Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

Okay, I just got engaged but I am so lost. I don’t even know where to start as far as planning goes. My mother does not believe in marriage so she is the most sportive and helping person. I don’t have many friends so I don’t have any help. I thought when you got engaged everyone is supposed to be fighting over helping me plan but no one is helping me! I don’t know what to do or where to start. I am so sad and mad at the same time. I have cried more because of this and not because of the actual engagement. Could anyone let me in on where to start and if there are any books you would recommend? I have searched the Internet but it keeps leading me to dead ends. I know I need to send out engagement announcements and I already got a great idea for that from some one on this answer thing. But what else! This is supposed to be a happy time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-28 08:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by goldie89lynn 1 in Family

2006-12-28 08:51:38 · 39 answers · asked by xolaurenmariaox 1 in Friends

2006-12-28 08:51:34 · 60 answers · asked by Karla H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem, whenever i see women i just stare at there feet, even when i talk to them i just stare at feet and not there eyes, what is wrong with me what can i do am i normal, i just want to bend down a rub worship lick those feet with the painted toe nails and the footy oil. What can i do?

2006-12-28 08:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by mr.guy 1 in Singles & Dating

most of the time when I make sausage it comes out very dense and when I try to stretch it just falls apart any suggestion.

P.S. Im using pork

2006-12-28 08:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have fallen in love with a muslim man and we both want to commit to each other, but he is worried his family won't accept us. Is this due to religion or culture? I am a Christian.
Has anyone else done this and how did they deal with their partners family?

2006-12-28 08:49:49 · 10 answers · asked by MARIANN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 08:49:38 · 1 answers · asked by jingle bell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 08:49:34 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex. fiance is a great guy we just have nothing in common! and our personalitys clash in not a good way.I have begun to be attracted to one of my male friends we have know each other for 8 yrs and been friends for 5 yrs.Honestly i never saw it comming because we used to hate each other during highschool he was the popular guy who picked on me!After that we met up in college and became friends but for some reason our relationship is built on fighting/teasing each other for fun?We drive each other crazy and now work for the same company just different branches.We have started dating low key. I feel protected, safe, comfortable, and emotionally stable or loved with him.I never felt any of this with my ex.bf but i still feel something for my ex. and i know i care for him a lot should i go back to make sure?I feel bad with how things were left?

2006-12-28 08:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by Christina c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently left a job, and I know someone (actually an old friend!) is trying to spread bad press about me. The talk is not only whithin the company I left, but around the industry with mutual aqaintences. I left a bad situation on my own accord in good standing. The information being passed around is nobody's business, and I believe it is being done in an attempt to diminish my position in the market. Should I blow it off or comfront the perpetrator?

2006-12-28 08:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by Ropholus 2 in Friends

How do you feel about that?

**boy OR girl**

2006-12-28 08:49:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I might go to the mall for a date, but I don't know what we'd do!!! What would be some good stuff to do (besides sex in the bathroom)?

2006-12-28 08:49:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For you women that have been married for a long time you know your husband has your heart and you have his and there isnt any other woman that could ever split up your marriage no matter how good she looks. Does it ever bother you that your husband checks out younger women or any women? I am in my late 20's and my husband is in his early 30's I know he loves me and wouldnt do anything to jeapardize our marriage well at least not cheat on me. Anyway it has always bothered me that he checks out other women even looking at any material that has women in it. I always thought when you got married that the man you married quits looking because they have you. But I was wrong my husband says its a man thing I know there are other hot women out there and I kbnow they couldnt have my man because he lets me know I look but dont touch but it still bothers me some i want his eyes on me not drooling over some other woman. So I just wandered if any of you are dealing with this if it is a problem?

2006-12-28 08:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had a sinus infection for 2 weeks now which causes me to sound very nasally and also cough ALOT....last night my hubby said that he thought I was faking the cough because it was so excessive.....this hurt my feeling terribly and I was pretty pissed off for awhile....i asked him why he would say something like that and after about 30 minutes he said he was just kidding....thoughts???

2006-12-28 08:47:15 · 21 answers · asked by Lori W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend juts borke up with me. I still really like her and want to be with her but she says that she donst want a boyfriend right now. What should I do?

2006-12-28 08:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:46:37 · 11 answers · asked by twistedmister64 1 in Singles & Dating

So Im getting married Jan 27th and well I decided since I use to be a club DJ that I was just gonna do it myself. Get the songs and then put them on a mixing board program I have and just walk away. Well needless to say there is a huge diffrence between mushy wedding songs and pullen out the glow sticks techno... HELP!!!

2006-12-28 08:45:52 · 23 answers · asked by beck.lynn 1 in Weddings

2006-12-28 08:45:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or are they just coincidences? For instance if you see someone all the time in places you wouldn't normally or someone contacting you when you have been thinking about them. Just coincidence or something else?

2006-12-28 08:45:00 · 3 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:44:37 · 36 answers · asked by Andy D 2 in Singles & Dating

Or any online dating horror stories? I'm going on a blind date tonight, I showed him my pictures, yet I'm still to see his. He said that he's not very photogenic. Should I be alarmed?

2006-12-28 08:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by ƒ®îgg Üþ ©hî¢ ®™ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my mom told me that she loves me bc she has too...and shes like and you wonder why there is favoritizum in the house and tells you you are fat..... well yeah pretty much not cool.... is this your problem too.....

2006-12-28 08:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by lvn the rodeo... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems to me, women use sex to get a guy and once they are married to him, there isn't any reason to give him sex to keep him, which is deceitful by the woman, and the frequence of sex goes way down and is extremely frustrating for the man. And once a man figures this out, he is hurt because he has been lied to and mislead by the one person in the world that he should be able to trust and should be helping him to make his life better. It is a betrayal by the woman in what she led him to expect in marriage. That things would get better not worse. No wonder so many men stray, they simply were lied to by someone that is supposed to love him.

2006-12-28 08:43:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 08:42:40 · 19 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 08:42:11 · 14 answers · asked by neoscribbler 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, he is 30. We have both been planning to get our own apartments, but it seems pointless to pay two rents when we will probably be staying together at one place or the other. I am in college and working, he works full-time. My parents have strong religious beliefs, and I don't necessarily think they are wrong, but they do not believe in us living together. They said they would cut me off completely if we moved in together...school, health and car insurance, etc...I don't really mind the bills except for health insurance. I won't have any if they cut me off, and I can't go on my boyfriend's insurance unless we are married. Even though we plan on marrying in the future, my parents said they would not support my decision and would not participate in a wedding when the time comes. I don't want to live at home any more. So we are planning on having a small ceremony in a few weeks. Are they forcing me to get married? Am I making too rash of a decision?

2006-12-28 08:41:14 · 37 answers · asked by wsnichols89 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this boy, but Im afraid to tell him.all my friends say I should ask him out, and I do want to but im always afraid the guy will say no. what advice can you give me?

2006-12-28 08:40:46 · 22 answers · asked by sarah♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband says he does but i think he is just lying... what would you say?

2006-12-28 08:40:33 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my cousin who is jewish is getting married to a cathlic girl in april. he wanted a rabbi and a hoopa ( traditional for a jewish wedding) but she convinced him to have a priest and no Hoopah and my family isnt confortable going to a christian wedding. what do we do? i mean like my cousins whole fmaily, besides his parents and grandparents are against it. his new wifey wont even comprimise and have a priest and a Rabbi. do we still go the wedding or what? we tried talking to him, but its no use.

2006-12-28 08:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

I was seeing a girl, we fell out over an issue of her past, that I wrongly judged her on. She ended things and I tried to get back with her. She was unsure and because I felt I was being strung along, I lost my temper and said things things I should not. She is now not speaking to me and things of me as the most judgemental person she has known. She is ignoring my text and mail.

How to I get her back talking so that I can let her see that the opinion she has of me is wrong. I am not the person she thinks I am.

This is a long distance relationship, which made it harder to simply discuss and resolve things. Any advice on how to get her talking to me again ?

2006-12-28 08:40:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce