we broke up for about a month, and now were back together. how to make things how they once were?
2006-12-28 08:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by campton32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its next to impossible for things to be the way they were. You have to be able to move on from whatever caused the break up to begin with. Start slowly and work you way forward. Never look back or bring up any past indiscretions. Work on rebuilding the trust and intimacy you shared. It takes complete dedication to make it work but if you both want it bad enough ti will all pay in the end. Good luck to you.....
2006-12-28 08:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be exactly where you were, things have happened between then and now. So instead of pursuing this effort in vain, instead work on making this a healthy relationship for whom you both are now. Date each other again, get to know each other again and build from there. You will still have your past history as a couple, but now you have to live for the present and the future.
Good luck.
2006-12-28 16:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by sarcasm_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never make things like they were before, so go for something different and better. also, learn to laugh about why you broke up, or you will break up again for the same reason. Take the power out of whatever the cause was.
2006-12-28 16:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no chance of the two of you getting back to the way you once were. You can either get better than it was or worse. Which one is up to the two if you. Not just you. You both have to be willing to let go of the past and move on or there will be no relationship.
2006-12-28 16:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by redscarlet_witch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get back what you had, but hopefully you can take things to a higher level. It starts with respect and honesty. Learn from your mistakes the first time and make sure you don't go down that road again.
2006-12-28 16:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by united9198 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First show her the love that your have for her. Then do something romantic. And communicate to her whats on your heart and mind. Communication is the # 1 thing that you can do to make an relationship work.
2006-12-28 17:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by smily face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with a clean slate. do somethings extra special, like a single rose and a box of candy.
2006-12-28 16:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get back to where you were, like getting drunk and beating the crap out of her every night...........I am surprised she got back with you.
2006-12-28 16:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST LET THINGS HAPPEN BY IT SELF AND DON´T PRESS ON ANYTHING.
2006-12-28 16:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything takes time....
2006-12-28 16:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋