if i am at work-spouse usually goes out with friends, but doesn't say anything to me about it. with xmas break-when i am home he is usually gone most of the day(off work for a while). I don't mind that he goes out--just wish he would let me know instead of finding out later from other people
2006-12-30 15:23:52 · 13 answers · asked by firefly06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He does not have to ask permission, I would just like to know. Talking with him is like talking to a wall. I've tried everything I know except to get really b***chy with him.
2006-12-30 15:35:22 · update #1
and I've tried the "what would you do if I did that" all he says is he does not know cause he hasn't had it happen. I feel like that is a cop out. He wasn't like this before we got married. been married almost 6 yrs.
2006-12-30 15:41:26 · update #2
yes he should let you know. you are his wife whether or not you have kids. you have a right to know everything that he does
2006-12-30 15:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by punkins_wife121705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100% but when you try to express this to them, you're a nagging, suspicious, jealous b.it.ch.
Some frogs [they are, after all, ALL frogs before we are infatuated... and again after the crush has worn off] will turn it on you and say, "You don't ask MY permission when you decide to go to [WalMart, grocery, etc.]!" And/or "What is YOUR problem?"
I think it's just common courtesy to let your partner/housemate know what your plans and schedule are. Then again, I don't have a penis, so what do I know?
2006-12-30 15:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by LisaFlorida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 08:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by butlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit that man down and have a serious one on one with him. It sounds like he takes his own feelings into account and could care less about you and yours. Possibly it is time for a good house cleaning before the start of the new year.
2006-12-30 15:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse lets me know, not to get my "permission" per se, but just out of respect.
2006-12-30 15:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by julesl68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then go out in your hottest outfit...even if your not hitting the bar...catch a movie or go over a friends house and DON'T tell him. If he doesn't see you lookin fine when you leave then he'll see you when you get home at 2am!
2006-12-30 15:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend used to pull that kind of bullshit. i didnt care that he went out, i just wanted to know where he was. it took a lot of arguing and a little fighting to get it together andnow he calls me 90% of the time he dcides to go out and im not around at the moment. i made it a point that if he went out and didnt tell me, that i was goin to be a total *****. he finally got it through his head that if he kept me happy, his life wouldnt be such hell
2006-12-30 15:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common courtesy to let the other spouse know where you are and when you will be back, approximately.
Talk to him about this.
2006-12-30 15:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he should let you know where he is going.
To much is going on in this world today.
If he don't have respect for you, who do he have respect for? Oh I know the peoples he is with.
The question is what is out there that his can't tell you where he is going.
WATCH OUT!!! AIDS is on the rises.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-30 15:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's pretty rude...he should let you know out of courtesy in case something happens....
2006-12-30 15:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋