I'm on winter break from school for a month, during which time I won't see my boyfriend at all. We've already been apart for about 2 weeks...only 2 weeks left (I live in VA, and he lives in MN). I had a really long conversation with him on Tuesday, and then I called twice on Thursday and left two messages. He called me back yesterday and left a message. I tried returning his call, but he didn't pick up.
Yesterday, he also sent me a text message that said, "I love you." Here's the thing...if he loved me, wouldn't he call more often? I miss seeing him and talking to him...it's crazy, I feel like every day that goes by where he doesn't call me, he's forgetting about me. Maybe I'm overreacting...this is why I need advice! Do you think I have anything to worry about?
2006-12-30 15:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sweetie we dont want to jump to any conclusions. The best thing is to keep trying to get ahold of him (dont be stalkerish and try calling 100x a day). Talk with him about how you are feeling and let him know that you miss him a lot you understand he might be busy but if you two could talk more it would make you feel a lot better.
2006-12-30 15:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm kind of in the same situation! The best advice I can give you is... Hang in there. Its going to be hard, since you two live in 2 different states, but you have to stick together, and show how much you really care about one another. I'm not going to sit here and tell you "It wont work"... because I think anything is possible. If you want him to call you more, just ask him. Communication is key for a relationship to be successful. Tell him you Love him, every chance you get.
2006-12-30 23:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself a life beyond your boyfriend.. Get out an do some things that you love! You can't control what he is doing and I'm sure you are imagining things anyways. You are wasting time in your life by worrying about what you can't control. And no, he shouldn't be calling you all the time ... he's enjoying his family and himself while you are worrying about him and not doing the same.
2006-12-30 23:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should be glad you have a nice relationship. The thing is, probably you love him too much. In your subconcious, you want to possess him. So you want to, kind of, control him all the time. He calls you the number of times he thinks is okay. He misses you too, but has a different, softer outlet. Right now, nothing to worry about.
Good luck!
2006-12-30 23:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ani the Blue Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody likes a clingy friend--especially guys. I would try to concentrate on your own family and friends, and let him make the next phone call. You can tell him about all of the fun things your doing, etc. Don't worry so much. He's probably really busy with his family and just hasn't thought about calling. Men are very different from us!!
2006-12-30 23:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by kyletexas_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off a little. Don't rush things. He said he loved you, just tell him thank you. A month apart is not a long time. You should have friends beyond your boyfriend. If you have friends you haven't seen in awhile go visit them.
2006-12-30 23:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the book called "He just not that into me" He should have called you. If you where special to him. I have a woman in my life and when she calls I make a point to get back to her, because I love her. Maybe you should rethink your boyfriend. Try this Dont call him, let him call you. If you have to wait a long time....... well you know what to do
2006-12-30 23:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Biometric 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a chill pill chika. I think he does love you but he is busy with his family so he can't really talk to you. He seems like he is tring to get a hold of you just your busy and hes busy when your not.
2006-12-30 23:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you 12? Get over it. You are pushing him away by being so possessive. Give him some SPACE. I'm already sick of you and we haven't even met!
2006-12-30 23:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by mjorod 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no nothing to worry about. He might just have a harder time getting time alone with the phone.
2006-12-30 23:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋