Im 16 years old and he's 17. We have been dating for two years. I broke up with him for 7 monthes. He never stopped loving me and I never stopped loving him. We got back together. Everything has been going great latley. But last night we had an argument about how he smokes weed sometimes. I dont like him doing it, and I'm always on him about it. He tells me that he doesnt want to talk about it anymore. It kinda hurts. When I got off the phone with him, I cried so hard. I have never cried like that over him. I love him, but I feel like I cant do anything right anymore, I want to love him, but I cant. I'm done caring about him. when I'm not talking to him I feel everything is ok, and I'm going to tell him how I feel, but I cant. And when I'm not talking to him I feel stupid, and i feel like I'm wasting my own time. Please help me!?
2006-12-30 09:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by PrincessM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he needs to stop or its over.
I broke up with my boyfriend and I told him why and it was because he drinks to much so he said please give me another chance and that he would stop and he did so if your guy really loves you he will stop those things for you.
2006-12-30 09:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said your relationship is coming to an end. his smoking weed is not helping as it definately has an undesirable effect on the personality and behaviour of users. It's not fair to him not tell him it's over if you've stopped caring. He's an adult and will have to deal with it.
2006-12-30 09:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young to worry about this sort of stuff. Go find another guy that doesn't do those things you don't like and enjoy your life again. Just don't call him anymore and don't answer his phone calls. He will get the message. You dont' have to say a word.
Happy New Year.
2006-12-30 09:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how u feel i think you should cry to his face and tell him that if the smoking was to kill him that you would care so much about him that you couldn't go to school tell him that u care so much and he needs to quit tell him that if u ever were to lose him Ur life would be over
2006-12-30 09:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, no one should make u cry like that. dont get involed with a guy who smokes. good luck and have a happy holidays.
2006-12-30 09:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy, move on. You should be with someone who respects you and your feelings. You deserve to be happy and with someone you want to love.
2006-12-30 09:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are maturing and growing up and he's not. it's a fabulous thing that you are sticking to your guns about the drug issue. stay true to yourself, it will work out. take care of yourself~
2006-12-30 09:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him he better stop smoking weed b.c. u CARE about him. i can tell. dont give up on him
2006-12-30 09:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋