:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 09:07:10 · 25 answers · asked by fastryde1 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl I really like and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't if she feels the same because sometimes it seems she's interested in me and sometimes she seems like she is not interested in me

2006-12-30 09:06:25 · 5 answers · asked by rockerluis777 1 in Singles & Dating

I developed feelings for a female co-worker. She recently broke up with a long-term boyfriend (with him for about 8 months) and I told her how I felt. She said she was not ready for a relationship, but thought it could be a possibility down the road. I am glad I got that off my chest. However, I am still puzzled as to what she thinks of me. We remain close emotionally, there is some light touching, etc. However, she does not seem to want to do much with me outside of work. She rarely talked about her boyfriend (or potentials), she never talks about girls with me (e.g. you should go out with someone), She claimed that she really never thought (positive or negative) about a further relationship between the two of us, even though people have told us to our face we are like husband/wife. She rarely complements me, but never says kiss of death things like "you're just a good friend" or "you are like a brother" I know she cares deeply for me, but she has not expressed it. Any thoughts?

2006-12-30 09:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by dansmith2373 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl at my church that use to be nice to me when she sees me in school. One time i was really far from her when she called my name so loud. Now she's a little bit unconfortable with me for example when she sees me comin she might turn awy or go in another direction. if we were already close, she either say something to me or i say something to her but i feel like she doesn't have a problem with me. There are a lot of girls at my church that seem to be looking at me and turn away when i catch them but i never really had a conversation with none of them. One time i asked a girl at my church something and she told me that's the first time she ever heard me talk.Yesterday nigh after church, i saw a girl standing by my car. When i got closer, it was the girl i talked about in the begining. She asked me if i had a girlfriend. I smiled and she started smiling. she told me that she has a friend that really has a crush on me. She saw me this morning and she started smiling. Help!!!!

2006-12-30 09:05:46 · 5 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I stop my beautiful best friend from being a booty call girl?
I love this girl. she is not what you call text book beautiful. but she is. she is a single mom, BBW (size 14-16, 34 DD). Hair like the sun, eyes like the adriatic ocean and curves in the places where god intended them. Because of her size i think she maybe has a little self-esteem problem. she thinks that guys don't see her the way that i do (a queen). So she resorts to ghetto *** mofo's who make her chase them when it should be the other way around. I tell her all the time that she is the essence of beauty and she can't be giving it up if she wants to keep the interests of a man. But I think she does it so she could keep the relationship where she wants it. How can I make her stop this self-destructive pattern of relationships?

2006-12-30 09:05:22 · 2 answers · asked by Mr. Cellophane 2 in Friends