my ex boyfriend keeps sending me stupid messages on myspace saying how ugly i am. and how much better looking and how much of a better person he is. i want this settled once and for all. i have pics of us both on my myspace account. tell me whos better looking.... me or him. my url is smalleydoesrakos
2006-12-28 08:26:34 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ashley,
I am not not going to go on myspace to look at any pictures because there is no need. Any person such as your ex-boyfriend who makes such comments about a person's outward appearance is not worth the time to spend on. It sounds like your ex is the one who has the major self-esteem problems. If he was a good person, he would take the high road, wish you well, and not harass you. Please spend the next year with people of better character. I am sorry that you wasted your time on this guy.
2006-12-28 08:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by snowybostonchicken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, this should help and you know you can report your ex-boyfreind in myspace....
Don't hang around anyone that insults you or makes you feel bad about yourself.
Don't insult yourself or open yourself up to insults. Do not accept anyone attacking you personally.
Don't play the "I'm better than you" game with your friends; it only leads down a bad road.
Don't watch too many shows like "The O.C." or movies like "Bring It On" because, although they're fun shows to watch, they will make you feel bad about yourself. Everyone in those movies and shows are beautiful and have perfect lives, but this is not reality.
Be careful about relationships.
Feel free to pamper yourself and spend money on yourself but do not use it as a way to escape your problems.
Do lots of things that you're good at. Vary the things you're doing.
Make as many friends as possible. Work on your relationship with them.
2006-12-28 08:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
self-worth is going deeper than the psychical.. at the same time as being psychically eye-catching to your self is an important element is self-worth, a captivating personality is so a lot extra fufilling. end and imagine deeply about what you're obsessing over, some thing so meaningless as aesthetic splendor. i understand society places such an value on it, yet extremely, it has no meaning. attempt to truly well known how fortunate you're, you will see that out of your eyes, listen, your joints on your palms artwork superbly and basically as they ought to, some human beings are paralyzed and could under no circumstances variety. some human beings are blind, will under no circumstances understand what they appear as if, or see any of the sweetness this international has to furnish. do not starve your self love, that's basically abusing your temple, and makes your metabolism decelerate, your body really will initiate shutting down... for what? to be skinny? Please mama, massive women human beings are captivating. you have to be appreciative of what you do have, and under no circumstances stay on what you seem as if.. splendor is massive, besides the indisputable fact that that is so fleeting. so passe. Have a captivating personality ; ) that is a lot extra rewarding, to both the international and your soul
2016-12-01 06:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off,I think the entire thing is immature but,consider the source on who's telling you your "ugly".
Take a good look at yourself in the mirror,you are the one who is in control of your own emotions.
I had a really bad self esteem until I realized,no man was going to take control over me and,and that I demanded respect...Never demean yourself because you think that somebody will like you another way...If this boy were not in your life,how would you feel about yourself? Think about it....
2006-12-28 08:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by raventears56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about who cares? Its looks as though, you are fishing for a compliment. Don't worry about what your bf says about you, he sounds like a jerk. If I was you, I would drop him like a hot potato. Girl, do not let anyone steal your joy because its not worth it. You are a cute girl and don't deserve for anyone to talk down on you and lower your self-esteem.
2006-12-28 08:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both are good looking. But he's extremely immature for saying that.
2006-12-28 08:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk either way.I say you are the prettiest girl I ever talked too.
2006-12-28 08:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ure beautiful. dont listend to him..u need to block him thats what u need to do..add me dimpz89
take kare
2006-12-28 08:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋