We bought a home because that's what she wanted,now she want's us to give it up and move to GA. to start over again.We have no money but she still wants to move.Suggestions please.
THis is not a hypothetical question.Need only serious input.
2006-12-30 15:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by Willnotlietoyou 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is a reason that your wife wants to just up and move. she probably isnt happy with something. ask her and yourself if your true inner happiness is going to be found in ga. the answer will probably no if you really think about it. you need to find out what makes her want to just up and move. you could possibly ruin your financial foundation (your house) that you have and have no money or credit to get anything. i would seriously rethink what your saying and get some professional "counciling" before you made any permanant decisions. happy new year
2006-12-30 15:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by punkins_wife121705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in Illinois just outside Chicago. Other posters are correct about the requirements so i'll only reiterate those. In order to own or possess a firearm in the state you need a FOID card. If you not prohibited from owning a firearm it's a form submitted with your picture and a small fee. Transportation of a firearm is different. It must not be easily accessible (interpretive.) It must be unloaded and entirely enclosed in a case. You must also have your FOID card on your person. As an example if you have a FOID card your wife/girlfriend/neighbor whomever borrows your car and the gun is still in it. They could get charged with unlawful use of a weapon (felony). They would have to prove they had no idea the gun was inside the vehicle. If you plan on bringing a firearm you own into the city of Chicago don't bother you can't. Current registration for firearms is closed and has been for years. Your only option purchase a firearm in Chicago already registered. In which you must re-register every year else it must be removed from city limits. If your moving to the suburbs be forewarned some suburbs including the city of Chicago have a ban on handguns and they cannot be brought into those areas.
2016-05-22 22:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have read is what your wife has wanted, what about your wants. Does she have a plan on getting to GA? As I remember, things are not free there either! I suggest you sit down and talk to her, and lay down the law if you can. Trying working where you currently are for a year or two and set up a fund just for the move, maybe after that time has past she will have changed her mind, maybe not. But something like this, because you are married is a joint not single decision. Good luck!
2006-12-30 15:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is more going on here... Does she have a history of moving in the hopes that things will magically "change" and get better? Or what is the purpose for the move? How does this move suit both of you? Where are you in all of this? What do you want?
If you've purchased a home, surely you would sell it and obtain equity? Or you could rent it and still pay the mortgage?
2006-12-30 15:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Just2BMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell the house first then decide what to do. I have been in ga most of my life. Nice weather and lots of people say the job market is good here. I have only been working here and fl so don't know about in other places. I would think about not doing it if I did not have friend or family or at least a job lined up.
2006-12-30 15:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like your wife will never be happy. I guess it depends a lot on why she wants to move to Ga. If you have a job where you are and not there then I would really try to talk her out of it. Is her family there? is she homesick so to speak??/ I mean what is her reasoning behind Ga? take that into consideration. If she has a good reason and you two could make it once you get there I say sell everything and go..
2006-12-30 15:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her NO.........we bought this house to set down roots and we are going to stay. We have NO money for such an move and are NOT doing it. Sounds like she needs to grow up and face reality that she can NOT just move on a whim when there is so much at stake. Sorry I vote NOOOOOOOOOOO to the moving and YES>>>>...to her growing up and being an adult instead of a spoiled child.
2006-12-30 15:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be very hard to sell your house and move without any starting money. Sit her down and have a rational talk. Tell her maybe after you guys can put some money back you will consider it but doing so now would be financial suicide. Good luck.
2006-12-30 15:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to GA? What part? From where? Are you going into a better situation? What are your professions?
All of those questions matter when moving. You need to KNOW that you can do better BEFORE you get on the road..
Good luck bro-
2006-12-30 15:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
planning is a good way to stay out of trouble...if you were in the twenties you could do something that crazy but without money the game gets really though. be prepared for troubles.if she wants to do such a crazy move what would she do next? have her go to ga. without money...you stay put. she'll be back in no time begging you to take her back
2006-12-30 15:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by lovephoto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋