Lately I've been feeling a little lost in regards to how I feel about my bf of 3 years. He's a law student and we do absolutely nothing together. I know I should be considerate and patient, but I've been just that for 3 years. I feel as if my patience is running dry. I feel bad, but I am only human. I guess I'm kind of tired of being yelled at on stupid things around the house like watching tv on low volume or turning the heater on 5 degrees higher than he wanted. I'm tired of being home all the time. I'm tired of being the "sober" driver in which he does decide to hang out with his boys occassionally, but he doesn't make time for me. I feel kind of "used" by him. I know it's not true but I can't help but to feel it. I guess I'm feeling a little lonely. He's a wonderful guy-very loyal and faithful, but short tempered because of his school work. It's like a no win situation. ? Am I just being a bad girlfriend? Thanks for listening.
2006-12-30 15:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's that dedicated now ...it's not going to change, not ever , he's going too be like that, even when he's finish school, then it will be the job ...like you said 3 yrs. he's been this way and if you stay with him you'll be one of those wives that's married too a stranger ...good luck ...but if money counts you might be fine...
2006-12-30 15:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being a bad gf. You need attention just the way he does and it isn't fair for you to be the only person part taking in your relationship. If you are truly in love (big difference between loving someone and being in love) then you should just be straight forward with him and talk to him about it. If he really loves you he will be willing to work things out. Don't be foolish, you only get to live once, don't waste your time on someone who doesn't consider you worth theirs. Bottom line, do what your heart tells you.
2006-12-30 15:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jocey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not being a bad girlfriend.. and you can't help how you feel if thats how you feel.. and i see where you're coming from and its neither of your fault.. i guess all i can say is that if you truly love him and care enough about him to give it another try with him,then do so. but if you think that you're really just wasting your time and you're just really tired of the relationship .. you should let it go and tell him straight up.. everyone deserves to know the truth i guess. good luck
2006-12-30 15:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his girlfriend, why does he treat you like his mother. Sounds like this guy only cares about himself. You need to get out of this relationship before you end up marring the guy. He may be loyal and faithfull, but you dont want that temper of him to escalate. I know to many women with angyr boyfriend and husbands, and trust me you dont want to be one of them.
2006-12-30 15:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do that silly thing...
Get a pencil and paper and make two columns:
Good: Bad:
helps to put things into perspective.
Everybody reflects on their relationships this time of year, Girl!
Happy New Year!
2006-12-30 15:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when you meet up with him in the near future, surprise him by wearing sexy lingerie and luring him to bed for a night of HOT SEX!
2006-12-30 15:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Little Dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋