Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I am 19 and I am getting married in a few months. I was just wondering if any of you had some good advice about marriage. I DONT WANT ANYTHING SICK OR PROFANE PLEASE. Just advice because I am just starting out in life. Thanks!

2006-12-28 07:58:39 · 22 answers · asked by Gigglesngrins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We havent been dating long enough for me to demand he quit smoking. And he has mentioned that he wants to, but I dont want to be pushy about it. What can I do to help him last longer?

should I take it slower or easier? Does anyone have some experience with this?

2006-12-28 07:58:37 · 16 answers · asked by MRose 4 in Singles & Dating

Anythin-different not jus goin out or stuff like that pls...

2006-12-28 07:58:37 · 5 answers · asked by Tiara 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 07:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by tweety_baby258 1 in Friends

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

Not spoken for 3 weeks now(the longest ever!)Have I hurt her?Would she still be thinking about me?The friendship over?

Would she answer if I called?What if she don't answer?

2006-12-28 07:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys or girls just as friends do u wanna talk? NO FREAKS!!

2006-12-28 07:56:15 · 14 answers · asked by $$*l0c0 4 l!fe*$$ 1 in Singles & Dating

Please don't report this as ad, just want to help people with their problems.

2006-12-28 07:56:00 · 4 answers · asked by jyang2k51018776 1 in Friends

ok so i just graduated and im in love with my high school sweetheart that ive been with since my 9th grade year and im just wondering if these kinds of relationships really work? i mean would i be missing out on anything out there since im in a serious relationship? if so tell me your story..... or your opinion, oh by the way i love him with all my heart and yeah we like any other couple but we are just perfect together.
thanks

2006-12-28 07:55:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys or girls just as friends do u wanna talk? NO FREAKS!!

2006-12-28 07:55:38 · 10 answers · asked by $$*l0c0 4 l!fe*$$ 1 in Singles & Dating

We just divorced last month. I found out that she was having an affair with a school teacher where she works. We where high school sweethearts and together for 15 years. We have two young boys together. I wanted to work on marriage and she did not. I still love her very much and want to work on starting over with her .She knows I still love her and when I dropped our sons off at her house she invited me to dinner with them tonight. I'm trying to move on but I want her in my life so bad. She told me that she has no feelings for me when she left our relationship, I was a good husband and father what would you do? Also she is still seeing this guy as much as she can. What does this mean? does she have feelings for me? should i go tonight?

2006-12-28 07:55:16 · 13 answers · asked by shawclint 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a kid that lives in the house behind my house. He can do no wrong in his grampa's eyes. They have thrown golfballs over so many times that I could open a golfclub today! My husband was out chopping wood and SAW them throw things over the fence, including chunks of ice. I walked over to talk to them again and his grandfather said it was the kid's uncle. When I told him I SAW the kid he tried to say it was some other kid. Seems I was so loud that LIttle Johnny's grandmother came to the door. I told her I had a camera set up to tape EVERYTHING that goes on. She *SAID* she would talk to him.

Now I need to know what I should do to keep the brats out of my backyard and to stop throwing things. I told them I would call the police, but I doubt that would do much good. Should I keep the stuff for the police or throw everything out?

2006-12-28 07:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for her man and her baby? My husband isn't interested in sex. He says he is stressed out and tired. I've initiated it every time for as long as I can remember. The baby is almost 1 year old. Is it me?

2006-12-28 07:54:32 · 15 answers · asked by caren m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so iu have a myspace and i send a message to ricardo cayetano.And he doesn't reply.Wat does that mean?Help i'm confused.does it mean that he doesn't wan t to know anything about me or he simply doesn't want to reply.Help

2006-12-28 07:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl in my building who I feel certain is attracted to me. She has pointed me out to friends and smiles big when she sees me. I was out on X-Mas Eve with my ex and our kids for dinner and I saw her with what I think was her family(No date). She must have seen me early on and I did not see her until I went to the restroom before leaving. She looked away when I walked by. Why does she seem angry or hurt? I have never met her but we have exchanged looks in the building. I am very attracted to her also but she was difficult to talk to before this because she seemed so shy and nervous around me. I want to talk to her just to let her know how I feel. I just think she believes I am taken now. Why did she act this way when she does not really know me and what can I do from here?

2006-12-28 07:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my husband is on this website cherrytap and he has all of these girls telling him that he is sexy and they are calling him baby and he posted a nude picture of himself on there as well and i have told him several times that i dont like it and he deleted the picture but refuses to delete the profile. i have went into his e mail (he gave me the password and said i could go in there when i wanted) and i found a e card and i thought that i would look at it and it was from a girl and it was saying that she loved him now i dont know this girl but i am worried that he dosent want to be with me and the bad thing is that he lives in georgia right now and i live in colorado with our 3 children.in the past i have found him on dating sites he was having the stuff sent to his e mail i just dont know what to do. is he tring to tell me that he dosent want to be with me or what? should i just take a hint and leave and let him go on about what he wants to do? your advice would be great thanks so much

2006-12-28 07:53:36 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told you that this whole Yanswer thing is all pretend? Would you believe me, or would you continue to think that it really matters?

2006-12-28 07:53:05 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

The obvious being big boobs, long blond hair, skinny.
What is it about a womans personality or looks (in detail please) that really turns you on?

2006-12-28 07:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by pattycake123 1 in Singles & Dating

Both my girlfriend & I have a high sex drive but the problem is that I need "touch" to get horny and she just needs to look at few attractive strangers to get "physically" horny....Shouldn't it be me who gets horny by looking? She claims she can't control it & that's upsetting to me. Afterall women are the ones who dress provocatively!! Most men don't have any sexiness when they're dressed.....I just don't understand her!!
Don't get me wrong. We probably have the best sex most couples don't have (16 hrs/day record). Besides I don't have any size problem. The problem is that sometimes she gets PHYSICALLY horny by JUST LOOKING at other men......That's what is making me upset because I feel cheated on

2006-12-28 07:52:10 · 10 answers · asked by FJ23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i always have that issue. ]=
especially when it comes to school,
usually the white kids hang with white.
& you know the rest.
i`m asian & i have a hard time fitting in.
sometimes i feel like its because of my race. ]=
i can`t even fit in an asian group b/c they won`t accept me.
they already have their group & one more person isn`t needed.
plus, i don`t like alot of the ppl in their group.

i need some help, thank you so much [=

2006-12-28 07:52:08 · 28 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Friends

Ok I have a boyfriend however over the summer my friend (guy and boyfriend's really close friend) and I went to this summer program together (my b/f didn't get accepted) and after knowing him better I liked the fact that we could talk about anything and that he had great communication skills. I didn't fall in love with him or anything like that but felt bad for feeling a sense of attraction towards him for communicating and listening so well to me (at times more than my own boyfriend) is this natural? Should I tell my boyfriend what I felt over the summer?

2006-12-28 07:52:04 · 8 answers · asked by Ivanna 2 in Singles & Dating

my rents think he is a loser bc hes barely finished h/s and he plans on being a ride inspector at carnivals. that job would only be seasonal, and he lives at his friends house with his friends mom, and hes 20. But he listens to me and remembers everything i tell him, so wut do i do? he treats me rite, but doesnt have a very promising future?

2006-12-28 07:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by J""* 1 in Singles & Dating

okay im not some slut or anything.. i've only done IT with one guy.. and im still with this guy.. we love eachother till death, ok? ...just thought id clear that up now

well.. i love my boyfriend... and he is.. well.. H-O-T. realllllyyyy good looking. so i dont know what my problem is. i really want $EX but i get tired like right away.. i dont know.. when i first done IT i was moaning and groaning and stuff. but now.. i dont feel like screaming. i just ..enjoy it.. a lot.. but idk. i dont feel the same..? i dont even know what im saying here.. just.. wanna see if any girls can relate to this.... thanks those who answer this

<3

2006-12-28 07:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have a boyfriend however over the summer my friend (guy and boyfriend's really close friend) and I went to this summer program together (my b/f didn't get accepted) and after knowing him better I liked the fact that we could talk about anything and that he had great communication skills. I didn't fall in love with him or anything like that but felt bad for feeling a sense of attraction towards him for communicating and listening so well to me (at times more than my own boyfriend) is this natural? Should I tell my boyfriend what I felt over the summer?

2006-12-28 07:50:51 · 3 answers · asked by Ivanna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im not sure if this family has the "normal" problems family usually have, or this family is just really messed up.
My husband's grandfather's mother was neglectful and obsessive, the father was alcoholic and physically abusive. The grandfather grew mistrusting woman so he became "macho" and has some hate towards women so he married a woman who was pretty passive, she was also pretty obsessive, the grandfather is kinda controlling and has an addiction to cigars. They had 3 children (my husband's mom, aunt and uncle) my husband's mom (my mother in law) is kinda obsessive, she buys compulsively, is kinda controlling, and gets irritated easily, her sister is very nervous, she needs to take anxiety medicine, the uncle is alchoholic.
Well, it sounds sucky but all of this people also have a good share of good qualities.
My mother in law, father in law and husband insist that their situation is just "reality" and that I have a rose colored view of life.

2006-12-28 07:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 07:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by clairebear 2 in Singles & Dating

I had just started working and had no $ to get him anything, he was great and got me a few things even though a faked going out of town because I felft so bad that I could not buy him anyhting, I was lonely and felt and still feel horrible! how can I make it up... because I know he missed me also...

2006-12-28 07:48:48 · 7 answers · asked by lost and confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 07:48:29 · 20 answers · asked by Susan H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 07:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 in Singles & Dating

I m w/ my child's father but also first love who cheated he confessed after i found the letter he told me he wasn't ready for a committment and he didn't want any one else to have me even though that may sound selfish it made me feel good. I want to work it out because i do still luv him and for the sake of our child but i don't know if its will be the same eventhough right now. SHOULD I STAY R GO?

2006-12-28 07:47:02 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 07:46:42 · 28 answers · asked by Candy 5 in Friends