I,m in the process of ending a stagnant relationship. I live in a small town and there are not much available guys there. I really want to find a life long partner. I am tired of feeling lonely. I have friends but there is this longing for something more being a heterosexual relaionship. Sometimes i feel like my time is running out. I am still in my twenties have a good job. Should i just wait for someone to come along? Guys have expressed interst in me but they are already committed.I want someone for me and only me. What woud u do? What do u think?
2006-12-30 15:26:56 · 14 answers · asked by L.Sincere 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am also in my 20's and single. I won't lie, sometimes its loney and hard, but its better than being with the wrong guy. Time isnt running out. I've been dating guys, taking things slow, and just having fun. Don't expect each guy you meet or go on a date with to be the one. You'll meet someone soon!
2006-12-30 15:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Bo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is simple move someplace new and start again as you say not many people are available in the town where you live...or you could stay where you are and go out on the pull if you wanted too around the local pubs or clubs...
But as you say you are only young so you have plenty of time too dicide what you want in a man so do yourself a favour dont rush in take ur time there is as they say plenty of men or woman out there for everyone ur ideal partner might be around the next corner and you don't even know it...but you will when you find him
you may be alittle lonely at the moment but that is normal after being in a long term relationship(or a short-term one)give ur urself time too adjust and you never no you might enjoy being free and single for abit until someone who you like comes along...hope this helps....
2006-12-30 15:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you're dying, your time is not running out. You're only in your twenties. I'm 40 and still quite active in the personal relationships department. You are in a stagnant relationship. I have been there. There's really nothing more lonely than being alone IN a relationship. Get out. Give yourself time to decide what it is you want (because you do have time) and find what you are looking for. You will. Just don't be afraid to be alone ON YOUR OWN.
Good luck.
2006-12-30 15:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only a baby lol
& that is not said in a catty way
You are so young!!
enjoy your freedom while it lasts
because it really wont last long
get to like yourself fully so you do enjoy your own company
you don't need guys in it to make you happy that is a myth
do a little bit of volunteer work & who knows you may meet him there but you never seem to find them when you are looking
its when you're not looking they pop up out of the blue
happy new year to you & just wait & see what happens in 2007
2006-12-30 16:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider moving to a larger town. I lived in a small town and I know that it can limit your opportunities tremendously. Start sending resumes to the closest town that boasts a fairly healthy population size and see if you can get a better job, a better relationship, a better life.
2006-12-30 15:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twenties is not too late. Enjoy being you, explore and develop your talents, interests. Someone perfect will come along when you least expect it. Give up looking so hard.
2006-12-30 15:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Just2BMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try Internet dating sites. It's fun. You can look at their picture and read more detail about who they are....where they are, the job, interests etc. Then you can email them and he will email you a note. It's lots of fun. If you decide to meet each other in person...go to a public place for coffee.
2006-12-30 15:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes start over and do it now. You are still young. It does take time to find the right person to come along. Just be patient and he will come. Don't just jump into the first one that comes along. Just take your time and do it right. Don't rush things.
2006-12-30 15:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Andie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was eighteen and wanted to hang up dating for a while; then this so called friend to both of us set me up with a blind date. After the blind date, I still did not want to date anymore; I wanted to settle down a bit and work but he persisted for about a month. When you least expect it...WAM
It happened to both my sisters too about ignoring their future husbands
2006-12-30 15:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never settle. Go after what you're looking for. it may be hard, but worth it.
I did it and it was the hardest thing I ever did, and turned out to be the most rewarding too.
2006-12-30 15:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋