Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

i lost all my momas trust a while back, i need it back, HOW??

2006-12-30 15:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by S. Banana 1 in Family

2006-12-30 15:19:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my aunt keeps promising to take mesomewhere and then breaks it

2006-12-30 15:18:57 · 29 answers · asked by rain will wash the pain away... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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It's a question i ask but no one will answer.

2006-12-30 15:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by hottierecy 4 in Singles & Dating

im 13 1/2 and my parents wont let me wear deodorant!. well they jus dont want to buy it for me. i started asking my mom in 5th grade and then she said no your still young and you dont smell. but then i jus recently asked her {today} and she still said no for the same reason. she also doesnt let me shave. even though i still do shave b/c i sometimes go to the store wit a friend so i jus buy it with her. the only things i can do that a normal girl can do is wear a padded bra, wear makeup, and heels up to 2 inches. i jus dont kno y they wont let me do that stuff?!?! i mean im growing up!!

2006-12-30 15:18:27 · 10 answers · asked by :) 4 in Singles & Dating

Do the majority of relationships that start as affairs or infidelity inevitablyfail? or do they go the distance? what do you think?

2006-12-30 15:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anybody want to talk for a while, im sooo bored.

2006-12-30 15:17:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm on winter break from school for a month, during which time I won't see my boyfriend at all. We've already been apart for about 2 weeks...only 2 weeks left (I live in VA, and he lives in MN). I had a really long conversation with him on Tuesday, and then I called twice on Thursday and left two messages. He called me back yesterday and left a message. I tried returning his call, but he didn't pick up.

Yesterday, he also sent me a text message that said, "I love you." Here's the thing...if he loved me, wouldn't he call more often? I miss seeing him and talking to him...it's crazy, I feel like every day that goes by where he doesn't call me, he's forgetting about me. Maybe I'm overreacting...this is why I need advice! Do you think I have anything to worry about?

2006-12-30 15:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

i went to my mom's house before christmas and i helped her out with all the preparation, christmas came and my boyfriend wanted me to come over to see him, i havent seen him for a week, well, i told him to come to my mom's house and meet thefamily. he came, we spent christmas together with my family and my kids. i went back with my boyfriend, so i can spend time with him, i called my mom and asked her how was the kids and she said they're fine, but she didnt want me to talk to them, i was like, ok! anyways, she wanted me to come back to her house so i can help her with my two girls and she said to come back home NOW! and i told her that the money that she gave me, it was not enough, she didn't believe me, while i was on the phone with her, in the back ground, i heard my step father say, "tell her that we'll call the social services on her"! that made me mad, he says that cause im on welfare. they think that I left my kids there to have fun, im trying to get my kids with me...help!

2006-12-30 15:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by Desiree G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Actually I am pretty sure. I had a few drinks with a guy I thought I could trust. We had already been on 5 dates. I do not remember anything for about 8 hours, and I woke up sore. Please..I only want to hear from people who have had this happen to them.

2006-12-30 15:16:02 · 11 answers · asked by Sonia A 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by sweetfrogy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:15:58 · 19 answers · asked by noname 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:15:56 · 12 answers · asked by Darren B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-30 15:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. My boyfriend was recently injured in Iraq, and is having alot of issues. He's still been really loving to me, but today he says he's having a hard time and needs some space, time to himself to sort things out. Of couse I got upset because I didn't see it coming. I assumed that maybe he just wanted to do the single thing again. He said that there's noone else, that he's not going to do anything with anyone else. He said he loves me very much and that he wants to have a future with me and get married, but he just needs to deal with what he's feeling about his injury and deal with this upcoming surgery.He said it won't be that long, like a couple of weeks, and that he still wants us to be together. He just needs a break because he feels like a part of him died over there and he needs to work on getting it back. He still tells me he loves me and calls me baby and stuff. I just know what to think , does this sound like he just needs some space , or this is a breakup

2006-12-30 15:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started going out with a girl about 3 weeks ago. Right before we started going out, she told me she was a cutter. You see, her dad tried to commit suicide, then the parents got divorced, they were forclosed upon, and now a girl from her school and grade is probably gonna buy the house. Before we started dating, she said she'd stopped because I told her it hurt me too much, and it did, I get very attached to my friends. Yesterday, I saw three new scars on her hand, when I saw them I started to cry, and we cried togather for about 10 minutes. She said she was so sorry, and she couldn't help it. Today she emailed me saying most cutters didn't stop(making excuses). The thing is I love her. How can she love me if she has to take out her depression on herself, I feel like it's my fault. If I was a better boyfriend I'd have helped her stop totally. I don't know what to do or how to approach her about it and make her stop. I can't tell her it tears my heart when she does it, what do I do?

2006-12-30 15:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by Kaleb 1 in Singles & Dating

I know every body loves a powerfull expensive car but I have a choice of going to my date with either an 1987 buick century (big old luxury car) or a 1996 honda accord (nothing special). we are going for a long drive and I think having a luxury car has the advantage. but the looks might not be attractive. I need your thoughts on this please. thanks

2006-12-30 15:14:17 · 27 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:14:00 · 12 answers · asked by Jammagirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:13:34 · 32 answers · asked by Playful~Beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by negress07 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been feeling a little lost in regards to how I feel about my bf of 3 years. He's a law student and we do absolutely nothing together. I know I should be considerate and patient, but I've been just that for 3 years. I feel as if my patience is running dry. I feel bad, but I am only human. I guess I'm kind of tired of being yelled at on stupid things around the house like watching tv on low volume or turning the heater on 5 degrees higher than he wanted. I'm tired of being home all the time. I'm tired of being the "sober" driver in which he does decide to hang out with his boys occassionally, but he doesn't make time for me. I feel kind of "used" by him. I know it's not true but I can't help but to feel it. I guess I'm feeling a little lonely. He's a wonderful guy-very loyal and faithful, but short tempered because of his school work. It's like a no win situation. ? Am I just being a bad girlfriend? Thanks for listening.

2006-12-30 15:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Singles & Dating

We could never be together! Am I CRAZY???????

2006-12-30 15:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Tra 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy many years ago and he became one of my best friends. We are very close (not bf/gf type) and few months back, I felt that he was hinting that he likes me. I am not sure but that made me think a lot about him and I realized that I like him myself. Now, I pay close attention to what he says and does and recently, I don't feel that he is the same way anymore. Then I might have done a big mistake, I sent him an email asking him if he liked me and how I felt. He did not call or reply (even thought I said he doesn't have to at the end of the email). So did I screw it up? Not only that, I am afraid I screwed up our friendship. Did I scare him off? What should I do?

2006-12-30 15:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by Wynn 1 in Singles & Dating

I sacrificed a great career to stay home and raise my kids so that they wouldn't be daycare kids as I was. I absolutely hated it growing up and didn't want that for my own children. They are disrepectful, disobedient, hateful, little monsters most of the time. They are NOT spoiled. They ARE punished and they just don't seem to care. I have tried throwing their toys away to which they will say "go ahead, I don't care." One of them even told me, "when you get through down here you can go throw all the toys in my room away too." I am seriously at my wit's end with them.

On other fronts I am not in control of my eating. I had lost a lot of weight and was starting to feel good but now I just can't even find it within me to care. I don't work out anymore. I rarely sleep. I will go all day long and not eat and then eat a massive meal at night. I know what to do I just don't do it. I don't feel in control.

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2006-12-30 15:11:49 · 16 answers · asked by I Give Up 1 in Family

2006-12-30 15:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think a marriage can truly survive after an affair? How long does it take for the pain and the visuals of the affair to go away? I feel like dying inside, and he acts like its no big deal, then tries to blame it on me. What the ****? I'm also 4 months pregnant with our first child. I'm not ugly by any means. Am I a complete *** for staying or wanting to hopefully work this out?

2006-12-30 15:10:02 · 24 answers · asked by jlowe06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was seeing a girl who has a boyfriend and a kid and I fell in love with her.She told me that she was gonna leave him eventually she did not love him or have a physical relationship so for 8 months I trusted her.Now shes saying that hes changing and is now confused about her feelings but no matter what happens she wants to be friends cause Im special.I told her I couldnt be friends if she started having a physical relationship again with him,it would hurt to much.I thought she needed time to figure out how to get out of the relationship but now is thinking if she still loves this guy who treated her bad.If she stays with him then all this was for nothing and Im not gonna hurt for her to be happy with him.I feel she should confess to him or I might just feel guilty now that I might have to tell him myself.I dont know him but could easily make contact with him through certain people.I feel she cant do this to me and its either me,another guy or be single but not that jerk.

2006-12-30 15:09:27 · 14 answers · asked by Sincere923 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:09:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother...I dont want to sound concieted or anything but prior to having my baby I had no trouble getting dates. Now that I have my daughter, I feel like every guy I meet and start talking to gets scared away whenever I even mention her. Am I now doomed to be without a man because I have a baby?

2006-12-30 15:08:54 · 18 answers · asked by D 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my best friend and a few things have started to bother me
1. I close my door to my room but when i come home from work, the door is opened and the lights are turned on, telling me that she was in there. I dont go into her room when shes not home, and i thought that was the respectful thing to do.
2. I have a bathroom in my room and she has one in her room. But instead of using her own, she uses mine. Now it would be different if we shared a bathroom, but i dont see why she feels the need to use mine when she has her own. Ive asked her not to use it, but she still does, not to get ready, but to piss.
3. In the laundry room there are piles of clothes of hers that have been there for about 5 months. All of her dressers are down there instead of being in her room. I can live with the dressers but the piles of clothes are just crazy.

shes my BF and helps me out alot with money and stuff but shouldnt my personal space be respected? Or am i just overreacting to all of this?

2006-12-30 15:08:25 · 18 answers · asked by Chadwick 2 in Friends