Both my girlfriend & I have a high sex drive but the problem is that I need "touch" to get horny and she just needs to look at few attractive strangers to get "physically" horny....Shouldn't it be me who gets horny by looking? She claims she can't control it & that's upsetting to me. Afterall women are the ones who dress provocatively!! Most men don't have any sexiness when they're dressed.....I just don't understand her!!
Don't get me wrong. We probably have the best sex most couples don't have (16 hrs/day record). Besides I don't have any size problem. The problem is that sometimes she gets PHYSICALLY horny by JUST LOOKING at other men......That's what is making me upset because I feel cheated on
2006-12-28 07:52:10 · 10 answers · asked by FJ23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does she have sex with other guys when this happens, or when she gets horny seeing other guys does she just attack you? If she isn't having sex with others and you are reaping the benefits of this, what are you complaining about? Get some self esteem and just marvel at her ability to get worked up in a way that most women don't, or can't. To me this just demonstrates and very active sexual imagination. Go with it and don't discourage her. If you try to get her to stop, you will only make her frustrated with you and that's when you have to worry that she will lose interest and go elsewhere.
Do you ever watch porn or look at pictures of naked women? My guess is that you do and you get horny when you do it. Why are you holding her to a standard that you don't hold yourself to?
2006-12-28 07:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset if my husband told me he gets horny by looking at other women. That is just plain wrong if you ask me. Most women still look even if they are with someone but it is not the same way as a man looks at a woman. I will look at a guy and think man he is good looking and at the most will think he has a nice butt but never come home to my husband using his body to get sexual satisfaction after looking at another guy. She may think this sort of thing turns you on. Talk to her and tell her how unappropriate she is acting and how you feel about her telling you these things. That is just plain disrespectful if you ask me.
2006-12-28 18:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What excites one person may not excite another person. The fact that your sex life is good for both of you and you are faithful to each other should be good enough. I think it is OK to look as long as you don't touch.
By the way, why would you think men aren't sexy whether dressed or not? That is your opinion because you are a heterosexual male. She is a heterosexual female and it is completely normal to find the opposite sex attractive.
2006-12-28 08:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 06:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dropped your purse Alice......If she's gettin horny then giving you the goods, what's the big deal? Just be glad she's getting that way.
2006-12-28 07:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if she is fantacising abt other men its cheating! She is supposed to look at you and get turned on!
U got to ask her to respect you! And u have to be really stren with this matter! If she loves u she'll listen and change!
2006-12-28 07:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When horses would get distracted easily they would put side blinders on them or get rid of them.
2006-12-28 07:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by mitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural, just be glad that she does get horney, I've talked to alot of guys on here who wishes that there wives would get horney anytime
2006-12-28 07:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's you that she comes home to I wouldn't complain.
2006-12-28 07:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by DL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosala..... enjoy her let it be ... breath
2006-12-28 08:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by My dreams are my sanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋