Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

my mother in law intervines in evertything!!!! shes really nosy and is starting to get on my nerves!!!!!

2006-12-28 08:28:16 · 12 answers · asked by evilstranger90 1 in Family

ok guys this is how it is.. i find this one guy very attractive and i know he also finds me attractive we are both use to getting a lot of attention from others. im not the type to be doing the calling i let the guy do the work. hes the same way..ok to the point what should i do to make him "like" me. ignore him or give me lil hints?

2006-12-28 08:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One where you gain aboustly nothing, not even praise from the person you are doing the act for?

2006-12-28 08:27:18 · 35 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex boyfriend keeps sending me stupid messages on myspace saying how ugly i am. and how much better looking and how much of a better person he is. i want this settled once and for all. i have pics of us both on my myspace account. tell me whos better looking.... me or him. my url is smalleydoesrakos

2006-12-28 08:26:34 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley S 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this Q yesterday and was so surprised to get back As saying it was not understood so I will be more precise: Have you considered, or have you actually, entered into a negotiated intimate arrangement relationship? I mean choosing a friend with benefits that is understood to be continuing dating (and sleeping together) for a while and getting along well with great, caring sex but lusting chemistry is avoided. If so, how did they turn out for you. (I am wondering if I have just been damn lucky in my arrangements.)

2006-12-28 08:26:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriends best friend isnt necessarily a bad influence i just hate her just how she looks i cant stand it. I always get so scared when she goes to hang out with her because she has such a good chance of drinking smoking ect. witch is totally her choice just i cant be with someone who does that. I dont know she just bugs te crap out of and she doesnt evven do a thing. Am i psycho? do i need help?? im confused about how i feel i dont want her to stop hanging out with her but my g/f just gets mad at me for hanging out with my friends when its convienient for her to be with me. just know that i wont brake up with her we have been together for 6 months and she means alot to me. She is my irst real relationship and i just dont want to let that go but i want to let her friend go.... please help

2006-12-28 08:26:14 · 3 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke up for about a month, and now were back together. how to make things how they once were?

2006-12-28 08:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by campton32 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If she is pointing a gun at your face?

2006-12-28 08:25:08 · 48 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me 2 weeks ago during his finals week. He said it's stressful and our relationship is partly responsible for that.He is that kind of person that keeps things to himself even if something is bothering him. He never tells me about bad stuff going on in his life to keep his dignity or something. We broke up 3 times in a year b/c of similar reasons. Basically he's a big kid and doesnt know how to handle stress and me only adding stress by wanting attention(i believe every girl wants that). Everytime i chased him back so this time i decided to cut off contact and wait for him to chase me. But now i found out this, i all of a sudden dont know what to do. Although he likes to have his "tough-man" image, he's actually very fragile.maybe some comforting words from me would be warm to hear?Should i?but then i'll totally mess up the not talking for a month or 2 plan which i already stick to for 2 weeks.Would he think i'm chasing him again?i dont want him to think that.Pls help!

2006-12-28 08:24:37 · 14 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

either he gets fixed or i should get my tubes tied.

we fight about it all the time about it, its making me sad

2006-12-28 08:24:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been split up with my boyfriend of 5 years for a year now,he pestered me for that year saying how much he loves me and can't get over me,he stopped annoying me then that made me want him (happens everytime) then i end up texting him,he has given me an ultimatum-either i want him or i don't and if i don't he won't bother me again,now i am so confused i mean we were the best of friends and got on great but when it came to being intimate it felt like a chore to me unless i was drunk?i am also worried about what other people think,my mum doesn't like him much coz he's an idiot when he gets too drunk and he's quite jealous when i go out,the thing is he was my first love i have never been with any1 else and when i go out i don't get chatted up much,maybe coz i don't hav a lot of confidence,i just don't know wat to do i may never find any1 else that is willing to do anything for me plz help

2006-12-28 08:24:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:23:40 · 3 answers · asked by puppydog 2 in Singles & Dating

that song :these boots were made for walkin and that s just what thell do one of these day these boots are gonna walk all over you

2006-12-28 08:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'll try and keep this short.

I'm going on a second date with this girl tomorrow night.

First date went very well and it ended by me giving her her kisses on her cheeks.

Today we were talking on msn messenger and I told her that my father gets hockey tickets and I invited her to come the next time he gets some.

I told her she'd "get to see me yell at the referees. When it comes to watching or playing sports I'm very competitive."

She replied by saying "You don't seem like that. You seemed like Mr. Nice Guy, cooperative and helpful"

I went on to say: "Some people say it's how you play the game...I say you play to win lol that may be wrong to some people but that's the way I am"

She replied something like: "well as long as you're having fun and if having fun is winning for you, then win"

I don't want her to think that I'm not a helpful/cooperative guy or not Mr. Nice Guy. I know I'm reading too much into this but I need words of encouragement, cause I like her.

2006-12-28 08:23:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it is fair to say that -- at the time of the act (not retroactively) -- unwanted touching in the private areas is Sexual Abuse. And as far as casual dating, serious, exculsive dating and even up to engaged to be married one should not have for this reason alone an expectation of sexual contact. However, after marriage I think there is an expectation of Sex. That expectation should include the right of refusal because again any unwanted touching is sexual abuse, even with ones spouse. But if the spouse CONSTANTLY refuses to the point where one remains a virgin after years of marriage, is this not also Sexual Abuse? If one partner wants sex and the other ALWAYS refuses, is that not cruel? Refusing all but 1 time in 100 one must not accept as complete negligence, because it's still 10 in 1000 or 100 in 10,000. But 0 out of 100 is still 0 out of 1000 or 10,000. 1 in 100 is still IMHO cruel but 0 in 100 I think is Abuse. Do you agree? And does the answer depend on culture?

2006-12-28 08:23:06 · 14 answers · asked by THe VaN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I NEED THIS ADVICE AND ONE THING IF U HAVE A RUDE COMMENT 2 SAY DONT SAY IT AT ALL AND ACTUALLY THERE IS CHEATING AT ALL AGES SO PEOPLE WATCH OUT AND WHOEVA THINKS THERE IS NO CHEATING AT THAT AGE SHUT UP AND I DONT WANT PEOPLE SAYING RUDE STUFF 2 ME CAUSE U DONT EVEN KNOW ME AND I DO KNOW HOW TO SPELL OK HOW CAN I NOT TAKE MY ANGER OUT INSTEAD OF YELLIN AT PEOPLE

2006-12-28 08:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a new hobby, other than Yanswers. I am thinking of taking up muff diving. Does anyone know where i can take lessons?

2006-12-28 08:23:03 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife told me in august that she isn't in love with me anymore after 10 years or marriage.She wanted a separation ,so i moved out after some very long talks with her but I still love her so much.I have tried to talk to her she just says ' I am happy with the decision I made, and every day
it becomes clearer to me that you are not the type
of person that I could be completely happy with. I
need things that you are not capable of giving me" I guess this is just something i have to deal with me and our 2 young girls....I'm not sure what i'm asking but what is the best way to deal with this ? Just try to move on and see other people? I don't think that would be fair to anyone i met in the near future....

2006-12-28 08:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by zzbudzz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 08:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by milad f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:22:29 · 11 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Singles & Dating

Having s.e.x how long is the average a man can last before finishing?

2006-12-28 08:22:11 · 17 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:22:01 · 2 answers · asked by curiousboy 1 in Singles & Dating

well i don't have any confidence and i have a low self esteem and i i always put myself down and i always tell myself the i am not that good lookin guy and i can never attract pretty and beautiful girls and people tell me that i am nice and cool person and they also tell me i got a nice personality and i just can't attract pretty and beautiful girls and i guess i can't attract pretty and beautiful girls cause of looks and my height and i am short thats probally why girls are not attracted to me and girls like guys who are tall and sexy.................................

2006-12-28 08:21:29 · 12 answers · asked by ali 3 in Singles & Dating

She has an upcoming event in which 20 of her friends will be there (most of which I do not know). I want to try to fit in somehow but I find that I just shell up and tend not to say anything because I fear not fitting in. I can't be myself...but I want to so I can at least enjoy myself while being there. Any suggestions?

2006-12-28 08:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by tom_a_hawk12 4 in Friends

i know physicaly you cant unless yr heart isnt working properly...but if you love some1 so dearly...and they die..is it possible do u think ?

2006-12-28 08:21:26 · 44 answers · asked by lancashiretasty 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I get in states of loneliness sometimes. Does anyone ever feel like this? I just feel really low....

2006-12-28 08:21:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this guy i go 2 school w/ and he is really cute and is really sweet but he says he only likes me as a friend but he is always flirting w/ me and stuff .like does he really like me or what an dif he does like me what should i say 2 him cause i like him ??

2006-12-28 08:20:59 · 28 answers · asked by carley sue 1 in Singles & Dating

The like hottest guy ever in my opinon! Thanks for your awncers!

2006-12-28 08:20:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here's a quick background of everything..
i've been w/ my bf for almost 3 years & his parents like me alot, they invite to every family gathering they have & all that. & they're really nice people, i've known them since i was little, but they moved away so i have just recently met them again about 3 years ago. our parents were co-workers & good friends when they were still living in the same area as we did.

so after all that said, here's the thing..
every xmas they'd given me a bag for the passed 3 years & this year was a little different. i was given a bag BUT also was given money [$30 to be exact]. to me, that's a little too much & i was never expecting them to give me money, EVER. i guess it's nice of them, but when i received it i began to think that maybe they're trying to say that i like money? i don't know maybe i'm just being paranoid. i just want to know how'd you feel if your bf's parents all of a sudden gave you money as a present. should i take this as a good thing or bad?

2006-12-28 08:20:52 · 14 answers · asked by T-NEE 3 in Singles & Dating