2006-12-30 15:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should be able to talk to him after 5 years...
2006-12-30 16:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him my name and I will tell him for you. ok maybe that wasn't the best answer to give you. Let's try again,how about being honest with him and telling him it is over and you want a Divorce. Or you could do what I did,leave before he gets home with all the things you want and leave him a letter telling him that you both know it is over and have for a very long time and you will NOT be coming back. It got the Divorce overwith in about two months and was called" uncontested" due to the letter I had left.
2006-12-30 15:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not screaming of how your were wronged or something such as that, I have to assume he hasnt cheated or done anything to deserve this. But that wont hold you back for more then a moment or two now will it?
So, I suggest that you march right up and tell him that you hate to admit it, but you are just like so very many are today. You are sorry that commited to him and that he took your seriously, but you are now going to break your promise to God and him, seek your own wants and way, use whatever excuse makes you able to think yourself right or moral for doing so and that you expect him to not only understand but somehow find it okay. Oh, make sure you tell him that on top of all this, you still expect him to give you what you want. Yep, that would be about the typical female thing to do.
2006-12-30 15:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You sit him down and you tell him that your not happy in the marriage anymore and you can't keep living in misery so you think it's best if y'all get a divorce because it's not working out for you anymore.
2006-12-30 15:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband I don't want this anymore I am not feeling you this marriage and I want out I need my space then sugar coat it with maybe we could get back together when I find myself. we can renmin friends if you like but there is'nt no one else I will asure you that. But before you go through wit hit are you sure tha's what you want go wit you heart Pray abou tit befor you make taht final decision Good Luck
2006-12-30 15:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, if its something he could work on, give him a shot.. if not, just tell him and move on. If you want to be friends or have a "pleasant" divorce, be gentle. Imagine he were dumping you, it will be hard enough, be nice.
2006-12-30 15:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar if you can't be honest with him, then you are a large part of the reason for the divorce.
There is not a good way, you just have to get honest and maturely deal with it.
2006-12-30 15:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by yeller 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once they get the Divorce papers it is usually pretty clear what your intentions are...duh!
2006-12-30 15:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the "how" kind of depends on "why" you want a divorce. Need a little more info please.
2006-12-30 15:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by julesl68 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur thinkin about other weman
2006-12-31 02:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by shaymeera 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋