calling her an idiot in front of me. This is one of many episodes he has displayed and each time he gets angry and disrespects her. He doesn't want her to have any friends and dislikes our family. I need to hear from someone who has gone through something similar. Also, I am not going to remain silent next time.
2006-12-30 15:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get a life that is her husband so you have no say so and she was probably called worst than that an dshe is still with her let it go and get alife and stay out of their business. She is his now and let them live their married life as the choose too.
2006-12-30 15:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can tell him not to disrespect her and stand up for your daughter, but he won't stop until he makes her feel real low about herself. She needs to get a backbone and stand up for herself and tell him she isn't going to put up with this anymore. If he continues she really needs to think about the pros and cons to this relationship and then make her choice. You as her mom can be their to support her, but you don't want to get so involved that you are pushing her more towards him rather than helping her move away from this. Tell her she doesn't deserve to be spoken to this way. Be there when her world comes dumpling down and she is ready to pick up the pieces.
2006-12-30 15:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is disrespecting her and controlling her friendships and trying to keep her away from her family, she is in danger, it may take a few days weeks or months, but eventually this guy will harm her physically, he is already doing it emotionally.
He is so insecure and fearful that he will lose her that he is doing everything short of tying her up in rope to make sure he doesn't.
He needs help and she probably needs to either get out now or demand he goes into counseling with her to resolve this.
Point out to her that she is enabling him to abuse her by going along with this relationship as is.
2006-12-30 15:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a fragile situation. If you speak out against the husband in front of your daughter you could possibly cause a strain in your relationship with her. I think if you were to do anything it would be best to have a private discussion with your daughter about it, let her know that you are concerned and let her talk.
2006-12-30 15:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through this and it is time for her to kick him to the curb and you to stand behind her and give her support. That man is going to continue to get worse and worse until something happens and somebody gets hurt,if you know the drift of this. He is trying to be controlling and that in itself is just cause for her to flee while the getting is good. Time for a house cleaning before the new year. I would NOT let it get to a next time,this is your Daughter you are talking about,your own child,this man is acting worse than a child and needs to get his head out of the clouds or his behind and grow up..........on his own.
2006-12-30 15:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Stinky
I had a friend who did this same thing to his daughter all of the time.
I tried to talk to him about it but it never did any good.
His wife was too afraid to do anything about it.
When his daughter got old enough she moved out and has not spoken to him in years.
Please try to do your best to talk to both of them about what is happening.
Be loving and try to see it from both angles.
This may make both of them angry with you for a while, but its better than becoming a part of the problem yourself.
love and blessings don
2006-12-31 03:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in your daughters situation. she should not take the crap from him and especially not over a movie. my husband is the same way though. as her mother, yes you should have her side but she did get married and it was her choice to marry him so she needs to deal with it herself. give her advice but dont but in. it may get turned around on you by the end of a petty argument. my husband does it all the time. good luck and happy new year
2006-12-30 15:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by punkins_wife121705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 08:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by butlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some 'issues' and they need immediate attention. This is a hard one for a mother to witness, but it is up to your daughter to handle this one. Sure hope that there are no kids involved.
2006-12-30 15:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Edisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom, it's hard but stay out of that. I know that's your daughter and yes he is wrong, but that is still her husband, and she has to live with him. If he's being that disrespectful in front of you, then you really don't know what's going on when they are alone. If you start saying your peace, things may get worst for her, and unless she is ready to change her circumstances, she has to live with him. So please, stay out of that, unless she ask for your help.
2006-12-30 15:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋