2006-12-30 15:13:34 · 32 answers · asked by Playful~Beauty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You think your b/f is cheating? well honey...the more you obsess about it the more you will put him into alert mode...you could literally drive yourself to destruction trying to catch him out...the more you spy..Follow...question...look for hidden meanings, the more you’ll become obsessed & a whole merry go round starts into action....if you're suspect that your b/f is cheating then your b/f is suspect that you may know something...you need to chill out & start acting very cool. You need to make him feel so ....not under suspicion...that he starts relaxing...he then starts to feel almost "God-like" as though he could anything...he's so darn clever, (so he thinks) no-one suspects a thing...that's when he'll start making mistakes, because he believes he's become infallible...un-catch-able...too smart for any dumb broad to work out.
After that begins to happen...all you need to do is sit back & wait...No-one can get away with doing something wrong all of the time...the best of plans when continued will get found out.
My Mother always said...patience child...everything done in the dark will one day come to light. That saying has proved right again & again.
But it does take patience.
If you try to find out yourself without of course the good detection work of a PI you could come across all together innocent situations & begin to see something wrong at every corner when in fact there's nothing wrong to see.
Give him enough rope Babe, he'll soon hang himself...
I do hope your suspicions are wrong though....hope it all gets sorted soon.
2006-12-30 16:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you will know for def, because guys are very good at doing this lol (well, the ones I end up with are lol).
I always rely on my gut instinct, and I have to say, Ive never been wrong yet.
Chances are, if you already feel he is cheating, then he might well be, so its best to ask him outright instead of beating about the bush.
Be prepared tho, cos you may not get the answer you are looking for.
Good luck :)
2006-12-31 03:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by sel2k00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, u just know these things. all you ask might be in front of ur eyes but u can't see them, probably because u don't want to believe it or else there is nothing there. things like; is there still an attraction between u?, u may call him when he does not expect it and see his reaction, do u still spend time together?, does he mind if u don't see him or speak to him for a few days?, has anything changed in his behaviour in bed? (for better or worse) top of all if u try to ask him see if he is actually enganged with ur concerns or he just wants u to calm down or reassure u that everything is ok.
Good luck but as i see it and from my experience once u feel it (that something is wrong) there is probably something going on in his mind
2006-12-31 05:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by kasexsandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi why do you thing he is cheating at 1st place and if you think he then his current behaviour will be different then before all this started for example he might be trying to be too affectionate or opposite try to totally avoid you. You try to ask people around you believe me its a small world. And I am really sorry for you if that $%^&**&^ is cheating on you.
2006-12-30 15:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by speedy3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your ears and eyes open, without him knowing. Talk about infidelity in general (watch him sweat ). Keep a secret diary and become a detective without him knowing. His phone probably holds a few answers. If you are genuinly suspicious and he has not lied before and you can, ask him outright. If not, just sit back and let him relax and carry on as normal. Most guys slip up big time because they are not careful enough to cover their tracks.
2006-12-30 16:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's cheating then follow him at the time you think he is doing it. Be prepared because you might not like what you see. Check for odd phone numbers, makeup on clothes, marks that cannot be explained, funny excuses that don't add up, etc.
2006-12-30 15:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Steph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right before he lives the house tell him to drop his pants cause you want to give him something special, put on your red lipstick, he will be so excited, put lipstick all over his dyck, and then tell him it better be on there when he gets home. Seriously, act like you dont care, and like nothings wrong, let him be comfortable with what he does, trust me, cheaters get so relax and so at ease that they playing the game, they always slip up, just sit back observe,listen , you will always catch them
2006-12-30 15:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by kalela L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boy is cheating on you he would call you out of your name such as baby,honey,boo etc.He doesn`t want to get your name mixed up with the OTHER girls. Lies constantly he could say:I`ll be at work late.;I`m busie;I`ll call you back.
2006-12-30 15:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guy that you're cheating with if, he knows who your boyfriend is screwing.
2006-12-30 15:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gauge his reactions ......... make him trick questions, and if you are clever and smart you could find lods of things. the cell is the first thing you should keep your eyes on.....his pc, they may hide a lot of things, if he has a lover they are in touch ...........
anycase if you doubt that he is cheating on you........
I think that the best arm is........leave him, because you can't going on like this........
bye
2006-12-30 20:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋