Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

I have been dating a guy for 2 years now and we live together. Lately we make plans to do something and I get a babysitter and then he stops by his friends house for hours. He says he is sorry and I know he isn't cheating and I am sure he just needs man time but how do I make him realize that he is hurting me ( I have tried telling him and he says hes sorry) and get him to stop doing this. It is becoming a bad habit and he thinks everything will be fine. But I am getting more and more hurt by this.

2006-12-30 15:33:21 · 11 answers · asked by mtkarens@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

i spent 12 years with jen hub---,she 3 months ago,up and left me and our 2 kids (11 and 8 years old), i suspected an affair then and now i know she,s having an affair with wayne schur---a farmer from newann--why am i still hurting and in love with jen,how can i get over her ?should i deal with wayne and find a new woman to get over her,im not good at dating,its scary in the single world starting over.

2006-12-30 15:33:15 · 8 answers · asked by cheated on by ex girlfriend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-30 15:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do other than go to a New Years party with one of my friends that is a girl? Anything will help. I am super confused and we don't want to go to a party. We want to do something alone but something fun too. Any suggestions?

2006-12-30 15:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by Nick A 3 in Singles & Dating

i think that the boy i like is ignoring me,cuz i told him that his gf has 5 other bf.theyre still 2gether tho.i thot by tellin him he woodnt b as hurt as if he knew later on.he knows i wood never hurt n e 1...like wenever i call we say hi and stuff then he says ok as if he wants me to get off da phone with him.i feel uncomfortable talkin wit him now and i want to tell him about this,but then again i think i would feel silly...b4 all of this and his lousy gf everything was perfect between us

2006-12-30 15:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Started dating this guy a couple of months ago, since the 14th we havent gone more than two days without seeing each other, but we are not bf/gf, we do sleep together and talk, I am going out of town this week and he has been asking me if I am going to miss him and stuff like that, trying to be cute I guess. anyways he is thirty and recently divorced and I am in my twenties with a 5 year old (he has no kids) anyways it seems like he is being very careful about "getting into a relationship" we kind of talk about it and he says he likes to take his time when making decisions so he knows he is making the right one. (HE does this with EVERYTHING) so should I be offended that we are not "together" yet or does his recent divorce and the fact our relationship involves a kid and we have been friends awhile just complicate everything? He told me the other night that if he did not see this going anywhere he would not come around as much, but then why do we not have any type of commitment?

2006-12-30 15:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay....tell me how to know that a boy is into you....beyond the flirting, what are some mixed signals to trigger me onto knowing that this boy actually likes me and isnt just flirting but really likes me!

2006-12-30 15:28:39 · 8 answers · asked by confused chica 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, he has a small criminal record, tats, gets into fights...is the typical bad boy. But he is also smart and nice and really good kisser... would you run? Or try?

2006-12-30 15:28:17 · 41 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

im frinds wid alot of guys, but theres one i really like, n he likes me, he just wont admit it. i want to ask him out, really bad, but if he says no, he'll tell everyone what a dork i am. plus, we're frinds n that would be weird...so should i ask him out at all?

2006-12-30 15:27:54 · 10 answers · asked by ☼mischevious☼ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:27:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I,m in the process of ending a stagnant relationship. I live in a small town and there are not much available guys there. I really want to find a life long partner. I am tired of feeling lonely. I have friends but there is this longing for something more being a heterosexual relaionship. Sometimes i feel like my time is running out. I am still in my twenties have a good job. Should i just wait for someone to come along? Guys have expressed interst in me but they are already committed.I want someone for me and only me. What woud u do? What do u think?

2006-12-30 15:26:56 · 14 answers · asked by L.Sincere 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When I was born, I weighed 9lbs 15oz! I'm kind of embarassed about this, and sometimes my mom will bring it up in conversation! She'll even talk about how they had to recut the incision because I was too big! I get really shy, and I haven't really talked to her about it. Should I bring it up? :(

2006-12-30 15:25:49 · 25 answers · asked by BabyAEB 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you know if a guy is just using you for sex?or to fool around with?or even just using you so that they can say that they have a girlfriend and tell people? i think that i am being used but i dont want to end our relationship just because i think he's using me..i want to know for fact.....any ideas or anything that can give me an idea if he is just using me?plz..thanx

2006-12-30 15:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by James T 1 in Singles & Dating

calling her an idiot in front of me. This is one of many episodes he has displayed and each time he gets angry and disrespects her. He doesn't want her to have any friends and dislikes our family. I need to hear from someone who has gone through something similar. Also, I am not going to remain silent next time.

2006-12-30 15:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you ladies/gentleman date a women/man who already had children. If so, what number of children would be your limit?

2006-12-30 15:24:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

By Elizabeth Johnson
To my love of my life brian...

You make me smile, you let me dream,
You bring out the joy when it was missing,

If it was not for you, I couldn't go on, the

Dreams are still so real I feel..I'm still in

Love with ...my heart still remembers the

Way you kissed me that very first night...

And held me so close in your sweet loving

Arms...the moment you touched my face

You made my heart melt away..that very

Winter night..

I miss you ..the momment you said good bye

I said that I would be fine, but the truth is

It was too much for me, it felt like my heart

Broke in two, because I can't get you out

Of mind, I wish I could just see you face just once again...and see your smile...because I will never give up on you...

2006-12-30 15:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by elizabeth j 1 in Singles & Dating

if i am at work-spouse usually goes out with friends, but doesn't say anything to me about it. with xmas break-when i am home he is usually gone most of the day(off work for a while). I don't mind that he goes out--just wish he would let me know instead of finding out later from other people

2006-12-30 15:23:52 · 13 answers · asked by firefly06 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-30 15:23:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:23:09 · 4 answers · asked by highheels_9 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-30 15:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just being curious, what make a women attracted to man.

The common "naive" answer is always about a man have good sense of humour, nice to a girl, give attention and care to a girl.

But if this true? How about your opinion....

2006-12-30 15:22:34 · 4 answers · asked by buzz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 15:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by bommie42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather date a girl that is a bit overweight, between 5'6-5'10,and was nice, funny, and wholesome or
A girl that is super thin, between 4'11-5'4, and was stupider than a rock?

2006-12-30 15:22:24 · 6 answers · asked by Locogirl 2 in Singles & Dating

A really good friend of mine, that I grew up with, asked me out like 4 months ago. At the time, I had just lost my dad, and I didn't want to jump into anything, and regret my decision later. I told him like it was. He told me that if I ever wanted to go out with him, to let him know. After that it was cool. We hung out as friends a lot. Well, lately he has been contacting me every day in one way or another. Recently he's been calling me babe, dear, angel, and sweetie. Does that mean that he still likes me?

2006-12-30 15:21:48 · 21 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy that I have a huge crush on just came back from the war, and he has been staying with me for the past week, and I put our pictures up on myspace, but he hasn't put any on his, and he still says he's single on myspace, and to me. He put up the pictures of him and his friends last week. What does this mean?

2006-12-30 15:20:54 · 13 answers · asked by googlegirly 1 in Singles & Dating

is it normal for your man to look at women all of the time. when he goes to dinner with you and all he is doing is looking at other women. do you think he will cheat?

2006-12-30 15:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by myangelbarry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We bought a home because that's what she wanted,now she want's us to give it up and move to GA. to start over again.We have no money but she still wants to move.Suggestions please.
THis is not a hypothetical question.Need only serious input.

2006-12-30 15:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by Willnotlietoyou 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i read in a book that moms used to meet her daughters and talk with them 1 night before the wedding. What do they talk about?

2006-12-30 15:19:40 · 7 answers · asked by gauss 1 in Weddings