At my bank that i go to there is this bankteller that i truly like a lot. I know that the banktellers are suppose to smile and be friendly towards the customers. What is the best way for me to fnd out if she is single or is dating someone. I go to the bank once a week to deposit money and she is there whenever i see her. What should i do or say next? How can I get her to like me and to be able to go out with me?
Thanks again
2006-12-30 09:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to keep the change. She can use it for the popcorn at the movie you will then invite her to. Clever huh?
2006-12-30 09:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try holding a friendly conversation with her. For instances, when you are making your deposit, during the transaction ask her questions about herself. But first I think you should just start with general questions, such as, “How do you like working here?” and so forth. I think you should try to be her friend first. I think it’s a bit strange for you to just ask her out of nowhere. She may be taken back by this. Maybe you can try talking to her a few times and then after that you can ask her if she wanted to go do something…that way she already knows you and doesn’t reject you right off the back. Good Luck and smile a lot and look into her eyes when you talk to her… (that way she knows you like her)!!!
2006-12-30 17:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SLOWLYYYYYY get to know her as a person. Try to get on a first name basis with her. Make small talk to learn about her. Make it obvious that you will wait in line just to see her instead of going to another cashier. Smile, but not in a creepy way. Be friendly and patient. Asking her out will almost guarantee she'll turn you down. I've been in her position many, many times and I've only dated a customer after he put in the effort to make himself stand out as a person instead of a customer. If I didn't know a guy and he asked me out, I always said "no" without even thinking it over.
2006-12-30 17:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Deposit a big check or just ask her out.. If she says no, there are other bank tellers in the world at better banks! Good Luck.
2006-12-30 17:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by theLimeLight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is too old school but did you ever think of asking her out on a date?? If she is dating someone else she will probably smile and tell you "sorry, but I am seeing someone else right now."
If you think she might be married simply check the ring finger of her left hand for the ring. No ring=not married.
How do you get her to like you? Again, pretty old school answer but it has always worked for me - treat her with kindness, respect, and generosity.
2006-12-30 17:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by warmdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want a bank teller to like you go in to the bank and deposit $1,000,000 and I'll guarentee she'll ask you out. Good luck brother!
2006-12-30 17:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by johnnynumbers 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her you'd like to know if she was seeing someone and if she wasn't then ask her if she'd like to get a bite to eat with you. If you don't tell her that you like her or ask her out then you'll never know if she likes you back and you will go through the rest of your life wondering if she would of accepted your offer. Just come clean and ask her don't be shy. She might be waiting for you to ask.
2006-12-30 17:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
next time you go to the bank, ask her if she ever dates a customer.
2006-12-30 17:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if her husband/boyfriend is a bank teller too.
2006-12-30 17:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Careful, she might be beautiful and nice because she is PAID to.
2006-12-30 17:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋