i went to my mom's house before christmas and i helped her out with all the preparation, christmas came and my boyfriend wanted me to come over to see him, i havent seen him for a week, well, i told him to come to my mom's house and meet thefamily. he came, we spent christmas together with my family and my kids. i went back with my boyfriend, so i can spend time with him, i called my mom and asked her how was the kids and she said they're fine, but she didnt want me to talk to them, i was like, ok! anyways, she wanted me to come back to her house so i can help her with my two girls and she said to come back home NOW! and i told her that the money that she gave me, it was not enough, she didn't believe me, while i was on the phone with her, in the back ground, i heard my step father say, "tell her that we'll call the social services on her"! that made me mad, he says that cause im on welfare. they think that I left my kids there to have fun, im trying to get my kids with me...help!
2006-12-30 15:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by Desiree G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have kids and left thm at ma and pa's to take care of. Why not take the kid with you. You need to atch out for your kids and if your boyfriend can't understand then he need to go. Your parents done raisd thier kid and are getting stressed from yours. Do more than your share to take care of them.
2006-12-30 15:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when I read things like this it ticks me off, I cannot believe you are not a responsible mom to take care of your children and put your boyfriend first. I am a single mom and take care of my children long before any man in my life. There are many things you can do to have help, welfare is one option and going back to school to get yourself an education. I live on 75 dollars a week, yes it is a struggle but I am going to school full time and live in a goverment home, you could too, its not something I bloat about but when I hear crap like this it burns me up. Specially when I got myself out of an abusive marriage to better myself for my kids. GROW UP and be responsible for gosh sakes.
2006-12-31 01:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's mad at you because you seem to put your boyfriend first... which is reasonable ( i guess ).. but the fact that you already have kids and all- they should be your first priority. then you told your mom that they MONEY SHE GAVE YOU wasnt enough- of course it would upset her. she doesnt know why it's not enough, and she doesnt know what you're spending it on. you should be lucky you have your parents to watch your kids and give you money.
grow up..... you have 2 kids. you should understand why your mom is upset.
2006-12-31 00:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by tooxswt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋