how do you know if a guy is just using you for sex?or to fool around with?or even just using you so that they can say that they have a girlfriend and tell people? i think that i am being used but i dont want to end our relationship just because i think he's using me..i want to know for fact.....any ideas or anything that can give me an idea if he is just using me?plz..thanx
2006-12-30 15:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really likes you:
He asks you questions about yourself, he wants to know your soul.
He spends time with you doing other things beside sex. ie: movies , dinners, just hanging out with you..talking
He is caring, shows concern when your upset, listens to you when you have important things to say, treats you with respect
He looks into your eyes, and you see that he is truly happy with you
He calls you just to say HI.. and NOT just for a booty call
If he's using you:
His friends, work, hobbies come first.
After sex he goes home, asks you to leave, or makes an excuse to end the time you're spending together
Doesn't care to know things about you, ie: your b-day, your fav movies...
He blows you off, doesn't call much, makes stupid excuses for stupid things he does...
PS... It's easy to know if a guy is using a woman... I am sure you already know the answer, but you do not want to admit it to urself... and if I'm right... NO biggie.. TONS of guys in the world ! You CAN find one that won't use you.
~~ peace
2006-12-30 15:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well-- you could try stopping the sex/making out... and if he ditches you then you know.
2006-12-30 23:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they dont tell you that you look beautiful or look into your eyes r wanna be with you all the time, etc...
2006-12-30 23:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he show love... If not you are beeing used.
2006-12-30 23:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he hang with you when he is with his friends? If not, that is a bad sign.
2006-12-30 23:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because guys don't do that stuff.
2006-12-30 23:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by HVAC Man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Test him.........
2006-12-30 23:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋